I feel so pathetic right now. All im asking for is advice.

[kontrol freak]

i suggest this is just the way you are meant to be and you should maybe accept yourself as being perfectly normal and you don't need to be around anybody. life is too short to worry about yourself, just do what you enjoy most and if something causes you pain, don't do it.

you are on a 'downward' spiral into oblivion and you have crossed the rubicon. there is *nothing* you can do about it now and the most you can do to ease the rest of your years is keep away from people and just do what you need to do to stay alive. eventually you will find human contact will be unnescessary for survival.

you are going to have a terrible life ahead of you that may or may not be worth living out in its entirety, but if you decide to try well, good luck to ya.

acceptance is the key in this situation. stop telling yourself that you need to be someone, just be okay with who you are..... you have nothing to lose anyway.

you wouldn't insult someone else and call them pathetic because they don't feel worthy enough to talk to you, so why should you do it to yourself?

 

[The_Next_Big_Thing]

Do not listen to him!!!

Originally posted by kontrol freak
i suggest this is just the way you are meant to be and you should maybe accept yourself as being perfectly normal and you don't need to be around anybody. life is too short to worry about yourself, just do what you enjoy most and if something causes you pain, don't do it.

you are on a 'downward' spiral into oblivion and you have crossed the rubicon. there is *nothing* you can do about it now and the most you can do to ease the rest of your years is keep away from people and just do what you need to do to stay alive. eventually you will find human contact will be unnescessary for survival.

you are going to have a terrible life ahead of you that may or may not be worth living out in its entirety, but if you decide to try well, good luck to ya.

acceptance is the key in this situation. stop telling yourself that you need to be someone, just be okay with who you are..... you have nothing to lose anyway.

you wouldn't insult someone else and call them pathetic because they don't feel worthy enough to talk to you, so why should you do it to yourself?

There is always time to change your lot in life. No matter what anybody says. Change for yourself but also change to show up the naysayers that say that you are a piece of flaming poop. They know nothing about yourself. Hold out hope for the future, grab your life by the horns, and take control.

In no way, shape, or form is this guys advice to be taken seriously. He is a hater that looks at the glass as half empty. He is trying to as his name suggest control your lot in life as a control freak. NO, you are the only control on your life. Don't be dragged down by what he has to say.

My suggestion to you is to just work on yourself a lot. You need it. I remember posts from people that are fourty from this site that were just like you. They worked their way out of the downward spiral but first (you might have already hit rock bottom) you must climb back up from the grave that you dug. Now is the time to grasp the future. Don't let the future grab you.

Put your own happiness and don't forget "Happiness is a choice. It should also be the only choice" unfortuanately most people choose to choose the wrong choice.

With a simple search on how to raise self-esteem:self-esteem
Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

I want you to do a few things for me right now,
1.) I want you to go get a piece of paper and pencil and write down every positive thing that you have done (clubs, sports, jobs, and etc)
2.) Write in another paper, what you want to do with yourself (other words: turn what you want to do into your goals)
3.) Write down where you want to see yourself in a year, 5 years, 10 years, 25 years, and 50 years. Make sure these are positive and what you would think you would want to do.
4.) Write down all the negative aspects that you see in yourself and throw them into the trash and never look at it again (symbolic of the death of one life and beginning of another)
5.) Finally, finish off all goals and continue your resume to make it bigger and bigger.

The_Next_Big_Thing