Hello there,
Quick background information:
Been seeing this cute chubby HB7 for about 2 months now. I'm 25 she is 20. I progressively escalated with her and it took a while, but recently we started having sex. I like her a lot, but the current situation(which I will explain below) is making me pretty depressed and even thinking about leaving.
What's the problem?
I try my best to satisfy a girl I like in bed. I start slowly kissing her, make her feel wanted. You know the drill: foreplay. Then I slowly go under, kiss and lick her stomach. By the time I get to the pvssy it's very wet, so I assume she is turned on at this point.
The problem is I can't make her Orgasm by eating her out. We have been intimate 4 times, and only once did I manage to make her orgasm this way. And let me tell you, it took me a good 45 to 50 minutes to get there. The good part was that she couldn't move her legs afterwards for 5 minutes haha. It felt really good to accomplish this, but it was hard work and cost me a sore neck.
Penetration is still a bit painful to her. She is kind of tight and told me she doesn't have much sexual experience. So hopefully the pain will turn to pleasure in the future, I really hope so.
The way I have to do it is by finger stimulation. Yesterday we were busy, I was eating her out for about 30 minutes when she pulled me back up and told me to use my fingers. I did, and she came(screaming orgasm so that's good right?), but I felt really incompetent for some reason. It made me depressed.
She told me not to worry about it, cause she can be really difficult. But I can't help to think that maybe it's not her, but it's me. I feel like sh!t. I mean, most girls would kill to be eaten out. I do it with pleasure, but I still fail with her.
Maybe I'm making too big a deal out of this?
Quick background information:
Been seeing this cute chubby HB7 for about 2 months now. I'm 25 she is 20. I progressively escalated with her and it took a while, but recently we started having sex. I like her a lot, but the current situation(which I will explain below) is making me pretty depressed and even thinking about leaving.
What's the problem?
I try my best to satisfy a girl I like in bed. I start slowly kissing her, make her feel wanted. You know the drill: foreplay. Then I slowly go under, kiss and lick her stomach. By the time I get to the pvssy it's very wet, so I assume she is turned on at this point.
The problem is I can't make her Orgasm by eating her out. We have been intimate 4 times, and only once did I manage to make her orgasm this way. And let me tell you, it took me a good 45 to 50 minutes to get there. The good part was that she couldn't move her legs afterwards for 5 minutes haha. It felt really good to accomplish this, but it was hard work and cost me a sore neck.
Penetration is still a bit painful to her. She is kind of tight and told me she doesn't have much sexual experience. So hopefully the pain will turn to pleasure in the future, I really hope so.
The way I have to do it is by finger stimulation. Yesterday we were busy, I was eating her out for about 30 minutes when she pulled me back up and told me to use my fingers. I did, and she came(screaming orgasm so that's good right?), but I felt really incompetent for some reason. It made me depressed.
She told me not to worry about it, cause she can be really difficult. But I can't help to think that maybe it's not her, but it's me. I feel like sh!t. I mean, most girls would kill to be eaten out. I do it with pleasure, but I still fail with her.
Maybe I'm making too big a deal out of this?