I feel like owen wilson is his depression in Wedding Crashers...

[ima str8 up pimp]

I can't make my relationship work recently, I'm just overdoing it, I know it's an ego problem on my part I've hooked up with just about 36 or 38 girls I get a different number the past two lists I've made lol, I lost the first one but I'm not sure who I'm missing at all...

anyway back to the point... my girl whom I've been in and out of a reltionship with the last 2 and 3/4 years is telling me she needs space...

NOW,
to me the problem is that I know for starters that I can be an arrogant egomaniacal bi-polar prick, I have alot of experience on both sides of the spectrum...

BUT never have I gotten along well in relationships mainly ours... it's like I'm getting stuck in the adrenaline rush it takes just to hook any random girl, you know like the feeling you get when you're going in for the kill, why am I still stuck in that feeling with my own girl? and I'm still hooking them ... THIS is where I feel like Owen in wedding crashers:

it feels like a lost cause, tonight I'll hook up with a decent girl desy and within the next week this good girl named kristen, yeah I'm one of those jocks... but I don't know how to handle a relationship? I don't even feel it anymore because I just don't believe in myself for a relationship or even a true friend... I feel like this guy because I am a good liar to tget into a girls pants, but why do I keep trying so sincerely with this girl? I love her isn't that how I'm suppose to show I care? I get the burned out feeling because it seems like I'm constantly digging for her...

is it maybe that I'm too blind to see I already won with my girlfriend? I don't know how to just stay still and enjoy the relationship but I still get so insecure about losing her that I overdo it... don't get me wrong sometimes she gets clingy but I feel like she feels she doesn't really need me... IDK how to even this out and maintain a stable relationship

Please no negative comments as this is a sincere thread and any input would be great thanks...

 

[WC2]

I can't make my relationship work recently, I'm just overdoing it, I know it's an ego problem on my part I've hooked up with just about 36 or 38 girls I get a different number the past two lists I've made lol, I lost the first one but I'm not sure who I'm missing at all...

anyway back to the point... my girl whom I've been in and out of a reltionship with the last 2 and 3/4 years is telling me she needs space...

NOW,
to me the problem is that I know for starters that I can be an arrogant egomaniacal bi-polar prick, I have alot of experience on both sides of the spectrum...

BUT never have I gotten along well in relationships mainly ours... it's like I'm getting stuck in the adrenaline rush it takes just to hook any random girl, you know like the feeling you get when you're going in for the kill, why am I still stuck in that feeling with my own girl? and I'm still hooking them ... THIS is where I feel like Owen in wedding crashers:

it feels like a lost cause, tonight I'll hook up with a decent girl desy and within the next week this good girl named kristen, yeah I'm one of those jocks... but I don't know how to handle a relationship? I don't even feel it anymore because I just don't believe in myself for a relationship or even a true friend... I feel like this guy because I am a good liar to tget into a girls pants, but why do I keep trying so sincerely with this girl? I love her isn't that how I'm suppose to show I care? I get the burned out feeling because it seems like I'm constantly digging for her...

is it maybe that I'm too blind to see I already won with my girlfriend? I don't know how to just stay still and enjoy the relationship but I still get so insecure about losing her that I overdo it... don't get me wrong sometimes she gets clingy but I feel like she feels she doesn't really need me... IDK how to even this out and maintain a stable relationship

Please no negative comments as this is a sincere thread and any input would be great thanks...

I could give you some advice but you're being so vague about the whole situation.

Who's cheated on who?

Who's lied to who?

I sense some hurt coming from the relationship and I'm willing to bet someone has done the dirty on the other.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

you're right I almost can't believe you got it right on the money...

I had sex with this Hayley approximately 3 days before my girl who I love now Nina started dating again, Hayley thought she was pregnant recently so I had to tell Nina, first Nina thought I lied and cheated on her with Hayley but that just wasn't true and I convinced her of the fact , it turns out Hayley wasn't pregnant but Nina was relentlessly pissed at me the last week and a half , it took two strong tries to finally get her to come around because she was starting to ignore me and hold the fact over my head I called her out and she forgave but now shes saying she needs space and I get pissed for the reasons already stated in my above post, I hope this info helps you for some decent feedback for me thank you so much I was starting to look past this and drawing other different conclusions stemming from my feelings of rejection... but I see well now..

Thank you
Jorge

 

[WC2]

you're right I almost can't believe you got it right on the money...

I had sex with this Hayley approximately 3 days before my girl who I love now Nina started dating again, Hayley thought she was pregnant recently so I had to tell Nina, first Nina thought I lied and cheated on her with Hayley but that just wasn't true and I convinced her of the fact , it turns out Hayley wasn't pregnant but Nina was relentlessly pissed at me the last week and a half , it took two strong tries to finally get her to come around because she was starting to ignore me and hold the fact over my head I called her out and she forgave but now shes saying she needs space and I get pissed for the reasons already stated in my above post, I hope this info helps you for some decent feedback for me thank you so much I was starting to look past this and drawing other different conclusions stemming from my feelings of rejection... but I see well now..

Thank you
Jorge

You surrendered your power when you shouldn't have.

You were RIGHT in the situation and like any manipulative woman, she tried to turn it around on you.

If you're saying that you did this BEFORE you two started dating, there is no reason for her to be mad at you. Yes, maybe she feels differently about the relationship, but no she shouldn't be mad at you. You didn't do anything that warrants her to be pissed off!

So now she twisted it around on you and hung it over your head and you took the bait. Let me guess, you apologized to her multiple times? Now she TRULY believes that you're in the wrong and she has the power to do what she wants now with no consequences.

She feels that even if she were to go out and f*ck a dude tonight with you knowing, you will and should come back to her afterwards. No good.

In the future when your gut tells you that you are RIGHT, FOLLOW IT.

Your woman may be pissed off for a day or two, but if you're truly right, then she will eventually have to accept the fact that it's not your fault; it's just a ****ty situation.

What do you do now? It seems like you are pretty bent out of shape over this girl, so you need to reevaluate your self value. How much do you need her that it hurts when shes gone? Maybe too much? I think so.

And this is the toughest part but you MUST GO THROUGH WITH IT. I will give you the reasons afterwards.

1. Do not contact this woman unless she contacts you.

2. When she contacts you, tell her that she had no right to be mad at you and that you're moving on to greener pastures. Be polite about this. Don't step down to her level.

3. Stop contacting her.

Now why are you doing this?

1) You need to embed some confidence in yourself right now and tell yourself that you as a man can live on without a woman and especially a woman who freaked out on you for an invalid reason.

2) She will learn that you are truly a MAN and stand for what you believe in. She will emotionally feel this and eventually pull back towards you. Do you take her back? That all depends how hard she pulls back and how genuine she is about it.

After you've done this, you've transferred all the power from her, to you. You've decided to move on with your life. She can have her space, because after all you think her freaking out doesn't fit your attributes for a girlfriend anyways.

If you keep trying to contact this girl, telling you her sorry it will get you no where. Girls LOVE to be told they are right when they aren't and LOVE when guys say "sorry it's my fault." Unfortunately, it also gives them the confidence to date other men and put you in the dog house for however long she wants (maybe forever).

Win back your self-value. Watch her follow.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

I have and have.... she'll come back I know her.. remember, 2 and 3/4 years... she'll be the death of me this girl.

 

[WC2]

I have and have.... she'll come back I know her.. remember, 2 and 3/4 years... she'll be the death of me this girl.

So the question is do you want to deal with this BS for the rest of your life?

If you've done this many times, she clearly isn't getting the picture here.

You need to drop this girl for a long time or forever if she is driving you to depression. Trust me, she's not worth it. I don't care if she's a hotter version of Eva Mendez who would never cheat on you.

Your well being is much more important than her false contempt for you over something that wasn't your fault.

I wish I were in your position, I'd tell this b!tch to take a hike.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I thought you were a pimp

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147402

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Heheh,.. time for some DJ Math:

I can't make my relationship work recently, ... my girl whom I've been in and out of a reltionship with the last 2 and 3/4 years is telling me she needs space...

Word problem: If the age of a STR8_PIMP is 19 and he's been pinning for his ONEitis girl for 2.75 years, how old was the PIMP at the time he met his ONEitis? If your answer is 16 you are correct.

Ah to be 19 and wrapped up in the emotional wreckage of a ONEitis.

 

[Solomon]

Heheh,.. time for some DJ Math:



Word problem: If the age of a STR8_PIMP is 19 and he's been pinning for his ONEitis girl for 2.75 years, how old was the PIMP at the time he met his ONEitis? If your answer is 16 you are correct.

Ah to be 19 and wrapped up in the emotional wreckage of a ONEitis.

It's not a fun place to be, took me two years to get out of it when I was 19.....