I feel like complete **** right now

[thunder_god]

There was a girl that I was ghosting because I ****ed up not knowing how to play the game, and not escalating. Anyone's we've had no contact for 3 weeks now because of our placement. We returned back to classes this week, but I never got a chance to speak to her. Anyway's today I was the last person to leave our lab after staying behind to practice some stuff. I found one of her items, so I texted her asking if its hers. I get no reply back for a while, so I go on facebook to our class facebook page and post on it. Well and behold, within 20 mins she writes on the post claiming its hers. This proves she deleted and blocked my number and also blocked me from seeing her online on the facebook chat on facebook.

I feel like complete **** right now. I can't believe this ****ing pain I am feeling right now. I just deleted her number as well, but still the ****ing feeling is so intense right now, I don't know how to deal with it. I kind of want to delete her off of facebook but then it would show that I was affected by her deleting and blocking my number. I don't even want to give her back the item now and just give it to someone else in class to return it back to her, but then it would show that I cared too much and was affected. I didn't expect anything to happen by me giving her back her item, and I thought it was a nice gesture just so things aren't weird or anything between us but damn, I feel like I should have just left it there. I have been feeling like **** lately for not contacting her and seeing her being distance now but ****, this **** really hit the spot. I really need to ****ing move on now, but how the **** am I gonna do this? I'm at a all time low right now. I'm going to get kicked out of my program because of this pain and crap I have been feeling and I desperately need to pull my grades back up but now my mind is all ****ed up now.

Just when you thought the pain couldn't get any worst, and then it just hits you in the right spot.

 

[Albatross953]

Dude quit being so hard on yourself. You're allowed to screw up only 9999 women. Learn from it and quit worrying.

Plus, if she was really into you she would be there. Period.

Now, standard advice....gym, buds, plates.

 

[thunder_god]

Dude quit being so hard on yourself. You're allowed to screw up only 9999 women. Learn from it and quit worrying.

Plus, if she was really into you she would be there. Period.

Now, standard advice....gym, buds, plates.

I was just starting to get my life back on track and focusing on me by hitting the gym, shopping for a new wardrobe, and going out more, but then this bull**** happened. I honestly feel like breaking down right now.

 

[VladPatton]

Damn, man pull yourself together. WTF did you think was going to happen?? This is why you never do the stupid Facebook add and this is why you delete a girl's number after you figure out it's not gonna go anywhere. They sure as hell will delete you. No cutesy texts, no Facebook Likes, you mac em and you ask them out, done and done. Nothing happens, delete. You give zero explanations for your actions if asked.

Today you learned a hard lesson, bud.

 

[thunder_god]

Damn, man pull yourself together. WTF did you think was going to happen?? This is why you never do the stupid Facebook add and this is why you delete a girl's number after you figure out it's not gonna go anywhere. They sure as hell will delete you. No cutesy texts, no Facebook Likes, you mac em and you ask them out, done and done. Nothing happens, delete. You give zero explanations for your actions if asked.

Today you learned a hard lesson, bud.

I added her on facebook back in september, when I hardly knew her and didn't have any feelings for me, if I had known all this crap was going to happen I would never have done that.

 

[asa_don]

This chick is playing games with you and is using this incident to cut you out. If she liked you she would have called to see what was going on.

 

[thunder_god]

When I sensed her being distance I backed off, but then this **** happened. If I were to chase, she would have backed off even further, so in the end it wouldn't have mattered what I did. I guess the only thing you can do is to never let her interest level drop.

 

[Nickface]

Dude it's easy for us to say "don't get upset about it" but honestly just chill. Know this ain't the end of the world and get your act together. So I guess we can gather from this that nothing will ever come together for you guys.

Look at it like this, because it's true. Tomorrow is a brand new day to be a new you. Try to cut all ties with this girl as much as you can. Her Facebook, her number, anything that reminds you of her. And remember that everything will be ok. Look at the future my man. Things get a whole lot brighter...

 

[thunder_god]

I'm not worried about defriending her on facebook, but just that everyone else in my class will know about it, and then rumours will spread and **** and thats what I'm more concerned about. I've already deleted her number.

 

[Nickface]

How old are you? Who cares what people think. So then don't delete her as a friend on Facebook. How about never signing on to Facebook? Facebook is the single worse thing to have when it comes to girls. I know you check on her page from time to time. Can you at least limit yourself that way?

It's either you feel like crap for awhile and continue to play these games or you take control and set your own boundaries...

 

[thunder_god]

How old are you? Who cares what people think. So then don't delete her as a friend on Facebook. How about never signing on to Facebook? Facebook is the single worse thing to have when it comes to girls. I know you check on her page from time to time. Can you at least limit yourself that way?

It's either you feel like crap for awhile and continue to play these games or you take control and set your own boundaries...

For sure now I will stop checking on her page for good! Its really time to move on, I guess this closure kind of helped but damn it stings like a *****. I intend on deleting my facebook page some time in the future as well. Should I just ignore her completely now in class or just say hi and bye and all that fluff talk bull****?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Remember the Rules of the Game

Anyway's today I was the last person to leave our lab after staying behind to practice some stuff. I found one of her items, so I texted her asking if its hers. I get no reply back for a while, so I go on facebook to our class facebook page and post on it. Well and behold, within 20 mins she writes on the post claiming its hers. This proves she deleted and blocked my number and also blocked me from seeing her online on the facebook chat on facebook.

This isn't a bad thing. As a matter of fact it's quite good in that you don't know what she's doing or when she's online. It doesn't give you a reason to try and contact her.

I feel like complete **** right now. I can't believe this ****ing pain I am feeling right now. I just deleted her number as well, but still the ****ing feeling is so intense right now, I don't know how to deal with it.

Rex doesn't understand why you're being so hard on yourself. Did you,

1) Give her money?

2) Buy her clothes?

3) Act her personal valet, chaffeur, psychiatrist, or instrument to assuage her boredom?

4) Did you diss your friend to curry favor with her?

5) Act as a simp?

If not there's no reason to beat yourself up so. You're going to have to explain to us why you're being so emotional.

I kind of want to delete her off of facebook but then it would show that I was affected by her deleting and blocking my number.

Then delete her. It obvious that she doesn't want to talk to you, so why would you care that she thinks you were "affected," by you deleting her off your Facebook. Believe me Thor, nine times out of ten, she won't even have noticed that you deleted her and if she does, she'll be glad and won't even to think to question you about it. Let this be a lesson to you as to not add a chick to your Facebook friends until you've seen her naked and she's sent you a friend request.

I don't even want to give her back the item now and just give it to someone else in class to return it back to her, but then it would show that I cared too much and was affected.

Now this is actions of an emasculated and emotional man who has had his feelings hurt. Men of honor, value, and integrity would return her property without hesitation. Return her property and let that be that.

I have been feeling like **** lately for not contacting her and seeing her being distance now but ****, this **** really hit the spot.

Let me tell you something, the game is good to those who respect and obey the rules of the game. Case in point your boy Rex. If you read my latest field report, you'll see that I "LJBF," by "T.H.Y.C.E.A.. Like you I was upset and I was trippin'. Despite being put in her friend zone, I wanted to call her and go by her school. When I'm with her, I want to tell her that I really like her, she'd make an excellent girlfriend, and yes, even though like love to get to know her carnally, my biggest fantasies in regards to her aren't sexual, they're more intimate in nature. I want to be mushy things like take walks in the park and hold her hand, and rub her stomach as I fall asleep, but Rex dare not tell her those things because their counter productive to his cause.

Thor, listen to ya boy and T.H.Y.C.E.A.C. proved this to me just last Friday. When a chick wants your company or likes you, she'll come see about you. I haven't written about this in a field report yet in detail and my last field report was kinda sort a cliffhanger leaving off with T.H.Y.C.E.A.C. asking me out to the movies six days after she " LJBF," me. In addition to asking me to accompany her to movies, she initiated three confirmations of the outing, one in person, one by voicemail, one the phone.

She asked me what time I would getting out of school and I told her 1:40. Like you I'm thinking that I should call her to confirm, however when I get out of class I check my phone and there's a message from her at 1:30. I text her and tell her that I'm have some errands to run and I'll call her 3:30. I fall asleep on the train and I'm awaken by my phone ringing. It's 3:37 and it's T.H.Y.C.E.A.C. calling to confirm our movie outing. It's like Harry Wilimington and everybody with experience is telling you, when a woman is WANTS to see you, SHE'S GOING TO MAKE EVERY REASONABLE ATTEMPT TO SEE YOU. Anything less, you should charge her to the game.

I really need to ****ing move on now, but how the **** am I gonna do this?

By talking to other women and maybe seeking professional help.

I'm at a all time low right now. I'm going to get kicked out of my program because of this pain and crap I have been feeling and I desperately need to pull my grades back up but now my mind is all ****ed up now.

Again this is the talk of an overly emotional emasculated male. You can't let being rejected by one woman destroy your life. You talk about not only her to know you affected by her rejection, later in life you're going to feel like a real dumba$$ when you look back realized you mess up a major opportunity to improve your life behind some chick who didn't even want you.

Just when you thought the pain couldn't get any worst, and then it just hits you in the right spot.

Stop putting so much on it. Go get other women.

 

[backbreaker]

holy ****.

grow some balls and go talk to a new chick. i thought i was going to click on a thread where a girl you liked had cancer or something

 

[Greasy Pig]

You didn't even fvck this chick, so there is no problem. You got rejected as has every guy in the world.
You will get rejected again. And again. And again.
Acting like your world has ended because some chick you had a crush on brushed you is wrong.
Wait till you're married and you catch her getting gang-banged and she still gets half your shyt in the divorce before you lose your cool like this.

Now I want you to walk in to that classroom like you fvcking own it. You walk straight up to her with a big shyt-eating grin, look her straight in the eye, place the item on her desk and say: "Here you go."
Then walk off. It really is that simple.
Don't let her have such power of you as a man. Find your balls and act like they're the biggest ones in the damn room.

 

[JoeMarron]

holy ****.

grow some balls and go talk to a new chick. i thought i was going to click on a thread where a girl you liked had cancer or something

:crackup: this. Why the FVCK are you so torn up over this? Please tell me there's more to the story other than "she doesn't like me and blocked my number."

 

[thunder_god]

Wow so I go and give her the item that she lost, and not even a ****ing thank you, she barely looks at me and grabs it out of my hand. Talk about rude. Alrite I'm done with this bull**** and her. Now if only my emotions would go away and I can get back into the right mindset again. Any suggestions?

 

[thunder_god]

:crackup: this. Why the FVCK are you so torn up over this? Please tell me there's more to the story other than "she doesn't like me and blocked my number."

You'll need to go read my previous threads to get a better idea of what happened.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Wow so I go and give her the item that she lost, and not even a ****ing thank you, she barely looks at me and grabs it out of my hand. Talk about rude. Alrite I'm done with this bull**** and her. Now if only my emotions would go away and I can get back into the right mindset again. Any suggestions?

GO NC, go to the gym, go chill with you friends, go out and approach , focus on school since you said you are dropping out of your program over this bullsh1t, man there is PLENTY of things you could be doing.

I had a similar situation like this with a girl in my program last year and after ending things with her I changed myself and my mindset completely.

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're Putting WAAAY To Much On It

Wow so I go and give her the item that she lost, and not even a ****ing thank you, she barely looks at me and grabs it out of my hand. Talk about rude. Alrite I'm done with this bull**** and her. Now if only my emotions would go away and I can get back into the right mindset again. Any suggestions?

Women rude by nature. They've been conditioned since childhood to think that men are here for the purpose of slavishly serving their needs. Couple that with fact that a lot the younger generation didn't receive proper home training makes for some maladjusted human beings who lack certain social graces and are unaware of common etiquette. As far as the emotions, sadly the feelings are going to linger a bit (because it's as Harry Wilimington would so eloquently put,) "new stimuli." What's going to make or break you is how you deal with it. It's cool to be upset, angry, distraught, and disappointed, just as long you don't let those feelings consume you and you allow them to be the basis on how you think of and deal with women. This experience is suppose to make you BETTER not BITTER.

Payroll (one of the pimps interviewed on the classic film documentary American Pimp said on American Pimp: Raw Outtakes and The Hard Truth that there's a saying among pimps that goes "You have to go through a thousand hoes before you get to that one true prostitute. Right now I'm on nine hundred and ninety-nine. That's where you are now Thor, you're at nine hundred and ninety-nine and sooner or later as you see growth and development in your game some chick is growing to like your pimpin' and how swell you pimp, then she'll choose accordingly.

You needed this experience because it will make you a better and stronger man. It will teach you not to trip off of the little things that women do. In time it you'll become immune to it and you may even laugh at it.

 

[thunder_god]

OMG I can't believe this ****. So this chick was giving me the cold shoulder in class today and stuff and then after classes are done, I get a text from her after I already deleted her number. She gives me fluff talk about how her presentation is done and how she could have used more practice. Then thanks me for bringing her back her item with a stupid smiling face at the end. I haven't responded back. I tried to hide the fact that what she did this morning and last night bothered me, so I chatted up a lot of people in class today and was laughing and smiling a lot. I was also flirting with the girl who sits beside me in class too. Do u guys think I should just stay NC or reply back with something short? Things were definitely weird today, she was doing a presentation and I didn't even want to look at her and when I pass by her I had to look in another direction. When she came down to setup, which was right beside where I was sitting, no eye contact or talking to me at all. Obviously if I can make this not weird that would be ideal but in terms of pursuing her anymore, I'm done, way too much drama and bull**** for one girl.