I dont want to cheat on my girlfriend, but I might be getting myself close....

[Serg897]

My problem bascially is that now Ive got another girl that seems to be heavily into me. She wants to do something with me, but im afraid of the consequences if my girlfriend finds out im seeing other girls.

Last night when I was at a fencing club, I got the screen names of 3 girls that all seemed to be into me. One of them has already asked me to go skating with her tommorow, telling me things like " I'd love it for you to go" and " please, I'll be really sad if you dont go " then it was HER that asked me for MY number.

Ive gone along with this, but I am getting dangerously close to the possibility of cheating, something I really dont want to do. My girlfriend still seemd to like me a lot. I was practicing on these girls, and possibly to keep them as "backups" These girls all go to different schools, it is very possible that I can see multiple girls without them finding out, but is it worth it?

I want to hear some opinions on this. How can I get out of this in the most painless way possible?

 

[The Bishop]

What you should do really depends on how you feel about each of these girls , and your girlfriend. To me you have several options:

Break up with your current girl and do some non-exclusive dating with those three chicks

Reject those girls-for now

Have them around as friends, or "backups", as you said it, and stay with your girl

Whatever you choose, remember. DJ's NEVER, EVER cheat on ANYONE. Not in spite, under influence, or anything else. They are too respectful of themselves and those girls.

 

[Serg897]

Im keeping them around as friends, and I made it clear to the girl that wanted me to skating with her that I couldnt be more than friends at this present moment.

hopefully she took it well ( she problably thought I was lying when I said I couldnt go ) I feel kinda bad for her.

 

[Gold Heart]

Do you want to be with your girlfriend more or be with these girls non-exclusively? If so, dump your girlfriend and go get what you want to get.