I dont understand... why is this happening?

[Clueless2k16]

ok this a portuguese singer called Pedro Abrunhosa, he is bald and his trademark is always wearing sunglasses no matter the occasion

http://www.suasletras.com/fotos_artista/35ab3bcac270a5f01b66af1fc920d833.jpg

and this is me

http://i.imgur.com/KjLcgAc.png

while women treat me like ****, and tell me to do a hair transplant and check myself in the mirror to see if the mirror breaks, the bully me completely even if i dont do anything for that to occur, i noticed they love this guy. its like they perceive me as a low value and this guy as high value, even the ones that dont know the guy is a singer.

Ok so what's going here? I dont see this guy as being much more superior than me lookwise, even his ears are bigger (mine were pinned back), is head shape is not that good. Ok my beard may not be the best but that doesnt explain everything. What's triggering these women behaviour of treating me like an inferior, an animal just by looking at a picture?

is it the stylish sunglasses? what? also my picture was taken naturally and his was studio produced. as a man not being gay but i dont see him as a greek god or model....

it seems to me that women see a lowlife in me or someone they can bully just by looking at my pic... its weird but its happening

 

[guru1000]

You again. You come here bi-annually with a different SN, and complain about your looks. First, it was your lack of facial fat. Then your eyes. Then your chin/jaw. Now your head. What's next?

 

[Clueless2k16]

at least read the damn text, im not complaining about my facial features, im just making a comparison between that guy and me and knowing why based on pics there's a difference of treatment.

you guys dont even bother to read to what i post, you just base your actions on some posts i've made. is this how you plan to help those in need of help? by flaming them?

 

[Desdinova]

What's triggering these women behaviour of treating me like an inferior, an animal just by looking at a picture?

Quit using online dating.

 

[Clueless2k16]

Quit using online dating.

im seriously thinking about it. anyway you didnt answer the question, would be interesting if you did.

 

[logicallefty]

I'll answer with my opinion. In your pic you look like a pretty normal dude. I don't think this is a looks issue I think it's a self confidence issue. If you are trying to be like someone else wearing these shades or whatever to make yourself better with the ladies, that right there is the issue. The shades you wear (or don't wear ), the beard you grow, etc. need to reflect what you like. Make your own style and love it. Once you do your confidence will ooze out your pores and the ladies will love it too.

 

[fastlife]

OK, I'll bite. It's not your looks--(I know guys who look way worse than you who do fine with women)--it's your insecurity. You project such a weak frame and are so desperate for validation that girls pick up on it and treat you like the piece of sh1t you feel like deep down.

Girls will always try to break a guy down overtime, just to see what he's made of. And you blow over like a card castle.

Change your beliefs, and you'll change the way other people treat you. Now make your excuses; be a victim; but hopefully other guys see this and can benefit from the truth.

 

[Tictac]

OK, I'll bite. It's not your looks--(I know guys who look way worse than you who do fine with women)--it's your insecurity. You project such a weak frame and are so desperate for validation that girls pick up on it and treat you like the piece of sh1t you feel like deep down.

Girls will always try to break a guy down overtime, just to see what he's made of. And you blow over like a card castle.

Change your beliefs, and you'll change the way other people treat you. Now make your excuses; be a victim; but hopefully other guys see this and can benefit from the truth.

He's been told this under about three different user names over a long time.

He thinks if he gets his outside right, all will be perfect.

Even if he did all this stuff, not a thing would change.

There is nothing wrong outside and there never has been.

He won't do one thing to change his thinking.

 

[Clueless2k16]

i project a weak frame through a photo where i'm wearing shades? sorry but i dont buy it, thats not possible.

i know body language tells much, but nor you nor women can tell that i'm projecting insecurity in a selfie with sunglasses on. so they must be picking up on something else.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

You probably don't look like Mr. Fun. You pretty much have to either be a loud douche bag, bum that smokes pot/doesn't work, or some rich flashy guy.

 

[guru1000]

OP, there is a clear distinction about tending to your looks--and--being overly-sensitive about or revolving everything around your looks. ALL your threads are pic threads, with the underlying motive to hear, "Yes, you look normal. "

Coming here bi-annually with different pics (guised as "game" or "treatment" advice) will not change the advice you will receive. How much reinforcement do you need before you let this looks thing go?

 

[Clueless2k16]

as i said i dont buy it when people tell me that i project insecurity with sunglasses on and a face only selfie.

maybe i dont look like mr fun as dhoulmagus said, there must some guys for women to bully right? otherwise they wouldnt have fun.

and no im not asking for validation i only wanted to make a comparison between that random singer and me.

 

[Tictac]

as i said i dont buy it when people tell me that i project insecurity with sunglasses on and a face only selfie.

maybe i dont look like mr fun as dhoulmagus said, there must some guys for women to bully right? otherwise they wouldnt have fun.

and no im not asking for validation i only wanted to make a comparison between that random singer and me.

Nobody is buying your refusal to even acknowledge what they try to tell you. You act as though it didn't happen.

Come back (again) in 6 months with a new user name and start to moan all over again.

 

[finality]

Post a normal pic where you aren't pretending you are joe cool.

You look like a instagram sloot begging for attention

 

[ZTIME]

Why seek advice you will never adhere to. If it's validation you seek here you go.

A bit back you posted a photo bucket with a bunch of selfies of you and some of a Bassett hound. You know how they say dogs look like their owners????

This from the Buddhist who tried to offer valid advice on your previous threads!

Stop waisting people's time who truly want to help promote the male race to a better way of living.

 

[Clueless2k16]

i dont know what the hell my dog has to do with the topic? maybe i look like my dog? ok thats a new one lol

 

[ZTIME]

i dont know what the hell my dog has to do with the topic? maybe i look like my dog? ok thats a new one lol

Yes, that's basically what I said. Don't laugh out loud. Look at pictures 9 and 17, and compare them to the pooch.

Simple things.

Is this the validation you seek, or should we move on to really helping??

There are a lot of people here who truly want to enrich their lives without all the whining.

Will you be one of them?

 

[Clueless2k16]

so women dont want anything with me because i look like a dog? how is that supposed to help?

your comment make no sense mate

 

[ZTIME]

so women dont want anything with me because i look like a dog? how is that supposed to help?

your comment make no sense mate

Neither do your threads.

Seriously my posts in this thread had no intention to help, yet based on all of the great advice given to you in your last few threads (all on the same topic), I thought this is what you're looking for.

The question is: How many more of these ridiculous threads will you create until you actually listen to some of the advice MATE??

 

[Clueless2k16]

if you saw all the pics you would have understood, the need i had for plastic surgeries. you were not the ones bullied in school high school and later in college because you had droopy the dog eyes, dumbo ears or horse teeth. this **** lived with me all these years, and while now people use the term bullying in the 80's those that were being bullied would suck it up because if they came home moaning and whining they would get a slap in the ****in face. yeah that happened.

You people saying that i didnt need plastic surgery dont know what i've been through, so stop judging. Do i still have big ears, big teeth? thanks to me no, after all these years saving money because i didnt have anyone has a kid or a teen willing to give me a hand. So imagine growing up being rejected, being cast aside, making fun of. I lost the best of my life, years that are not coming back.

Do i still have droopy eyes like my dog as Mr ZTIME said above, maybe a little but not as worse as it was before. think sly stallone before his canthopexy. It still bothers me, maybe i will get it fixed maybe not.

Anyway yes im worried about looks, because looks hindered me all these years. It matters a LOT