I can't say for sure this would work. But if 44 x year old Lefty could go back in time to 1991 and talk to 17 x year old Lefty about his future wife he will start dating in 1992. About how to get her to submit and be able to marry her for life in 1997 without having her divorce him in 2004 for being a beta cuck, old Lefty would tell young Lefty:
"What you need to do is do all of those manly things that mom told you not to do. Don't abuse your future wife but push things further than you are comfortable with towards the point that makes her almost fear you. Let her see a tough side in you. Also DO boss her around a little bit but don't keep her on such a tight leash that she feels like she is in prison around you. But do set boundaries and make sure she knows they are not to be crossed. Put your foot down and take charge, even if it's uncomfortable. Do make solid decisions and keep your decisions final unless there are extraordinary circimstances to change. Dominate her in bed and make the sex so good that she gets addicted to it like crack. Don't ever cry in front of her other than at Grampa's funeral in 1999 and Dad's funeral in 2002, but no other time".
Dunno if it would work but I think something like this would have the best shot. Get a woman at a young age, establish frame, achieve submittance, and hold frame at all costs. In my case I was 18 and my soon to be wife/ex-wife was 16. I had her at the right time I just didn't play my cards right.
