I feel horrible

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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I feel soo horrible. I cheated on my girlfriend of 4 and a half months with some freshmen (Hb 8) yesterday. :eek: And to tell the truth, I dont think it was really worth it...

Well it started out last week when I met her at party and I did a smooth PU. I got her number and everything and my buddy wingman talked to her friend and everything went smooth. So a few days ago we went to the movies, lots of kino but I didnt feel like kissing her.

Yesterday as I was talking to her I asked her were she live and she said "I live by (something goes here)" and I was like "Really?? So do I" and she invited me to come over so I did.

Anyways when I got there, it was around.. 9:30 P.M. and she had to sneak out. So we walk around and we both kino each other like theres not gonna be another day. Since she knows karate I put my army around her neck from behind and I said demonstrate something, she did and took me down litterally. :eek: So a few minutes later her mom finds her outside yells at her to get in.

So before she went inside she gave me her cell so she could call me from inside to see if she would sneak out or she could sneak me in. Man, but the bad part was that her dad came out, looked at me for 6 seconds and said something and went inside.

So she calls and tells me shes gonna sneak me in through her window. So I go in, and were in her bed. Right under the bed covers too we start cuddling and everything (It was around 12:32 A.m.) and than I hear her dad so I jump into the closet. He starts yelling at her for sneaking out. So this process happens about.. 5 times and I am scared out of my living mind.

And than it happend, we starting making out on her bed and the bad thing is.. shes a frickin horrible kisser. :mad: I swear its not worth it. I cheated on my woman... I dunno Im not gonna tell her but I feel bad. I dunno what to do. Im hoping you guys can help me out. The other thing is, the girl who I made out with doesent even know I have a girlfriend. So.. what would you guys do in my shoes?

And yes I'm aware I might get flamed or lose respect.
 

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Whoa dude that's scary as hell. I congratulate you for not peeing your pants.

The new hot freshman girls will get you though, they're just sooo easy to pick up it's like how can't you. But seriously, all those chances to say no, all those chances to walk away. You DO have a girlfriend. Don't you think that over the 3 hour long excursion to freshmen land.... than you could have stopped yourself and reminded yourself that you have a gf? Where do you think Kino leads too. That's not cool.

I refuse to sneak into girls houses late at night, i just invite them over to my house at 1am. I have a walkout basement and it's a really nice basement so i always sneak em in the back. But one night my friends and I got about 6-7 girls over, and they were a little to loud. My dad heard but he was cool about it, he called my cell phone and all he said was "who's over", "remember, the girls aren't to spend the night... have fun"
 

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Yeah man, I nearly pissed myself. HER DAD EVEN WALKED IN WHEN I WAS UNDER THE COVERS WITH HER. Except she got ontop of me to make it seem like it was one person on the bed. I was terrified at that time and at the same time someone else was also getting happy. :p

Your right, I had all these chances to say no.. and I had 3 hours with her.. and I didnt say anything.. Thats the part that gets me.

The only thing now is .. shes hooked onto me. SHE CALLS ME EVERYDAY LIKE 4-5 TIMES. She would be calling at 4:00 in the morning, 5:30 in the morning, 8:00 A.M., 3:00 P.M., 6:00-10:00. God.. Sometimes I regret being a DJ.. Lol just kiddin. The last time a girl bugged me like this was a half year ago and I hoped it'd never happen again. But hey, look what happend. What could I do to make her stop calling?
 

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Thats the problem with younger chicks, they always get too attached. They will keep calling you like she is doing to you and constantly bother you. It gets very annoying.

If you try and take away attention, she will call you more. If you be mean, she will call you more. I think the only way to get her to stop calling is to be AFC.
 

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^or just tell ehr you don't like ehr and you have a girlfriend. she won't call you then. :)
 

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But she might call the girlfriend.;)

You just gotta tell the girl not to call you during the day. Or call you once a day.

Or when she calls just tell you you'll call her next time you have the chance. Then you can talk to her when you want.
 

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You feel bad for your girlfriend don't you? Tell the girl you cheated her with that you two shouldn't see each other anymore. Don't tell your girlfriend anything. Just stay together and don't associate with that other girl anymore. Don't pick up her calls, don't answer her email, or any form of contact.
 

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Bump. Goldheart I just might try that. Thanks Everyone for your feed back. Any other suggestions?


Originally posted by Gold Heart
You feel bad for your girlfriend don't you? Tell the girl you cheated her with that you two shouldn't see each other anymore. Don't tell your girlfriend anything. Just stay together and don't associate with that other girl anymore. Don't pick up her calls, don't answer her email, or any form of contact.
 
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