i feel like ****. talked to my ex yesterday

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yeah i called her and she was a ***** i thought we could be friends like we were before dating but she said she doesnt want me in her life, said she never liked me and hadn't the courage to tell me that, 2 weeks after we broke up she found 2 guys and lost virginity to one of them when she didnmt with me because she was not prepared or so she said. i told her i found someone too but i wanted her not the other one but she made fun of my complete afcness,she said: why dont u stay with the girl u met. she is the one for you i dont want u back. guys she is not cute nor gorgeous maybe a 5 or a 6 but i liked her a lot, the other one i met is even hotter than her 26 while my ex is 18, but i couldnt connect with her.

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos.php?gallery=8078


this are her pics. man i feel terrible cuz she treated me like the year we spent together didnt meant nuthin to her. i took some anti-depressive pills so my english may not be most accurate. dont ever do what i did guys, once its game over dont ever let them know u still like them.
 

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umm you can do better.

and if ur that guy that always says he is ugly from overseas...you are better looking that her by far.


go out and get some confidence
 

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You'll be better for it in the end.

...wait a minute, I can't be nice...

She liked you in the beginning, till she found out you were an AFC, and provided no challenge.

All you AFC's who get dumped, stop trying to be friends with the girl in hopes of getting her back.

:down:
 

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She liked you in the beginning, till she found out you were an AFC, and provided no challenge
its not even being a challenge.

if u are a afc with her....as in no confidence.

then you are prolly a pushover with everyone else as well.

meaning ur not a man
 

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Yeah, his confidence sounds non-existant. Kinda needy and clingy.

NoMoreAFC, it's time to live up to your name.
 

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would u stay friends with your ex and see her kissing and hitting on other guys? i wouldnt and i dont think any of us would choose that option.- i thought i could get her back by showing i was not needy all the post breakup time that i even met other girls, but that didnt work and the way she treated me was a *****y way to treat anyone, even an ex.
 

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man..wtf I would of put that bytch in her place.

dont let anyone dis-respect you
 

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i thought i could get her back
Her choice, that's what you misunderstood. It was her choice. You getting other girls to make her jealous or something? She realized it was an act and you still were stuck on her. She didn't want anything to do with you.

Look, none of that matters now, move on and we'll all be happy for you.

Cheers!
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
yeah i called her and she was a ***** i thought we could be friends like we were before dating but she said she doesnt want me in her life, said she never liked me and hadn't the courage to tell me that, 2 weeks after we broke up she found 2 guys and lost virginity to one of them when she didnmt with me because she was not prepared or so she said. i told her i found someone too but i wanted her not the other one but she made fun of my complete afcness,she said: why dont u stay with the girl u met. she is the one for you i dont want u back. guys she is not cute nor gorgeous maybe a 5 or a 6 but i liked her a lot, the other one i met is even hotter than her 26 while my ex is 18, but i couldnt connect with her.

Reread this **** over and over again and you will realize why she dump you. YOU ARE NOT A MAN! WOMEN LIKE MEN!
Stop acting like you need permission to be what you want to be. If she disses you with no problem and you are afriad to tell her about herself back that means her will is stronger then yours and that is why she screw two other guys after you. Be a man with women. You have the right to tell a chick she is getting on your nerves is she is getting on your nerve.
The very second you hesitate telling a chick how you feel she you no longer being a man. Women never hesitate to tell you how they feel! Being a man means speaking your mind when you need too. Not two days after she disrespected you or an hour later. If she gets out of place NOW put her back in place NOW!

MAN UP!
 

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That girl is seriously a 2...maybe. No way she makes a 5 or 6. I've seen your pics bro and you can do much better, but only if you get your mind right first.
 

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on.....

Hey no more afc,


There are only two ways to cure a 'broken heart':

1...Get back with her........
or
2...Find someone new.....
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Pal, there is no other way to get it done.....

so,

Forget her and move on.

cave dweller
 

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i received an email now from a friend of her in my gmail account i will translate the best i can

Title: You are so annoying

hi paulo how you doig. i know you phoned ana and u told her u still want her and u found a blind woman, yeah she must be really blind to be with a guy like you. lmao kid wake up ana doesnt want anything to do with you nor about the things you do. let her be happy with the guy she really loves. why dont u give up? the more u do that the more she feels sick about u. give up buddy and save your face... ana doesnt have pity of you no more. you lost her so face it, u are losing her with that stupid attitude of yours. be a man once in your life and deal with the situation like u should and dont get hopes about things that have no way to exist. i hope u folllow my advice because after all i dont want to cause u no harm
 

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Re: Re: i feel like ****. talked to my ex yesterday

Originally posted by Royal Elite
Reread this **** over and over again and you will realize why she dump you. YOU ARE NOT A MAN! WOMEN LIKE MEN!
Stop acting like you need permission to be what you want to be. If she disses you with no problem and you are afriad to tell her about herself back that means her will is stronger then yours and that is why she screw two other guys after you. Be a man with women. You have the right to tell a chick she is getting on your nerves is she is getting on your nerve.
The very second you hesitate telling a chick how you feel she you no longer being a man. Women never hesitate to tell you how they feel! Being a man means speaking your mind when you need too. Not two days after she disrespected you or an hour later. If she gets out of place NOW put her back in place NOW!

MAN UP!
I don't think this guy ever reads the thread.... he just puts random cussing together.. and random advice together.. then ends with MAN UP!
 

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I really hate being harsh with people, but you cause all this yourself. The reason she is being so mean to you is so you finally get the message and leave her alone. You haven't taken the hint, so she is trying to force it into your head and get you to move on.

Your looks or your time with her have nothing to do with it. She just sees you as a loser who has no confidence, won't stand up for himself and is completely needy. The harder you try with her, the more she is backing off and it's getting so she has lost all her respect for you.

Her friend gave you some good advice by telling you it's your attitude that's the problem and you need to be a man.

For the record, she is not very attractive. You are very confused by your emotions and it's going to cause you a lot of harm until you let go.

This is a golden rule: when a chick backs off, you back off more! Don't ever try to put things right and never try to get her back.

I understand your confidence must feel like sh1t now, but this is why you are on this board. I read you're going to start bulking - this will boost your confidence a lot. Do a search for some other confidence advice and make this your priority. I was exactly like you last year and now I'm overflowing with confidence (and not the fake kind).
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i received an email now from a friend of her in my gmail account i will translate the best i can

Title: You are so annoying

hi paulo how you doig. i know you phoned ana and u told her u still want her and u found a blind woman, yeah she must be really blind to be with a guy like you. lmao kid wake up ana doesnt want anything to do with you nor about the things you do. let her be happy with the guy she really loves. why dont u give up? the more u do that the more she feels sick about u. give up buddy and save your face... ana doesnt have pity of you no more. you lost her so face it, u are losing her with that stupid attitude of yours. be a man once in your life and deal with the situation like u should and dont get hopes about things that have no way to exist. i hope u folllow my advice because after all i dont want to cause u no harm
Good Advice.
 

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NoMoreAFC, you're the most annoying piece of shit on this entire forum.

If you're persistent at anything in life, its at COMPLAINING. Get your act together, loser.
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
yeah man i'm a loser



i'm out
You see, this is your problem. You should not accept when people call you a loser, you should stand up for yourself! Tell us all to go to hell, prove us wrong...just stand up for yourself!

If people don't show you respect, you earn it or you take it!
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
You see, this is your problem. You should not accept when people call you a loser, you should stand up for yourself! Tell us all to go to hell, prove us wrong...just stand up for yourself!

If people don't show you respect, you earn it or you take it!
Stop it. Every concievable piece of advice has been offered to him. I can slap a monkey's ass a million times but I sure as hell can't call it a baboon, whatever that means. lol.
 

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