i feel like ****. talked to my ex yesterday

[NoMoreAFC]

you don't understand do you guys?

in a 1 year relationship we broke up 3 times, the first time was in New Years Eve i dumped her and she went home crying, i told her there wasn't a spark in the relationship, that she didnt attracted me... 2 days later i asked her if we could get back together, she said yes, in Easter she broke up with me, saying she was under heavy pression and it wasn't working, in that phase she started to become strange, she called me less or very scarcely, if i didnt say nothing for a week or 2 she would go crazy and asking me why i was doing that.she dumped me this 2n time but somewhat regreted it and we got back in the same day. 3r rejection and final, she cutted all contact phone, physical contact, always making up excuses not to be with, lots of mysteries like guys calling her and sending text messages saying i adore you.... this led me to got berzerk and call her on her act and then she broke up, thought she was waiting for me to get mad at her so we broke up, all we were doing was yelling at each other, no communication.



truth is i never loved this girl, i only kept her because i could have some physical intimacy with her. and i think the 2 nd phase in easter she wanted to break too but couldnt. dont think she loved me either but she forced me to say it too her.

why the oneitis now? i dont know, maybe i wanted just as a company.


thanks for your oppinions.

 

[lebRambo]

As much as I hate the military, police, etc. I think doing a bootcamp (not the DJ kind) or something would help you out a lot. You need to toughen up, dude! From now on, before you call her or try to contact her, imagine you are her, and some girl whom you have no attraction for keeps trying to talk to you and pleads and everything. How sad for her would you feel? How pathetic must you think she is? Despite all this, you still wouldn't accept her. In fact, it just makes it that much worse, since she won't leave you alone.

This is EXACTLY how she feels. You know the right thing to do, and that is NOTHING. don't contact her, try to talk to her, nothing!

good luck bro, I really hope you manage to salvage some pride out of this.

 

[animal crackers]

eww she's gross.

The only reason you're so infatuated with her is because you haven't found anything else.

Suck it up and learn how to game girls. Yourself with thank you for it.

 

[Black_Italian]

Haha no offence for the first 10 seconds I thought the pics were of you. She is ugly she’s a 4 a 5 is average and she is less than average.

You can do better than her.

Ninja out

 

[BlackJackal]

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i received an email now from a friend of her in my gmail account i will translate the best i can

Title: You are so annoying

hi paulo how you doig. i know you phoned ana and u told her u still want her and u found a blind woman, yeah she must be really blind to be with a guy like you. lmao kid wake up ana doesnt want anything to do with you nor about the things you do. let her be happy with the guy she really loves. why dont u give up? the more u do that the more she feels sick about u. give up buddy and save your face... ana doesnt have pity of you no more. you lost her so face it, u are losing her with that stupid attitude of yours. be a man once in your life and deal with the situation like u should and dont get hopes about things that have no way to exist. i hope u folllow my advice because after all i dont want to cause u no harm

Damn! just .....damn!

 

[Black_Italian]

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i received an email now from a friend of her in my gmail account i will translate the best i can

Title: You are so annoying

hi paulo how you doig. i know you phoned ana and u told her u still want her and u found a blind woman, yeah she must be really blind to be with a guy like you. lmao kid wake up ana doesnt want anything to do with you nor about the things you do. let her be happy with the guy she really loves. why dont u give up? the more u do that the more she feels sick about u. give up buddy and save your face... ana doesnt have pity of you no more. you lost her so face it, u are losing her with that stupid attitude of yours. be a man once in your life and deal with the situation like u should and dont get hopes about things that have no way to exist. i hope u folllow my advice because after all i dont want to cause u no harm

That sounded like a threat to me. Introduce that guys head to a baseball bat. Your a pus*y you sit there in front of your computer crying over some fat b*tch who hates you.

Take a look at your self man. RIGHT NOW i want you to stand up walk over to a mirror look at your self then ask your self "am i a man?". You got the body of a man but your mind isn’t there yet.

My motto for my life is "no regrets" I believe the single most important thing in life is to have no regrets. If you have regrets then you’re just living to die. Regrets are like a suitcase full of bricks they weigh you down. The only way you will ever become a man is if you free yourself from regrets. Freedom is never having to say you’re sorry........

Ninja out

 

[djbr]

Wait a second.

Girl thinks you're loser.

Girl tells friend you're loser.

Friiend sends an e-mail to you telling that you're loser.


Dude, I'm NOT saying that you're a loser.

What I'm saying is: STOP ACTING LIKE ONE.

Go find your SELF-RESPECT, put your LIFE together and FOR GOD'S SAKE, MAN UP NOW!

1) STOP COMPLAINING.
2) Get over it. Forget girls for some time, make your life worth living.
3) Did I say stop complaining?

No one can make your life work, just you. And I'll give you that: this girl is doing you a favor. Her blatant disrespect act show many things you HAVE TO KNOW about yourself. Use it in your favor, dude.

One day I'm sure she will regret doing that to you, when she sees you with a SUPER HOT on the street. (and a super hot she IS NOT, mind I tell you).

DO SOMETHING NOW!

 

[Royal Elite]

Re: Re: Re: i feel like ****. talked to my ex yesterday

Originally posted by MikeS
I don't think this guy ever reads the thread.... he just puts random cussing together.. and random advice together.. then ends with MAN UP!

This quote here lets me know you rarely if ever get laid. Sweet talk if for women not men. The reason so many men stay here for years and years and learn nothing is because cats talk to them with kid gloves on. Screw that if you are acting like a bit ch then someone needs to give you a slap of reality and call you one. Im not going to talk to no one here like they are little children because they are not. If you are not acting like a Man I will let you know it not rub you on the back and say everything will be ok.

MAN UP!

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
yeah i called her and she was a ***** i thought we could be friends like we were before dating but she said she doesnt want me in her life, said she never liked me and hadn't the courage to tell me that, 2 weeks after we broke up she found 2 guys and lost virginity to one of them when she didnmt with me because she was not prepared or so she said.

Hey once its over then its over. That means you cut that person out of your life.

I have said it again and again women make lousy friends.

You want to be friends with the ex? Don't!!!! she wasn't a good girlfriend to begin with so why would she make a good friend? You are going backwards not forwards.

I think you are lying to yourself by thinking that you can sneak in through the friendship door and get back into the relationship.

You gave her call that was a big mistake. Now she knows you want her back so you gave the b1tch ammo to shot you down.

ONCE ITS OVER YOU WALK AWAY FOREVER. If women knew this was your policy they would be more respectful towards you.

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
you don't understand do you guys?

in a 1 year relationship we broke up 3 times, the first time was in New Years Eve i dumped her and she went home crying, i told her there wasn't a spark in the relationship, that she didnt attracted me... 2 days later i asked her if we could get back together, she said yes.

and 2 days later she discovered how anti- challenge you were, how you don't have a backbone to stand up for yourself and what you believe in, and how easily you can be manipulated.

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
why the oneitis now? i dont know, maybe i wanted just as a company..

You have oneitis because you refuse to approach other women and forget about her. Do the Bootcamp you really need it.

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by DJDamage
You have oneitis because you refuse to approach other women and forget about her. Do the Bootcamp you really need it. [/B]

This is the type of advice that needs to be given out. Excellent piece of advice.

 

[NoMoreAFC]

i admit it was a mistake and i admit that i never loved this girl she was only a companionship. i know i can get better than her that's for sure. i only showed this to u guys because some of u like me have the temptation once the relationship is over to call her back. this is what happens. she may find me a loser, maybe i am, maybe i'm just improving and through the way of improvement many errors are made and many lessons are learned sometimes the hard way. i deserved this punch in the face, really i did. i was in need to wake the **** up. some things i've learned with this:

1 - never date a girl that doesn't attract me, even though she has a cool personality ( which in the end she didn't, she masked the ***** inside )

2 - i invested feelings, money , and valuable time with her, gave lots got nothing in return, never i will go through the same ****

3 - once its over its over, next time i notice signs that i'm going to be substituted by another stud always be the dumper not the dumpee.

4 - give more attention to me than to others

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
truth is i never loved this girl, i only kept her because i could have some physical intimacy with her. and i think the 2 nd phase in easter she wanted to break too but couldnt. dont think she loved me either but she forced me to say it too her.

why the oneitis now? i dont know, maybe i wanted just as a company.

When you are dumped your interest level increases a bit, thus the fear of losing her. She's showing some strength when she dumps you (at the moment).

In other cases it's something like this:
Did you know that there're some girls who after being dumped cry and beg for another chance and as soon as the guy agrees to, they dump him?

It's all about the ego.

You must read this article: http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/24_dating_advice.html

It will make you understand your situation better.