I don't want to marry my gf

[Trainwreck]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

If I had these kind of doubts, I would question even staying with the girl, let alone anything more. She does sound quite blue pill; let me guess, she's above average looking....?

Monogamous LTRs are like practice marriage and should be treated as such.

 

[AlexKaiser]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

Sounds like you found prime meat. over-sheltered girls are ripe for anything.

While everyone is going through used and abused girls trying to find the one with the least outrageous "terms and conditions" you found one that's clean and ungamed.

Keep her around for a little while longer.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Then you don't know what you are doing, or she is a stubborn b!tch. If it's the former, mold her into what you want to be and make it so that she wants what you want. Dominate her. And sex often too. If it's not, then then leave her. Be that Disney Prince Charming who she would do anything for. Then she will follow you.

However if she is a stubborn b!tch, just leave her because your relationship will end soon enough.

 

[AlphaNate]

So don't marry her.

Is there a question?

 

[Roober]

If marriage is your ultimate goal, then you are wasting your time.

Trust me, if your gut tells you something like this, then you need to stick with it. I didn't follow my gut and settled and ended up with a divorce, not pretty!

You have two options
1. dump her now, enjoy single life while filtering for a woman for you
2. Stay with her and possibly miss out on a better woman

 

[backseatjuan]

Your name is not backseatjoan, you will never experience the joys of sex on the back seat of automobile. You are trainwreck, so act accordingly.

 

[homie]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

You know the answer...

 

[El Payaso]

Then don't.

 

[lizardking82]

Dude, beyond this "I don't wanna marry her"...this post feels like you're miserable right now or sth. Why would you stay in such a relationship?

 

[dk1990S111]

Your name is not backseatjoan, you will never experience the joys of sex on the back seat of automobile. You are trainwreck, so act accordingly.

Lmao wtf

 

[Desdinova]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

Over-sheltered college girls would potentially make great LTR candidates. However, it doesn't mean she's right for you.

You have to figure out what you want out of like. If you're fine with having the same chick hanging around, keep dating her but don't marry. If you would rather be banging other hot slvts, then it's time to get rid of her.

 

[BeExcellent]

My dad used to talk about opportunity costs.

What opportunities is staying with a woman you'll never marry costing you?

You're only young once. Quit spinning your wheels and start spinning plates.

 

[sazc]

I know it's going to be hard on you and on her but you need to let her go. You need to free yourself and her up to find someone else. You are only delaying the inevitable and wasting everyone's time.

Good luck

 

[Masculinity]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

If you have different mindsets, save yourself pain, trouble, and time by getting out of the relationship. These gaps in values will only exacerbate if you stay in the relationship longer or you marry. You know you're not feeling this girl of yours as much as you did before.

Do you live together? If not, it should be simple to break up and move on to a woman with whom you can have a better relationship.

 

[Tenacity]

I see it being miserable because idk if I could live with her, our mindsets/philosophies conflict, and our goals and life plans conflict with each other. Her Disney mentality is over 9000 because she is an over-sheltered college girl.

Sir you don't want to marry ANY American woman.

The market of women have changed, we are no longer in a market that marriage even makes sense anymore. Men and women no longer "need" each other for survival, and with the explosion of social media/dating platforms.....it's very hard to just stay with one person for the REST of your life.

Plus there's absolutely NO benefit you get from marrying a woman than just from being in a committed relationship with her. Committed relationship means you promote her as your number one girl or only girl, even though you might be seeing other women on the side.

 

[devilkingx2]

don't ever get married to anyone, stay with her until you stop enjoying it.

simple enough right?

 

[Trainwreck]

don't ever get married to anyone, stay with her until you stop enjoying it.

simple enough right?

The main reason is that she wants kids lol.

 

[Tenacity]

The main reason is that she wants kids lol.

You don't need a marriage contract to fvck her rawww, nut in her, and get her pregnant lol. You can go do that right now...

 

[Trainwreck]

You don't need a marriage contract to fvck her rawww, nut in her, and get her pregnant lol. You can go do that right now...

I cringe at the fact of having kids right now. Ewwwwww