I feel like complete **** right now

thunder_god

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Maximus Rex said:
Women rude by nature. They've been conditioned since childhood to think that men are here for the purpose of slavishly serving their needs. Couple that with fact that a lot the younger generation didn't receive proper home training makes for some maladjusted human beings who lack certain social graces and are unaware of common etiquette. As far as the emotions, sadly the feelings are going to linger a bit (because it's as Harry Wilimington would so eloquently put,) "new stimuli." What's going to make or break you is how you deal with it. It's cool to be upset, angry, distraught, and disappointed, just as long you don't let those feelings consume you and you allow them to be the basis on how you think of and deal with women. This experience is suppose to make you BETTER not BITTER.

Payroll (one of the pimps interviewed on the classic film documentary American Pimp said on American Pimp: Raw Outtakes and The Hard Truth that there's a saying among pimps that goes "You have to go through a thousand hoes before you get to that one true prostitute. Right now I'm on nine hundred and ninety-nine. That's where you are now Thor, you're at nine hundred and ninety-nine and sooner or later as you see growth and development in your game some chick is growing to like your pimpin' and how swell you pimp, then she'll choose accordingly.

You needed this experience because it will make you a better and stronger man. It will teach you not to trip off of the little things that women do. In time it you'll become immune to it and you may even laugh at it.
This experience was definitely a wakeup call to me, to show me how little game I have. I already have plans to improve my game, just that my mind is all ****ed up right and I really need it to be nice and clear so that I can concentrate in school and pull my grades up. If I get kicked out of my program thats just going to send me into more of a downward spiral.

I have my first salsa class tomorrow, so hopefully I will meet some cute girls and that will help take my mind off of this bull**** and her.
 

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OMG I can't believe this ****. So this chick was giving me the cold shoulder in class today and stuff and then after classes are done, I get a text from her after I already deleted her number. She gives me fluff talk about how her presentation is done and how she could have used more practice. Then thanks me for bringing her back her item with a stupid smiling face at the end. I haven't responded back. I tried to hide the fact that what she did this morning and last night bothered me, so I chatted up a lot of people in class today and was laughing and smiling a lot. I was also flirting with the girl who sits beside me in class too. Do u guys think I should just stay NC or reply back with something short? Things were definitely weird today, she was doing a presentation and I didn't even want to look at her and when I pass by her I had to look in another direction. When she came down to setup, which was right beside where I was sitting, no eye contact or talking to me at all. Obviously if I can make this not weird that would be ideal but in terms of pursuing her anymore, I'm done, way too much drama and bull**** for one girl.
If you don't stay NC I will f*cking kill you. And that's not an empty threat. I will look up your IP, type some sh*t into Google Maps, I'll come to your house and straight up kill you.
 

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F*ck that. Ignore that b!tch. If she really wanted to thank you, she should have said it to your face not with some cheesy a$$ text.
 

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This is a soap opera for nerds. Dude you should totally write her a 5 page letter detailing your pain and how she ****ed you over by not contacting you for 3 weeks. Chicks dig real paper and handwriting. Use perfume on the paper too.
 

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thunder_god said:
You'll need to go read my previous threads to get a better idea of what happened.
thunder_god said:
Also she told me several times in the past that she found it hot and cute that I never kissed a girl before and that she wanted to kiss me.
Well damn, now I see why this has you so fvcked up. I'm not going to get into all the horrible mistakes you made from your other threads, hopefully you've learned from this. None of this high school drama sh!t would've happened had you just chilled out, forgot about her and let her chase you after she tried to turn the date into a group outing. Don't beat yourself up too much though. Your mission now is to learn, push yourself out of your comfort zone and get some more experience with women and better social skills in general. Read the bible, go out and start talking to everyone but especially women, keep yourself fit or get fit, find some hobbies you enjoy, all the basic stuff.

Don't waste another speck of mental energy on this chick. Whenever she comes up force your mind to focus on something else. Stay present and in the moment. When you see her in public by all means be your usual charming self but don't chase her or put any effort into initiating anything with her. You're obviously awkward as hell with women right now and that's perfectly understandable but with some practice and perseverance you'll eventually get the hang of things. Now get out there and make things happen. The next thread I see from you better be a field report of you fvcking a chick silly.
 

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Listen to This

Thor, you need to listen to this,

Episode 35: Conquer Your Fear – Go on a Planned “Bad” Date


http://www.stoplosingwomen.com/

Go to 6:46-9:30 of the podcast.
 

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How long have you known her and your groveling over this chick? Did you bang her? I'm not roasting you here bud but how did you get so emotionally attached to this chick and never even go inside her?

Sounds like she is an attention ***** and she wanted you to chase her so she drop you. And you got played like a champ. I cant grill you to much right now bc i did almost the exact same thing and am in nc but i did use her like cvm dumpster for a while atleast then went all beta like you did.

Best thing to do is forget it. Get your game tight and dont worry ALL the time about women. Thats what alot of guys problem is, they are all worried about women and slaying pvssy 24/7. Nothing wrong with that but its like being a salesmen sometimes you hit a rocky spot and dont make any money. If you dont have a backup plan you cant pay bills etc and it consumes you.

If you constantly worry about scoring with someone things like this will happen. The smallest rejection will become the biggest let down in the world. So be yourself man do what you do , do good in school, study, work hard , and just improve on you. Worry about the pvssy on your freetime and rejection like this wont be that bad.

Hope this helps.
 

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fuko has some good info. Honestly this opinion wont be popular on here I imagine, but if youre looking for some quick relief (and by no means a solution to the deeper problem you have: game), go to the bar, have 2 nice high ABV IPAs in the span of 30-45 minutes. Youll feel better
 
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