I don't know what to do...

[Rimojenkins]

Okay so nice to meet you. I have a simple problem that nearly everyone else gets into one time or another and I want to know if there is anything I can do to fix it.

There is this girl (lets call her C) that I really like. Actually, I've been through the infatuation phase with her and even afterwords still like her so I assume that I love her.

Now, C and I are best friends. She talks to me about anything and everything. She also knows how strong my feelings are for her and everything about me. However, she does not like me back. She says there just isn't that "Chemistry".

I am clueless on how to get her to like me back. It's painful to like her. I love her though. I want her happiness above all else and even being her friend is amazing. I don't think I would want to ruin this friendship!

Is there any advice that someone can give me for this?

Details about her:
#1 in her class
... Lets just say Hermione Granger. The only difference is that this girl is in dance.

 

[ENIGMA16]

Move on. You're not going to be able to get this one. You're firmly entrenched in her mind as a friend, and she will not be able to view you as anything more. Get over her.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

You're screwed. Forget about it.

BTW, you are in high school. You don't really know what love is.

 

[MOZIS]

I truly dislike yogurtslinger but have to agree with him.

 

[YogurtSlinger]

See, I'm not all bad...

 

[Dsnyder]

Don't do it to yourself!

Don't do it to yourself! There is nothing you can do to make her love you back. You are lucky she's been honest and didn't lead you on to think other wise. No matter how much you want it, if she is not into it, then there is nothing you can do. I'm sorry, and it sucks, but you will not be able to win her love. Maybe someday when you both are out of highschool and she realizes how hard a good man is to find but until that day you need to just move on and stop hurting yourself.

 

[Brighty]

Move on. Easiest way to get over this girl is to become infatuated with another, more attractive girl.... or depending on how possible it is for you ideally hook up with another girl.

 

[eaglez1177]

Ughh god yet another one-itis...sometimes I wonder approximately how many kids have one-itis in a given highschool.

And just for the record, you have NO FVCKING CLUE what love is. Your in fvcking highschool man. And your putting this girl above yourself, your obsessed with her, and its clear you wont be able to get her to like you back.

Move on, grow a pair, and stop obsessing over one particular girl.

 

[Rimojenkins]

Ughh god yet another one-itis...sometimes I wonder approximately how many kids have one-itis in a given highschool.

And just for the record, you have NO FVCKING CLUE what love is. Your in fvcking highschool man. And your putting this girl above yourself, your obsessed with her, and its clear you wont be able to get her to like you back.

Move on, grow a pair, and stop obsessing over one particular girl.

I assume that I am in love with her. I do love her as a friend so I don't want to hurt her. I can't just back off because she likes the friendship. However, I can stop liking her thanks to the wonderful internet people.

So, how do I become a douchebag instead of the emotional tampon I am to girls?

 

[kevin1198]

there's a fine line between a douchebag and a natural man, Rimo.

 

[Rimojenkins]

there's a fine line between a douchebag and a natural man, Rimo.

I have been reading over the sight. Thank you guys for all your advice. I will attempt to get over it, however, it won't be an over the night thing. I just need to learn to be a DJ and not freak out and become a jerk...

Time to read more!

 

[Audiophile]

I was in the same EXACT position you were in, and only one thing was able to help me, and that was to start talking to other girls. As I started talking to other girls more and more, it took no time at all to stop my own infatuation.

Reading can only get you so far, your mindset will NEVER switch by reading alone, you need to act.

 

[eaglez1177]

I was in the same EXACT position you were in, and only one thing was able to help me, and that was to start talking to other girls. As I started talking to other girls more and more, it took no time at all to stop my own infatuation.

Reading can only get you so far, your mindset will NEVER switch by reading alone, you need to act.

Exactly. We can give you all the greatest and most amazing advice as possible on this board, but it will get you absolutely NOWHERE if you dont act on what you've learned.