I feel icky....I feel friendzoned

[Pecker]

My cousin is acting as a go-between for me and her friend. I told my cousin I liked her friend and then today I receive a call from her friend (we'll call her J) inviting me over to watch a movie with her and her suitemates.

I know J is single. She is also shy, and a "good girl". Not amazingly hot but quite cute.

She acted REALLY interested on the phone, and she didn't have my number beforehand. She said they were drinking. I got there and she was tipsy.

We watched this movie at their house and she was on the opposite end of the couch, and I said "come sit by me" and she did. She got a little closer. She bonked into the refrigerator and a bunch of her suitemates started laughing and she turned red and thats when I put my arm around her. I said "don't worry no one's judging you" in a joking way. She coddled into me for like two seconds and then sat back up again.

No kino for the rest of the night besides those two seconds.

I'm thinking if she were tipsy and she liked me she wouldn't have sat back up. But who knows. She invited me to drink with them next weekend. But I got a bad vibe about that. Somehow I think i'm friendzoned. I didn't say or do anythin special. i went in there thinking, KNOWING i was gonna take SOME Positive step forward with this girl.

A bit discouraged here. God darnit.

 

[Kodiac]

I feel icky

And I bet she likes it!

Well, u should be making all the moves anyway & the fact that she's a shy / good girl amplifies this. Just make moves and see how far she lets you go -I'd take it a little slower than the avg chick though.

Build up more Rapport and Make more kino on the next encounter and see if she reciprocates. c+f etc etc... and make the hoe say NOOOOOOOO!!!!

 

[Walden]

He said he felt icky not that he felt iqqi!

 

[Starman]

ahhh WoodyWoodpecker,

dont make too much out of her drunk behavior..you are reading too much into "if she would of liked me she would have kept her head on my shoulder longer"

she INVITED you over..GOOD SIGN

she might of feeled pressured..or embarassed in front of her friends to go further

your kino was great..but if I were to say anything negative..I would say your approach "awww dont worry no one is judging you"

is something an emotional buffer tampon would say..it is like saying "Hey! everyone may be laughing at you, but I like you soo much ! I wont laugh but support you!"

you should have busted on her a bit..then maybe consoled her afterwards

just a thought

 

[TesuqueRed]

Anyone else picking up on "the cousin is a go-between ..."--???

Bad form--don't use go-betweens.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Anyone else picking up on "the cousin is a go-between ..."--???

Bad form--don't use go-betweens.

A Don Juan's only go-between is a condom.

 

[felony]

I read the first 1/2 line saw that someone was acting as a go between and i'm not reading anything else.

f.

Baby the word of the day is legs. Lets go back to your place and spread the word. ;p

 

[Pecker]

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