I feel small..

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well about one of my other posts.... When i was dating some girl, this guy tried to fight me over her. Not in order to protect her, just to fight me because he was butthurt or something. I didnt fight him, i walked away. Awhile later she broke up with me for him. Was this a weak thing of me to do..... should i of fought him?
 

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Originally posted by Swede54
well about one of my other posts.... When i was dating some girl, this guy tried to fight me over her. Not in order to protect her, just to fight me because he was butthurt or something. I didnt fight him, i walked away. Awhile later she broke up with me for him. Was this a weak thing of me to do..... should i of fought him?
I'm starting to think that you are a troll. sorry if i'm wrong. but common! are you serious? think through this logically.

do you think that you are a coward?
 

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Re: Re: I feel small..

Originally posted by 00Kevin
I'm starting to think that you are a troll. sorry if i'm wrong. but common! are you serious? think through this logically.

do you think that you are a coward?
nah im not a troll man, and i dont think im a coward. But people around me say **** like she went with him because he was fighting for her and more of a man.
 

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Re: Re: Re: I feel small..

Originally posted by Swede54
nah im not a troll man, and i dont think im a coward. But people around me say **** like she went with him because he was fighting for her and more of a man.
If I was in your shoes then I would accept what those people are saying. They are correct. Women like power and he showed you up. Showed her how week you are.

Don't sulk over this. Learn from it.

Tell me something do you think you can take this guy?

Your honour and your reputation has been damaged in this. And that is why the girl has left you.

Honestly, I would start something with him and kick his ass in. If you do this now when you are young you won't ever let people talk advantage of you when you are older. You can't kick the crap out of someone and get away with it when you are older. I used to fight a lot when I was in high school. I don't regret any of it either. In fact, I only regret the fights I didn't start.

If you are not a fighter, then at the very least just learn to stand up for yourself. That s the lesson that you must learn. If you don't stand up for yourself you won't get any respect. Don't let people talk about you like that either. Put them in their place.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: I feel small..

Originally posted by 00Kevin
If I was in your shoes then I would accept what those people are saying. They are correct. Women like power and he showed you up. Showed her how week you are.

Don't sulk over this. Learn from it.

Tell me something do you think you can take this guy?

Your honour and your reputation has been damaged in this. And that is why the girl has left you.

Honestly, I would start something with him and kick his ass in. If you do this now when you are young you won't ever let people talk advantage of you when you are older. You can't kick the crap out of someone and get away with it when you are older. I used to fight a lot when I was in high school. I don't regret any of it either. In fact, I only regret the fights I didn't start.

If you are not a fighter, then at the very least just learn to stand up for yourself. That s the lesson that you must learn. If you don't stand up for yourself you won't get any respect. Don't let people talk about you like that either. Put them in their place.

i do want to fight him. He doesnt know how to fight, and hes the same size as me. However i have been foxing for 5months.
 

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I'm not a fighter either, I like to work things out and find peaceful solutions. But regardless, I will stand my ground nomatter what. There are some bad people in the world and I will protect myself by any means necessary.
 

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smack him in the back of the head.....
 

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Go Mike Tyson on his butt and bite his friggin ear!

Seriously man...you ain't suppose to let some guy own you like that.
 

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the funniest part about most people is that they think they are tough ****, but when you push back, they collapse so easily. I am not saying this guy will back down, but if this guy is just trying to start ****, self defense is a *****;) .

I doubt you will get the girl, and this choice you made had any affect on her. however girls do get interested when they hear about fights you get in, but it depends on the girl and the situation.
 
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