I don't know that many girls, What do I do?

[JPlaya]

I'm about to graduate high school so that ain't helping. I have like 2 girls numbers:nono: so far. I just got out of my shy shell, so I'm new. I guess I'm like a 7/10, nothing special.

 

[trying2fit]

I think u should have asked in the beginning of ur senior year...im a freshy and i have like 13, but I only like 1 of them...
uhh u should play a sport if u can
if not you can always pick up girls at parties...but those don't last long
better yet if u just pick up on a girl you used to talk to alot.
but what do u want? sex? girlfriend to brag? relationship?

 

[Wolfgang D]

Are you going to college? It's a whole new deal.

Seems there is no one thing you should do, it's a whole program. And it doesn't happen over night, so buckle up for a long ride. It's worth it.

What everybody says: work out, sign up for hobbies (even if you don't find femmes there hobbies make you interesting and help you grow), get out as much as possible. Learn a certain mindset.

There is no easy answer to this. If there was, everyone would be doing it. But there are things that will help you improve in the long run.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I'm about to graduate high school so that ain't helping. I have like 2 girls numbers:nono: so far. I just got out of my shy shell, so I'm new. I guess I'm like a 7/10, nothing special.

Hey man, you may think that your situation sucks but the end of the High School is also the beginning of the rest of your life! You'll get a fresh start in college and you will have a much better chance and definitely more friends. Don't skip going to college!

As long as you're making this post here, why don't you tell us a few things about yourself and what your sticking points are. In case you don't know what sticking points are, they're the things you have the most difficulty with, you know like when you feel anxious, nervous or insecure in a certain situation, or if you're hesitant to do something.

If you give us more info about yourself, you will get much more useful advice out of the people at Sosuave.

 

[JPlaya]

Well since I was anti social throughout high school, I ended up not knowing any girls. I thought this one girl liked me, but idk I think I got friendzoned lol. I guess my problem is initiating flirting and talking to girls. I'm not scared, I just don't know what to say.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Well since I was anti social throughout high school, I ended up not knowing any girls. I thought this one girl liked me, but idk I think I got friendzoned lol. I guess my problem is initiating flirting and talking to girls. I'm not scared, I just don't know what to say.

JPlaya, you definitely need to read this article if you haven't already. It's called Kill That Desperation! written by Pook.

This article called Destroying Social Phobias written by Mr. Fingers, will also give you some great information to use to initiate more conversations, meet new people, and to overall become more social.

Here's a third article that I find very simple and helpful on the topic of conversation. It's called How to be a better conversationalist written by Poet.

If I may add a final word of advice - ONLY posting here at Sosuave (especially if you're a casual poster) will NOT cause you to improve with your social life and your abilities with women.

The magic words that will allow you to get all the women of your dreams is EFFORT, PRACTICE, and EVERYDAY.