PumpingIron13
Don Juan
alright guys heres my problem and then heres a girl who i want bad and how my problem applies to her...you see i am very capable of being charming, making girls laugh, making them feel good and smiling, u can say that if you watched me ud think i know what im doing....but i dont. Its just my personaltiy im very social and communicate well but i have major major problems with reading girls and its even cloudier for me to read signals from chicks cuz deep down i still am afraid of rejection(been rejected a good number of times and learned from it how to play the game).
Ok well heres the girl.very beautiful junior, pretty much the hottest chick in our class, she dated a random ass senior last year and after a longgg relationship she finally broke up with him cuz he was being lame to her n whatnot.Shes definatly a relationship type of chick so shes low on girl friends and she likes it that way, she is in a sense more mature when it comes to relationships and worries about her own feelings n not what others tell her. Anyways i spent alot of time hanging out with her at work while she was with her boyfriend and shed always spill to me all the **** he puts her though and i genuinly would help her feel better and there would be other times wed just flirt and get touchy and i could feel a attraction. The good thing is i never entered a friend spot with her cuz i never let myself get to close to her as a friend or as a possible dater...so anyways time passes on i quit work and dont see her for a while and then we meet up at party in the summer where she seems so happy to find me cuz shes over hanging out with the girls (this is a sign for me cuz she only hung out with her bf before) and we basically spend the whole party hanging out together and talking getting flirty again in a playful sorta way and before the end of the party i get a hug and her number and she wants to hang out with me.
So we hang out a couple of times, we saw 2 movies, i went to her house n chilled for a bit, we went bowling and rockclimbing and i bought her ice cream plenty of times and she always had a good time. I always know the right things to say to her too and i always get responses liek aww ur to cute, or aww thats so sweet n such. We stopped hanging out as often when school started maybe a couple times a month yet she still sees me often and will come up and hug me and tell me she misses me and wants to hang out with me and i just tell her lifes been busy and such and that ill call her over the weekend which i do and we talk.Its really on and off with this chick but shes still available.
So heres whats happening in my head, i want this chick but i dunno where i am in her mind. I know shes turned down a really confident guy whose been after her all year so far. the thing is shes not like other chicks, like i said before shes more into the relationship guy and doesnt hangout with chicks at all so she has her own wierd way. When we talked over the summer i remember her telling me how uncomfortable she felt cuz one of her guy friends is liking her and that she didnt know what to do but no worries fellas it wasnt a way to tell me to back off cuz i knew who she was talking about and he really did like her and stood no chance hes a great guy though really. But anyways as i was saying that worried me a bit it made me wonder if i was a friend too or if i was more then a friend. the dude who wanned her earlier this year took her to homecoming but she didnt wanna go with him and wanned to go with someone she wanned a relation ship with as she told me over the summer but i was to preoccupied with tryin to get another girl that when i considered askin this chick she got asked by him and said yes thinkin only hed ask her. i told her i woulda asked her if he hadnt done it so early and she told me that woulda been great so i messed up there. also once i revealed to her an old relationship problem i had when i was the nice guy and i am worried that was too much but at the same time it could have not been cuz shes into that relationship romancy ****.....damn it guys u see how much goes thru my head i cant think clearly
HELP ME GUYS....i dunno where im at with her.....right now she wants to hang out again and has been texting me but i realllly dunno she has a lot of guy friends that she chills with solo and i just dunno where i stand with her or how i could finish this off, my guy friends tell me she digs me but the old reject in this aspiring don juan keeps clouding my brain
Ok well heres the girl.very beautiful junior, pretty much the hottest chick in our class, she dated a random ass senior last year and after a longgg relationship she finally broke up with him cuz he was being lame to her n whatnot.Shes definatly a relationship type of chick so shes low on girl friends and she likes it that way, she is in a sense more mature when it comes to relationships and worries about her own feelings n not what others tell her. Anyways i spent alot of time hanging out with her at work while she was with her boyfriend and shed always spill to me all the **** he puts her though and i genuinly would help her feel better and there would be other times wed just flirt and get touchy and i could feel a attraction. The good thing is i never entered a friend spot with her cuz i never let myself get to close to her as a friend or as a possible dater...so anyways time passes on i quit work and dont see her for a while and then we meet up at party in the summer where she seems so happy to find me cuz shes over hanging out with the girls (this is a sign for me cuz she only hung out with her bf before) and we basically spend the whole party hanging out together and talking getting flirty again in a playful sorta way and before the end of the party i get a hug and her number and she wants to hang out with me.
So we hang out a couple of times, we saw 2 movies, i went to her house n chilled for a bit, we went bowling and rockclimbing and i bought her ice cream plenty of times and she always had a good time. I always know the right things to say to her too and i always get responses liek aww ur to cute, or aww thats so sweet n such. We stopped hanging out as often when school started maybe a couple times a month yet she still sees me often and will come up and hug me and tell me she misses me and wants to hang out with me and i just tell her lifes been busy and such and that ill call her over the weekend which i do and we talk.Its really on and off with this chick but shes still available.
So heres whats happening in my head, i want this chick but i dunno where i am in her mind. I know shes turned down a really confident guy whose been after her all year so far. the thing is shes not like other chicks, like i said before shes more into the relationship guy and doesnt hangout with chicks at all so she has her own wierd way. When we talked over the summer i remember her telling me how uncomfortable she felt cuz one of her guy friends is liking her and that she didnt know what to do but no worries fellas it wasnt a way to tell me to back off cuz i knew who she was talking about and he really did like her and stood no chance hes a great guy though really. But anyways as i was saying that worried me a bit it made me wonder if i was a friend too or if i was more then a friend. the dude who wanned her earlier this year took her to homecoming but she didnt wanna go with him and wanned to go with someone she wanned a relation ship with as she told me over the summer but i was to preoccupied with tryin to get another girl that when i considered askin this chick she got asked by him and said yes thinkin only hed ask her. i told her i woulda asked her if he hadnt done it so early and she told me that woulda been great so i messed up there. also once i revealed to her an old relationship problem i had when i was the nice guy and i am worried that was too much but at the same time it could have not been cuz shes into that relationship romancy ****.....damn it guys u see how much goes thru my head i cant think clearly
HELP ME GUYS....i dunno where im at with her.....right now she wants to hang out again and has been texting me but i realllly dunno she has a lot of guy friends that she chills with solo and i just dunno where i stand with her or how i could finish this off, my guy friends tell me she digs me but the old reject in this aspiring don juan keeps clouding my brain
