I feel ****in down.Girls criticize my looks.Please help

[JH6]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
I thought this was gonna be another thread about the pigeon man ( in case you missed it the first time: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59535 )

Dude relax. You look normal, there's nothing wrong with you except maybe a slight lack of spine. You should have insulted her back badly enough to have made her get implants and become bulemic.

If you really want to improve your appearance tho, here's some tips:

1.) You seem to be a bit on the skinny side (which is good man, it's better then being fat), but if you want to improve, I'd recommend going to the gym. Nothing builds confidence faster then having a girl go wet as soon as she sees you shirtless.

I'll give you an example:

Here's a pic of me from several years ago:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/Mind_Over_Matter/Pic1.jpg

Here's some photos of me now:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v632/Mind_Over_Matter/mindcollage.jpg

Note, I was 230 lbs at the time with a big gut (like 25-30% bodyfat) and virtually no muscle mass. Now I'm 214 and have 10% bodyfat. If I can accomplish this, so can you!

Even tho I had girlfriends back when I was out of shape, it was different. Before, those relationships were more or less equal, and while I got laid, most of the times the girls I dated didn't have high interest level in me.

Nowdays, every girl I date tends to have way higher interest in me then I do in her, to the point of being obsessed with me.

I've gone from chasing girls and asking for numbers to being approached by girls and being asked out. I've gone from being c0ckblocked by their female friends to having their female friends to c0ckblock them. I've gone from having girls flake out on me, to them calling me and trying to set up dates and me flaking out on them.

Etc etc.

If there's one advice that can improve your game, this is it.


2.) Try a different haircut

3.) Tan.

Congrats man, deffinitely a noticable improvement. I don't judge dudes either, but I can appriciate busting your ass in a gym and making yourself better overall (not just looks).

Yes try a different haircut, and get a tan. Buy a monthly pass to a tanning bed for like 15-20 bucks a month its worth it, plus hot women hang out in tanning salons.

As for the dude worried about his looks, you look like the average joe to me. Start bootcamp to build your confidence with broads, and get a confident wingman. A confident wingman really helped me alot.

 

[NoMoreAFC]

these guys in this pics are my friends ( they all get hit by women) , the first one he is no adonis but he gets hit by girls... he is bald ( he is 23 ), i'm 28, so there's a difference but nonetheless i wonder if shaving my head like him will improve my chances of getting girls

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos/10972_1_1120004190.jpg


http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos/10972_1_1119999184.jpg


http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos/10972_1_1119998774.jpg


i wonder what the mistery is, if there's any to it

 

[Eulogy]

Originally posted by NoMoreAFC


i wonder what the mistery is, if there's any to it

Hey, you're starting to get on my nerves.

Have you no appreciation or understanding for what has been already said here 100 times ?

What else do you want us to say?

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
P.S.Cannabis is known to arouse feelings of paranioa when smoked...might wanna look into that.

Good point!

Many cannabis smokers I know are self-loathing and paranoid, with severe self-esteem issues.

But Muttley is probably right about the body dismorphic disorder and you should read into it as I think you are deluding yourself into seeing something no one else can.

I've suffered with BDD myself and been treated for depression over it, but you can only overcome it when you stop focusing on it and feeding the paranoia. Easier said than done, but that's what you need to do.

 

[Metalixia]

There are some real ugly ****ers on this board. You're not one of 'em.

Keep you're chin up and smile, or I'm gonna send someone round to put a knife in you.

 

[Sayajin_Prince]

hey man if u want me to be honest, i think you are butt ugly. but dont worry, u'll prolly get a chick mate