I failed again... why is this?

[moneyisking]

I got her number (actually she asked mine first), so I texted her on weekend if she was cool with hanging out, and gives BS excuse that a dog would laugh at.

I guess this makes another failure since Freshman in college. No bull shyt, every girls I asked out either bullshytted me or didn't respond...

To be honest, I had quite depressing nights for past few days. This was why I haven't caring about women that much for few month, and as I thought I found a girl I liked and gave another try, reality crushes me. This happened with every single girl.

If you know me, I did mention I do strive to become better man, in life, and in dating, but I really don't know why the heck it doesn't work out for me. Arg.. I wish there was a way I could see women as just another dude, then I wouldn't need to feel this bad.

I was being positive, happy, optimistic about future, hard-working, motivated, lust for achievement, but ever since that happened few days ago, I lost all the juice of em. Is dating a forbidden fruit for me that puts me in every disastrous ways if I try to obtain, or what. Seriously after all the misfortunes, this is the only conclusion I can give...

I really envy you guys who get it. At least I wish I failed when I didn't even try, then I would feel less pissed off. fvck... time will solve this, so I will jump back in few days, but fvck women...

 

[f283000]

brother it's all a numbers game. You might get rejected 10 times in a row then on the 11th you score. After that you get on multiple dates within a short span of months and feel on top of the world.

On your way to being a dj expect to be rejected and just move on. The more practice you put in, the more girls you ask out the more you improve your own methods and system and the higher success rate you will get in the future.

Just wait till finally get one and you'll be fine. I call it dating karma/dating scent. You might strike out with 10 women then you go on a date and then you find women happy to go out with you after that. There's something about women like if they could smell your scent if you been around women recently that makes them attracted to you in their subconscious.

I had times where I hit a long cold streak (over a year with no luck with women) then I score and next think you know I end up with 4 more in the span of 3 months. And no it was not pre-selection since none of these women saw me with anyone else. That's why i call it dating karma/dating scent.

Have patience and just keep trying never giving up. The more you ask out the better.

 

[CarlitosWay]

I got her number (actually she asked mine first), so I texted her on weekend if she was cool with hanging out, and gives BS excuse that a dog would laugh at.

Here's something you should put into consideration. No texting to chics until after you have gotten intimate with her/had sex with em. Especially don't ask one out through texts lol. wow. It makes it very easy for a chic to bs/make up an excuse through texts, it's very comfortable for them. Now say if you call them and speak to them with a clear voice, full of power, project yourself well and even make her laugh a bit/rapport with her, you're in most of the time.

I guess this makes another failure since Freshman in college. No bull shyt, every girls I asked out either bullshytted me or didn't respond...

how many girls exactly?

To be honest, I had quite depressing nights for past few days. This was why I haven't caring about women that much for few month, and as I thought I found a girl I liked and gave another try, reality crushes me. This happened with every single girl.

You're letting reality crush you? you honestly shouldn't care one bit. Athletes/businessmen/weightlifters all attempt things daily and at times fail left and right, yet you don't hear most of them on a forum crying about it to strangers. They get back on to the grind and ask themselves things like "Alright this didn't work now what can I do better next time? What weaknesses do I have? Am I actually doing my best?

If you know me, I did mention I do strive to become better man, in life, and in dating, but I really don't know why the heck it doesn't work out for me. Arg.. I wish there was a way I could see women as just another dude, then I wouldn't need to feel this bad.

I was being positive, happy, optimistic about future, hard-working, motivated, lust for achievement, but ever since that happened few days ago, I lost all the juice of em. Is dating a forbidden fruit for me that puts me in every disastrous ways if I try to obtain, or what. Seriously after all the misfortunes, this is the only conclusion I can give...

A man who lets this affect him personally likes this needs to harden the **** up. You're young, this is only the beginning and you'll probably face lots of messed up **** in the future, yet maybe not.

I'm reading a book right now called "Children at War" and you know right now there's boys in this world who are turned into soldiers from ages 6-15 (5 being the youngest documented child soldier) and thousands of them get killed all the time never to have the many opportunities to date and interact with women, go to school, get a career and have a family/children. It's ****ed up but look at the big picture.

I really envy you guys who get it. At least I wish I failed when I didn't even try, then I would feel less pissed off. fvck... time will solve this, so I will jump back in few days, but fvck women...

lol so funny typing to you as I'm sending some real dirty texts to my girl...aww love it. See that's all I like using texts for hehehehe

anyways I'll leave you with some quotes

“Those who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try nothing and succeed.”

“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

“Some people have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can.”

If you make dating feel like work and feel you have to study for it, you will fail. Look at it as being comparable to something you really enjoy doing in your personal time. Your main goal should be not to impress anyone but to have fun, enjoy life, remain undeterred by bullsh*t and ultimately let a woman who is worthy into this aura, this genuine presence you bring. Only then will you fulfill your sexual desires and other pleasures.

 

[moneyisking]

Thank you all.. I will man the fvck up and get back on my feet. I determined to rule this shyt 3yrs ago, I had many crashes including this one, but hell, 1 more on the list, so what gives. Thanks

 

[Real Talk]

The less you worry about it, the better you'll do. Just go out and have fun, don't worry about the female situation at every social event. Actually, sometimes if you seem like the only guy somewhere who's NOT there to creep on girls, it'll make yourself more approachable.

Its the same vibe you give if you already have a gf, i guess.

 

[Falcon25]

Stop asking girls to "hang out" with you. Homosexuals ask to hang out with other men on weekday coffee dates. Ask them for a hard date. For drinks, dancing, whatever the fuvk gets her pusvy to tingle. Find out if they are single too. The mistake some guys make is they assume just cause a girl gave her number to them that they were 1)interested in them 2) are available.

Build some rapport with these girls. Be aggressive. Ask for drinks. Don't text, call. God's speed.

 

[f283000]

Stop asking girls to "hang out" with you. Homosexuals ask to hang out with other men on weekday coffee dates. Ask them for a hard date. For drinks, dancing, whatever the fuvk gets her pusvy to tingle. Find out if they are single too. The mistake some guys make is they assume just cause a girl gave her number to them that they were 1)interested in them 2) are available.

Build some rapport with these girls. Be aggressive. Ask for drinks. Don't text, call. God's speed.

word!

 

[CarlitosWay]

Stop asking girls to "hang out" with you. Homosexuals ask to hang out with other men on weekday coffee dates. Ask them for a hard date. For drinks, dancing, whatever the fuvk gets her pusvy to tingle. Find out if they are single too. The mistake some guys make is they assume just cause a girl gave her number to them that they were 1)interested in them 2) are available.

Build some rapport with these girls. Be aggressive. Ask for drinks. Don't text, call. God's speed.

Spot on.
yep worse thing is to act like an innocent friend at first and later do a 180 and flip on the sexuality out of no where.. Doesn't work in the real world amigo.

You don't strike when the iron is hot, you keep striking until the iron gets hot.:cheer:

 

[Pierce]

your probably dont look good physically. just get yo swag up. i never been turned down by a girl man.

 

[Iceberg]

Thank you all.. I will man the fvck up and get back on my feet. I determined to rule this shyt 3yrs ago, I had many crashes including this one, but hell, 1 more on the list, so what gives. Thanks

Listen to F28...it's definitely a numbers game. The best baseball players bat around what? .300? They're not remembered for the 70% of the time they miss. The only thing that counts is the 30% of the time they succeed.

Stop asking girls to "hang out" with you. Homosexuals ask to hang out with other men on weekday coffee dates. Ask them for a hard date. For drinks, dancing, whatever the fuvk gets her pusvy to tingle. Find out if they are single too. The mistake some guys make is they assume just cause a girl gave her number to them that they were 1)interested in them 2) are available.

Build some rapport with these girls. Be aggressive. Ask for drinks. Don't text, call. God's speed.

Maybe I'm at a different stage than moneyisking, so I'd disagree with this. Tell me what you think though....Asking a girl out on a "date" bothers me because A- I feel like I'm putting pressure on the girl.

-I feel like you can take the date down whatever direction you choose with a term as vague as hanging out. If she's coming out for drinks with me, and I happen to seduce her into my bed, then the girl can justify it because we were just hanging out. It's light. It's fun. It's casual. With a date, I feel like there are too many damn rules and social stigmas attached to it. "I didn't want to bang Iceberg on our first date."


B - I don't want these chicks thinking that we're "dating".

-There's nothing I hate more than a girl trying to attach a name to our arrangement. "Me and Iceberg are dating." Hey, if we've been messing around for 3-4 months, and we get along....then let's call it "dates" and "dating". Don't want these girls level-jumping on me.

It looks weird typing that out as an explanation, but I've always enjoyed the "anything goes" attitude that comes with "hanging out." Hell, it might not matter either way you word it.

 

[Falcon25]

Maybe I'm at a different stage than moneyisking, so I'd disagree with this. Tell me what you think though....Asking a girl out on a "date" bothers me because A- I feel like I'm putting pressure on the girl.

-I feel like you can take the date down whatever direction you choose with a term as vague as hanging out. If she's coming out for drinks with me, and I happen to seduce her into my bed, then the girl can justify it because we were just hanging out. It's light. It's fun. It's casual. With a date, I feel like there are too many damn rules and social stigmas attached to it. "I didn't want to bang Iceberg on our first date."


B - I don't want these chicks thinking that we're "dating".

-There's nothing I hate more than a girl trying to attach a name to our arrangement. "Me and Iceberg are dating." Hey, if we've been messing around for 3-4 months, and we get along....then let's call it "dates" and "dating". Don't want these girls level-jumping on me.

.

Look man,

This is very simple. You feel like putting pressure on a girl? Since when did girls care for your feelings, that you care for theirs? Be selfish. Put pressure on her, that's what she wants. Take it or leave it bitcvh. That's the attitude you should have. I never want to hear that again.

You hate name attachments? Why? Are you working for the intelligence community? Let her say whatever she wants. You know in your mind where you are at. Let her say whatever title she wants other than FRIENDS. That's the name attachment you don't want. Women don't like "hanging out". That's what they do with their gay friends. They want to know that they are your bitcvh. They are your woman or girlfriend or **** buddy or whatever. Titles are important for women. Not for men. Let her think or say whatever. She says "you my boyfriend?" Say, "As long as you keep giving me that sweet puvsy of yours, I'll be whatever you want." JUST NOT FRIENDS.

Get aggressive, stop caring so much what others think. Start having fun. God's speed.



DO NOT BE INDULGENT. BE STRONG, AGGRESSIVE, SEXUAL, AFFECTIONATE, AND KIND. BE A SEX MACHINE. BE A MAN.

 

[moneyisking]

Falcon, I will stop texting and call girls on from now on. I won't say "let's hang out no more".

Carlitosway, I am bit confused b/t player who is direct, goes all out, gets girls wet, and a player who is suave, innocent, connects really well, and get girls like a simple boy working on a girl. I don't even know which works for me. What you say has a point, you know, a innocent guy turning 180 and become sexual out of nowhere could be weird, but it is also pretty difficult to be flat-out sexual. I am sorry to admit but this "bytch man" inside of me makes me nervous, fearful, uncomfortable, and unnatural when I interact with hot girls. I don't know what to do.

Pierce, I don't know, I work out often 4 times a week heavy lifting, and have better body than most of people, but I am an Asian guy. Girls might not be attracted to me for that reason; I am not "that hot Asian guy" either. Just plain looking I guess. So it's up to my soul and mind to cover my appearance, but it's a bit hard b/c you gain confidence through success, and I had none...

Falcon and Iceberg, I think each individual has his own ways, and I am pretty sure Iceberg score with hos and so does Falcon, so I am not going to doubt the credibility of you two. But I have favored Falcon's way, primarily b/c as a 1.5 generation Asian living in US, there are so many obstructions that hinder getting girls. Main thing is communication with girls. Most Asian guys can't connect with American girls b/c we have different cultural shyt. Everytime I talk with white girls, I can't keep up more than 10 minutes b/c I just don't know how to connect and genuinely have fun. So most Asians that do dam well with girls are the ones that do Falcon's ways; not giving a shyt about them, being an ******* (doing what they want and confront women's bull shyt, etc), and others.

At this point, I have NO IDEA what I should do, what to think, what to do in the future...

 

[DonJuan11]

I am bit confused b/t player who is direct, goes all out, gets girls wet, and a player who is suave, innocent, connects really well, and get girls like a simple boy working on a girl. I don't even know which works for me. What you say has a point, you know, a innocent guy turning 180 and become sexual out of nowhere could be weird, but it is also pretty difficult to be flat-out sexual. I am sorry to admit but this "bytch man" inside of me makes me nervous, fearful, uncomfortable, and unnatural when I interact with hot girls. I don't know what to do.

It's not about being a "bytch man" and treating girls badly to be sexual. It's about coming to terms with yourself and feeling good about yourself. It's about working on a image that will make people want to do business with you, get involved with you, know who you are. It's about being passionate about what you do. It's about TEACHING the girl something she doesn't know. It's about making her feel PROTECTED when a guy threatens her. It's about making her LEARN something from you, etc.

I work out often 4 times a week heavy lifting, and have better body than most of people, but I am an Asian guy. Girls might not be attracted to me for that reason;

What the hell does being "Asian" have to do with attracting and sleeping with girls? Last I checked China had over 1 billion people, so either they are all adopted, or that means Asian people are having alot of sex with each other.


As a 1.5 generation Asian living in US, there are so many obstructions that hinder getting girls. Main thing is communication with girls. Most Asian guys can't connect with American girls b/c we have different cultural shyt. Everytime I talk with white girls, I can't keep up more than 10 minutes b/c I just don't know how to connect and genuinely have fun.

You answered your own question. Why can't you have fun? Are you obsessed with porn videos? Video games? Sci-movies? Or are you the most well respected and richest Asian guy in the US? If you were well read and well educated, the girl would be begging to talk to you more.

At this point, I have NO IDEA what I should do, what to think, what to do in the future...

DO or CREATE something that benefits the world and you are passionate about, and THEY will come. Do not think about sex, sex is just a byproduct of everything else, it's only ONE thing to do. Do something that GIVES back and HELPS people.

 

[Iceberg]

DO or CREATE something that benefits the world and you are passionate about, and THEY will come. Do not think about sex, sex is just a byproduct of everything else, it's only ONE thing to do. Do something that GIVES back and HELPS people.

That's gold. I also like what you said here...

You answered your own question. Why can't you have fun? Are you obsessed with porn videos? Video games? Sci-movies? Or are you the most well respected and richest Asian guy in the US? If you were well read and well educated, the girl would be begging to talk to you more.

Our original poster might want to look into some hobbies. Maybe some travel. Join some "just for fun" sports league. Basically, I just want this guy to have a reason to feel good talking about himself. Something to share with women he encounters. Stories. Experiences. Lessons to teach others.

That's what broke me out of my shell years ago. Not every girl works out for me, but none are going to tell you that I'm boring/have nothing to talk about.

So, moneymaker. I'm not gonna give you that "forget about girls and focus on yourself line" because in reality you can do both. But I will tell you to push your boundaries. Learn to enjoy the nervousness you experience when something new and foreign is happening. That's adrenaline. That's life. Just something as simple as going to my first guitar lesson put butterflies in my stomach...I wanted to turn around and walk home. Then I did it, and it was fine. Same thing for the first day I signed up for the gym...Then I tried yoga. Then I went to Amsterdam alone (and got very high and lost). Then writing club....Try new things and learn to love the anxious feelings that come with them. Most people spend their whole life in some comfortable shell. But not you....you're working out 4 times a week, you're asking girls out, you're putting in work to make your time on this planet something interesting. Even the suffering and heartache make you more alive than the majority of these people who just marry the first girl to come along. You're not accepting "comfortable" and that's good.

Keep doing that and keep pushing yourself. Every boundary you break gets you one step closer to these girls you want and bigger things than that.

 

[everywomanshero]

Addressing OP:

Flakiness is something that can be a problem but it's hard to define exactly why it happens. What I can tell you is that when you truly have something going for you in life, flakes happen dramatically less and women begin chasing you much more.

Here's what I can tell you

1) Have confidence. Sometimes in the past I was too quick to call a flake and the BS sounding excuse turned out to be real and we later hooked up.

2) Don't be overly dramatic. If someone does cancel, have something else going on in life to occupy your time. Right now I have four women going, an intense job search, doing work for myself, and numerous hobbies. I am thankful when someone reschedules lol

3) Develop an appreciation for yourself. You have a culture, a history, a family tree, accomplishments of your own, and so on. Learn about the history of your people, develop an ethnic identity, and know that your ancestors survived against all odds for hundreds of years to give you this opportunity. We truly have it easy today. Think about the positive traits you posses and things you have accomplished.

4) Women is the easy part. There are so many unique and wonderful opportunities to take part of in this life. I know people teaching English in Thailand, people who built their own homes with their own hands for very little money, people who take contractual jobs and travel all over the country so they know they will set roots in the place that speaks to them, and so on.

Live a good life that makes you happy and women will need beaten off with a stick. They will keep looking you up, too. I get contacted by women from my past all the time. They remember a truly happy guy who is living his dream (and being great in bed doesnt hurt either--by the way get a vibrator and use it on women while you're humping them. That will definitely get them calling you back lol).

 

[nismo-4]

Since Judge nismo-4 just polished his brand new gavel, he's ready to swing it! Order in the court!

I got her number (actually she asked mine first), so I texted her on weekend if she was cool with hanging out, and gives BS excuse that a dog would laugh at.

Beyond a reasonable doubt, she just wasn't that into you. Evidence: She asked for your # first. And never ever ask a girl to hang out. Falcon25 said why.

I guess this makes another failure since Freshman in college. No bull shyt, every girls I asked out either bullshytted me or didn't respond...

Have you thought about why these girls just aren't that into you? Are you unattractive? Do you have swag? Do you have something cool to offer? If not, you better fix this sh*t. I'm taking boxing lessons right now, it's a great break from my courtroom, computers, tax liens, and real estate.

To be honest, I had quite depressing nights for past few days. This was why I haven't caring about women that much for few month, and as I thought I found a girl I liked and gave another try, reality crushes me. This happened with every single girl.

Why, she tells you she's taken or some sh*t? If so, try looking interesting from the start! Do what I did in college, become popular, rent a Benz (or Bentley/ Maserati) if you can and smoothly show off to these girls. Don't toot your horn, but you won't need to.

If you know me, I did mention I do strive to become better man, in life, and in dating, but I really don't know why the heck it doesn't work out for me. Arg.. I wish there was a way I could see women as just another dude, then I wouldn't need to feel this bad.

Then get a good ass job and make some mad money! Money equals pu$$y all day!

I was being positive, happy, optimistic about future, hard-working, motivated, lust for achievement, but ever since that happened few days ago, I lost all the juice of em. Is dating a forbidden fruit for me that puts me in every disastrous ways if I try to obtain, or what. Seriously after all the misfortunes, this is the only conclusion I can give...

Some guys have all the luck. 10% of the guys are doing 90% of the f**king. Your package has to be attractive on the outside. Personality and optimism alone just won't cut it. Women have a high market value and they know it. I've seen guys go in clubs with their moms and sisters and girls were giving those guys more attention than they would get if they were alone. Try it.

I really envy you guys who get it. At least I wish I failed when I didn't even try, then I would feel less pissed off. fvck... time will solve this, so I will jump back in few days, but fvck women...

And fatten up your bank account. You have shown that you are not meant for a woman and have very little to offer. Work on yourself. Time will march on and you'll keep waking up alone, jacking off more, and eventually not even want a woman.

Read betw- I need to shine up my damn gavel again!

Case closed.

 

[moneyisking]

Dam, I am glad I posted this to get class advices from you guys.

DonJuan11, you are right man, I don't know what makes me happy really. For now I think just fvcking a real hot girl would make me gain the world, but I know that's just superficial. You're right, I don't know what makes me happy as a man, I don't know how to teach girls b/c all I am is superficial. I don't really have passion in my life. I am not deep so I can't interact with women or men in deeper level, I can't say for sure I can stand on ground like The Rock b/c I don't have the deep manly core like that of Leonidas. I need to LEARN and develop a lot myself. Since I never got laid, it's kind of hard to not think about sex, but I know this is because I have no passion. I decided to look for a boxing gym and take a class. It is in fact something I always wanted to do, so I will do it. I can sense my heart pounding with excitement.
If I don't have a fire in my life, I will make one via I can enjoy life.

Iceberg, thank you. I will learn something new and keep enjoying the power of new things and constantly push my boundaries.
Nismo, like you said, self is more important. I will develop myself first. Thank you

 

[Galactus]

I liked what DonJuan11 said. You have to just work on yourself. I know people say that all the time, but it's so true. Even if you do get laid like crazy, that's not going to keep you happy if that's all there is.

Go out there and think about how you can serve the world. What do you have to offer? I know that the more you obsess about females, the harder it is to be happy doing things for your own personal development. But if you don't, then you won't have anything to offer a woman anyway. If you can attract women without being a "whole" man, then it's going to be low-quality women. If you want high-quality, then you have to be high-quality too.

I'm not saying stop talking to women. I'm saying in the meantime, get other interests. I'm saying start truly caring about other people, and realizing they have problems too. I'm saying go after your dream, one step at a time, and recognizing your progress. I'm saying talk to everyone, not just hot women. You never know when you'll meet someone who will give you an opportunity you've been waiting for, just because they talked to you and thought you were a cool guy. This is why I can't understand why some people are determined to be total jerks.

One thing I decided years ago when it came to women is that I will never let one make me feel hurt or jealous. I mean, for example, if I meet a woman and I'm trying to get her to like me, but she apparently likes someone else, or just flat-out doesn't like me. Move on. Remember, there are around three billion women on this planet.

I recently violated the above rule. A woman rejected me, and it kind of freaked me out. I didn't know why she did, and then I realized it doesn't matter. She's just one woman. The problem was, I allowed myself to think she was going to be THE woman. Stupid. AFC garbage.

Expectations are a killer. Think about all the things that frustrate you. It's because stuff didn't meet your expectations.

Allow confidence and self-respect in, no matter how others act. Just this morning I went into a store I often go into. There's a short, troll-like lady there who always gives me an attitude despite the fact that I'm always nice to her. She did it again this morning. I was momentarily put off by it, but then I went on with my day. You'd think she'd be happy they let her out of the bell tower occasionally, but whatever. That's her cross to bear. When you let some random woman make you feel bad because she rejected you, then you aren't a master of yourself.

Relax. Let the hits keep on coming. Work hard to banish all negative thinking. Take positive action in your life, towards positive goals. Attempt to do things, and when they don't work, examine what you did, alter the plan, and try again. Repeat as often as necessary. That's how successful people get through life.

The only difference between a winner and a loser is that a loser doesn't lose often enough.

 

[moneyisking]

I liked what DonJuan11 said. You have to just work on yourself. I know people say that all the time, but it's so true. Even if you do get laid like crazy, that's not going to keep you happy if that's all there is.

Go out there and think about how you can serve the world. What do you have to offer? I know that the more you obsess about females, the harder it is to be happy doing things for your own personal development. But if you don't, then you won't have anything to offer a woman anyway. If you can attract women without being a "whole" man, then it's going to be low-quality women. If you want high-quality, then you have to be high-quality too.

I'm not saying stop talking to women. I'm saying in the meantime, get other interests. I'm saying start truly caring about other people, and realizing they have problems too. I'm saying go after your dream, one step at a time, and recognizing your progress. I'm saying talk to everyone, not just hot women. You never know when you'll meet someone who will give you an opportunity you've been waiting for, just because they talked to you and thought you were a cool guy. This is why I can't understand why some people are determined to be total jerks.

One thing I decided years ago when it came to women is that I will never let one make me feel hurt or jealous. I mean, for example, if I meet a woman and I'm trying to get her to like me, but she apparently likes someone else, or just flat-out doesn't like me. Move on. Remember, there are around three billion women on this planet.

I recently violated the above rule. A woman rejected me, and it kind of freaked me out. I didn't know why she did, and then I realized it doesn't matter. She's just one woman. The problem was, I allowed myself to think she was going to be THE woman. Stupid. AFC garbage.

Expectations are a killer. Think about all the things that frustrate you. It's because stuff didn't meet your expectations.

Allow confidence and self-respect in, no matter how others act. Just this morning I went into a store I often go into. There's a short, troll-like lady there who always gives me an attitude despite the fact that I'm always nice to her. She did it again this morning. I was momentarily put off by it, but then I went on with my day. You'd think she'd be happy they let her out of the bell tower occasionally, but whatever. That's her cross to bear. When you let some random woman make you feel bad because she rejected you, then you aren't a master of yourself.

Relax. Let the hits keep on coming. Work hard to banish all negative thinking. Take positive action in your life, towards positive goals. Attempt to do things, and when they don't work, examine what you did, alter the plan, and try again. Repeat as often as necessary. That's how successful people get through life.

The only difference between a winner and a loser is that a loser doesn't lose often enough.

That is gold brother. I will keep in mind. Thank you all, your words brought me back up from bad moment. I am ready to run full ahead. I will not, however, forget these advices.