I don't see hot girls with hot guys often, wtf is going on?

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

When it comes to LTRs I notice that a lot of good looking guys tend to settle for girls below their league and those that not all of us would consider hot but aren't ugly either. Whenever I have met a girl who was attractive, her boyfriend was never the guy with the symmetrical model face. Not say her boyfriend was ugly or fat, but he wasn't necessarily a Henry Cavill (why is that dude always settling for women below his league?) or Chris Hemsworth.

If I had to describe the guy that always end up dating the hottest girl or being in a relationship with her he is:

above average height (over 6 ft)
tall
average to maybe above average looking
and white

 

[JoeMarron]

Does it seriously have to be said again that looks arent the most important factor when it comes to a male's attractiveness? If Henry Cavill is a pvssy then his looks aren't going to be as helpful. As far as good looking men dating down is concerned, part of that is what I just described; the man might be attractive but his behavior isn't masculine. Another reason is it makes sense to date down in a relationship. If you want a 9 then you better be a 10 or else your relationship is gonna be hell. My girl hasn't given me sh!t for over two years and part of the reason is she knows she'll have difficulty attracting a man better than me.

 

[VikingKing]

Hot girls tend to go for guys who have more money or power (and with power, money usually goes with it), not necessarily looks.

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Why do we assume good looking men aren't masculine enough?

that said I would have seen Henry Cavill with someone like an Angelina Jolie kind of woman aka an actress that is hot. Hottest girl dude has been with to date is Gina Carano who is a former MMA fighter, the rest of the girls are plain. I don't see the hype behind Penny from BBT, plain face, no thanks!!!

I would think a guy that has good looks would be more masculine because he is in term confident.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Hot girls tend to go for guys who have more money or power (and with power, money usually goes with it), not necessarily looks.

When are people going to get rid of this myth?

Men who have money or "power" f*ck wh*res...and if they are in relationships with attractive women they tend to marry them.

In all my experiences with women they always respond stronger emotionally than they do logically. If a woman is in a relationship with a rich man it's mostly because he is rich...if a rich man is in a relationship with an attractive woman it's mostly because of the sex....which is why the logical decision for the rich man is to pay for wh*res.

Attracting women is a skill and being wealthy doesn't automatically give you that skill.

Why do we assume good looking men aren't masculine enough?

In my experience many good looking guys are too passive...they wait for women to approach them as opposed to being active themselves...they tend to behave just like every other man (they haven't stepped out of the box) but they do better than the average man...and if you're doing better than most why bother to improve?

Good looks will only get women interested...and interest can fade quickly as it isn't the same as attraction.

To get laid a man must be pro-active, he must lead the interactions and get emotionals reactions from women...an attractive woman will get attention from lots of men and isn't required to do anything. An attractive man on the other hand will get women coming up to him expecting him to flirt and lead the interaction...and if he can't she'll soon go (I'm posting this from experience).

 

[adam225]

It's you're overall presents what they go for. Women LOVE confidence (true confidence), it's the number one thing that sparks their attraction. The opposite is also true - Being insecure KILLS their attraction. If you can get truly confident, you'll never struggle with women.... It can't be faked though, they have a sixth sense when it comes to "how much of a real man is he"....

 

[foreverAFC]

dont most women want guys who look like Bobby Sherman or David Cassidy ?

 

[LeonSK]

Why does it bother you? Why hot girl has to be with hot guy?

 

[bigneil]

What bugs me here in Austin is not only that hot girls are with (horribly dressed) average men, but how the men literally use their bodies to try and completely block your view of their date. The girls are almost always friendly and outgoing and the guys just have this look of dread if you speak one word to their girl. I call it "Out of His League Syndrome".

Last week (after months of seducing her) I got my favorite bartender's phone number and within seconds a bunch of bald men appeared and immediately formed a protective circle around her. You see, in their mind, they are next in line to date her because they have always been an extremely nice friend to her (not counting that particular moment).

Last night I sat next to a girl who was with some hippie dude at the bar. He (seated between she and I) was talking about his emotional issues and his bike accident. I only got a few peeks at her because he was leaning forward and had rotated 90 degrees toward her in his attempt to be exclusive. But as I was leaving I said to her "Excuse me, but I know I've seen you someplace". It turned out she was a movie star and was in one of my favorite movies. I had literally paused the movie she starred in (Mud) and Googled her because she was so pretty. I patted the guy on the back (he had now rotated away from me) and said "This guy must be doing something right". But he did not turn to look at me once. He kept his back to me the whole time. He never made eye contact with me (even as she was shaking my hand). Had he understood female psychology he would have thanked me for making her night.

Guys, unless someone is making your date uncomfortable, don't be an overprotective douche bag. Be proud to be seen with her, not afraid to lose her.

 

[bigneil]

Women LOVE confidence (true confidence), it's the number one thing that sparks their attraction. If you can get truly confident, you'll never struggle with women.... It can't be faked though, they have a sixth sense when it comes to "how much of a real man is he"....

Yes, it can't be faked. Therefore, confidence must be an emergent property. What does it emerge from? Having previously succeeded at what you are attempting. What did your previous success arise from? You good looks, broad shoulders, perfect attire, good sense of humor and generous spending. She didn't need a "sixth sense" to observe those traits. All she needed was her vision and hearing.

Because we can't have confidence in a vacuum, it is not a factor in and of itself.

 

[bigneil]

When are people going to get rid of this myth?

Men who have money or "power" f*ck wh*res...and if they are in relationships with attractive women they tend to marry them.
If a woman is in a relationship with a rich man it's mostly because he is rich...if a rich man is in a relationship with an attractive woman it's mostly because of the sex....which is why the logical decision for the rich man is to pay for wh*res.

Attracting women is a skill and being wealthy doesn't automatically give you that skill. (I'm posting this from experience).

You don't seem to have much experience looking good, having power, being wealthy, or being in relationships then.

So he is using her for sex and she is using him for money? Exactly, it's called marriage. Change the word "use" to "utilize" and the problem of sour grape bias goes away. It is mutually beneficial. Eons ago, the women who chose the young pretty boys went extinct. The women who chose older men who had acquired more resources had more children. In some cases, healthy, strong men both acquired lots of resources AND looked good. Imagine. You might even say success defines what looks good. Now that the 20 something women are realizing their boyfriends will never earn enough to raise a family, they are suddenly liking older men again. You always come back to the basics.

Rich, good looking men don't logically pay for wh*res, nor do they logically get married if a girl stays with them. Rich, ugly men do that.
Rich, good looking men rule (see George Clooney). Rich, good looking men can date whoever they want, so they choose a variety. Try to be a rich, good looking man.

 

[G_Govan]

Keep in mind that just "seeing" two people together doesn't give you enough information about what arrangements they have together.

Unless you know them intimately you have no idea what goes on in private.

A lot of the complaints you see on this very website involve men who went on dates with women and ended up not getting anything out of it.

 

[Don-Kong]

Hit guys don't get it. The game. They rely on their looks which is why they bag tons of 6's & 7's yet fail with those higher up. They probably have the attitude that's says 'I am the prize' yet fail to implement anything else.

Good. Fk em. Good looking AFC's are still AFC's.
I see them everywhere. Disgusting.
Hot b1tches with their lap dogs.
I'm not selling my soul to be in hell with miss 10 either. Fk that!