I don't like who I am

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Here is some red pill information that might shock you.. but also might give you peace: No one gives a sh!t who you are.

That's right.. you are the only person who cares who you are. No one else does. People care about what you can do for them and that's about it. So all the people who waste their lives worrying about "fitting in" and looking, acting, dressing a certain way are really focused on the wrong thing.

There are only two questions a man has to ask himself:
#1: What do I want out of life?
#2: What do I need to do to get it?

And that's it. All the social d!ck measuring BS doesn't matter. People constantly rise and fall in status at different stages of life based on changes in society, economics, emotions, etc. Focus on understanding the world and knowing how to get what you want from it. F*ck caring about being a "certain type of person" to prove things to others. No one really gives a sh!t, I'm telling you.

When people meet you for the first time they generally worry about the following:
#1. Is this person a threat to me?
#2. Can this person do something for me?
#3. Do I like this person?
#4. Does this person like me?

Even better.. #3 and #4 are based on #1 and #2. This is the game. Pretty simple right? And it applies to life AND women. Most betas don't realize how simple the game is because they get manipulated by all the "noise" and bullsh!t that society, the media and women push on them.
^^^^ This. Times 10. This is all you need to know. Within this framework falls the entire range of society, human emotions, relationships & life. If you can't wrap your brain around this then THAT is where you must start.

Further you must understand that every other person in the world cares about themselves first. You are wise to remember this always and understand how this undercurrent underpins all human interaction.
 
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Most betas don't realize how simple the game is because they get manipulated by all the "noise" and bullsh!t that society, the media and women push on them.
print this, hang on your bathroom wall, and read every day.

Till my early 30's I wasn't happy with my life too. I knew I wanted things differently. I knew my interests where way diff than the 'poor' mindset of the environment I grew up.

Half my 30's. I moved to another big city ... I had already my own business but focussed 100% on it. I started to run and made it a part of my life. I started travelling as hell ... all this because it's more me.
The old environment I escaped from is still looking strange at me ... well, they are the same to me, but I don't give a little **** on them anymore.

You know what I often think know? Why the hell did I my move that late and not 10 years earlier. Move on. Examine those triggers blocking you, and unlock yourself.

Oh yes, in 2017 I leave my country to move to a city I discovered while travelling a lot. I feel great overthere.
 
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print this, hang on your bathroom wall, and read every day.

Till my early 30's I wasn't happy with my life too. I knew I wanted things differently. I knew my interests where way diff than the 'poor' mindset of the environment I grew up.

Half my 30's. I moved to another big city ... I had already my own business but focussed 100% on it. I started to run and made it a part of my life. I started travelling as hell ... all this because it's more me.
The old environment I escaped from is still looking strange at me ... well, they are the same to me, but I don't give a little **** on them anymore.

You know what I often think know? Why the hell did I my move that late and not 10 years earlier. Move on. Examine those triggers blocking you, and unlock yourself.

Oh yes, in 2017 I leave my country to move to a city I discovered while travelling a lot. I feel great overthere.
I can totally relate to this. My friends are very different than me. They like traveling too, but it's always close by, it's never to the other side of the world even though they have the money and the time to do it. When it's good weather they often stay inside to play some games on their pc instead of going to have a drink in the sun with their friends. I hope one day I meet some people who are completely like me.
 
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