I dont talk to Strangers

[englishcrap]

Last night I tried chatting to two girls and they just said "I am sorry but your a complete stranger " How do you turn this round into a fun conversation. I then said "Hey Relax just wanted some friendly chit chat"..she again but your a stranger I dont know you...at that point I didnt know what to say.

 

[Krassus]

Want an honest opinion? This is what popped into my head after reading your post. In my experience, if girls see you as the kind of guy they could be with, they'll very rarely react like that (we're talking 1% chance). They may blow you off later on but they'll always give you a chance. I've done hundreds of daytime approaches and that has only happened a couple of times. With that said, i'm not saying that it happens to you all the time, but if it does, i would suggest adjusting your image. Dress like the kind of guys these girls are often seen with and your success rate with them will skyrocket. With that said, the only time i've heard that line used is when me and my friend did a direct approach on these two girls. Or rather, he approached one of them and i chilled with the other and watched. She told him about the stranger thing two minutes in and he kind of froze. I jumped in with "your girlfriend here was once a stranger too, right? she would still be one if you hadn't gotten to know her." It worked and he walked off with her number.

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by englishcrap
Last night I tried chatting to two girls and they just said "I am sorry but your a complete stranger " How do you turn this round into a fun conversation. I then said "Hey Relax just wanted some friendly chit chat"..she again but your a stranger I dont know you...at that point I didnt know what to say.

They don't know you but they only talk to people they know (non-strangers)?

Well that's just catch 22...

 

[stalluproar]

Are you standing tall, slightly leaning back and confident?

Go up to them assuming they want you. When they say I'm sorry you are a stranger, say something in the effect of well yeah, I hope you aren't the type that I read about in the newspaper. Turn what she said to you around to her. That was an examle, come up with common things women say to you and come up with a default thing to say for each objection. If she is still cold, its better to move on and not waste your time or energy.

 

[Diaoz]

yeah, I kindda agree the most girls wouldn't respond in sucha way if you're acting right.
Dress Properly
Good Body Language etc.

but...

there are instances when girls say that when they are testing you because they are simply picked up all the time.

so yeah, come up with some C&F in response. stalluproar's come back is good.

 

[Thundercat]

Those girls just weren't into you. If they had wanted to talk with you, they would have, stranger or no.

In a situation like that it's best just to cut your losses and move on to girls who'd appreciate what you have to offer.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

What they meant was that they don't talk to guys like YOU. There was something about you that they didnt like...Dont get all neurotic on us, SOME some women are like this....bi&*((es

 

[DjDreamer]

Yep...they were not turned on by you because if they were turn on by you they would've made it their duty to get to know you better...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You guys need to stop trying to memorize lines and actually listen to what women say to you. You're screwing up because you're too busy trying to figure out what to say next instead of listening.

Think about it, what should you do if a woman says that you're a stranger and she doesn't know you????

INTRODUCE YOURSELF!!!!

 

[Black Panther®]

never happened to me, dam u most look like a serious killer or something

i mean just say " well everybody you know were strangers at one point, we most start somewhere" then just extend your hand and be like " my name's (Don Juan)" (please do not say don juan lol)

 

[duke007]

Remember that song from the Simpsons?

"A stranger is a friend you haven't met"

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
You guys need to stop trying to memorize lines and actually listen to what women say to you. You're screwing up because you're too busy trying to figure out what to say next instead of listening.

Think about it, what should you do if a woman says that you're a stranger and she doesn't know you????

INTRODUCE YOURSELF!!!!

LoL... well it seems like the solution to that problem was so seductively simple...

 

[englishcrap]

Thanks Guys, I guess its one of those situations where u panick and think too deeply on how to respond.

Originally posted by DjDreamer
LoL... well it seems like the solution to that problem was so seductively simple...

 

[Trance]

Answer:

"I'm the person your mother warned you about"

 

[Alpine]

Yeah,

Your initial appearance wasn't good enough.

It's just a polite way of saying fvck off I'm not interested in you.

They would have talked and gigled with a really good looking axe murder/rapist and invited him home.

To answer your question another way, with a question/rebuttal.

Yeah, I sort of understand what your saying, and can you remember the last time you met someone you didn't know, and they turned out to be an absolutely amazing, warm, interesting person?

The idea is more to get them to think about that person and suddenly they realise that everyone's a stranger until you get to know them.

If you get a no. I'd tell them they need to get out more.

Don't forget the initial eye contact and body language. All the non-verbal attraction stuff. This is more important than anything as you are less likely to get rejected before you even open your mouth.

You can also do some C&F like, yeah, mammy always told you not to talk to strangers, I just thought you were a big girl now that's all. (smile)

or

Well, as you can see I haven't got those hangups.

 

[sfalexi]

Out of curiosity, why would you even WANT to continue talking with someone who says, "I don't talk to strangers"? How old was she? Eight? Nine? Cause that's about the last time I remember actually thinking I'm not supposed to talk to strangers.

She's obviously just being a bitxh. F_ _ _ her. Her loss. Move on.

(Damn censorship. Making me find alternates so you can understand what the hell I'm trying to say)