rapidfire said:
I'm curious guy, what is your success rate at clubs? Say on average, how many chicks/numbers do you get on an outing?
I do better in lounges than in clubs. I'm not sure what you mean by success ratio. Do you mean the number of girls I can sleep with in that night? Do you mean the number of girls who i can develop a connection with and get their numbers and have a date with them? Or do you simply mean, how many girls will give me their phone numbers?
When i started out I would do the PUA thing. That is I would run up in every girls face who I found hot and talk to them for 5 minutes saying some corny routine and I would walk away with their number. Then I found out later, when I would call those numbers, most were fakes and the rest would not show up on a date because there was NO CONNECTION between us.
After that I changed my method and I approach women who check me out and are genuinely interested in me.
What I do when i go to clubs is I first get a drink and I watch over the dance floor for 5-10 minutes to get a feel of who's in the club. I am scanning the room the entire time. I am looking at girls faces and making a mental list of which girls look back at me. I'm also noticing the girls I FIND attractive and i keep an eye out for them.
Usually in a club of 200 people, I will find maybe 3-4 girls that appeal to me. At least one of those attractive girls will usually check me out blatantly, so I will know she is interested. Then I will just walk over to her and speak to her for a minute and pull her hand and tell her to come dance with me.
I dance with them for maybe two songs and then I take her on the couches or the lounge area and I start to speak to her for a while. Maybe 10-15 minutes. I ask things about logistics, like... who is she there with, does she have a car, does she live near, does she live with her parents or by herself? etc etc... I do it all really subtle and sneak it in the conversation, don't want to make it look like an interview.
This way, I get an idea if she is there to get LAID that night. I will try to extract girls that same night and sleep with them. Sometimes I bone them in their car, sometimes I go over to their house.. If that doesn't work, then I will settle for some making out and I get their number and do coffee with them in a few days.
If there's no girls that are blatantly checking me out in a club off the start.. I will go on the dancefloor and dance by myself for a few minutes, maybe a couple songs. I had some latin classes and learned to move well on the dancefloor and this puts me on the spotlight and women look at me. While I am dancing, I do my casual checking the room stuff and i watch for eye contact from women. If i catch a woman staring at me, then i go up to her and pull her to the dance floor without saying a word.
When I wasnt able to dance, over a year ago, I had to rely more on lounges. I would go to the older crowds lounges (25 to 35 crowds) even though I was younger than everyone there and I would pick up older women. You need to have good conversation skills for lounges, which is luckily one of my strongest assets.
So what was my success ratios? Well, I would say I got at least a STRONG lead on a number every time I went clubbing and more half the time I would go out, I would get a lay that night.. eg (f
uck them an hour after i met them).
When I say I got a STRONG LEAD, I mean i developed connections with those girls, not just "hi whats your name, youre hot gimme your number"... but I actually got them really interested in me.
Haha I remember my last week of summer i boned 6 girls in a week. That was some insane stuff. I was off from work for the last week of the summer and I had a ton of leads from girls I met over the summer.. I was so sick of sex at the end of that week.. 6 is just too many to handle for me, especially when they are texting you every minute of the day.
