Hey guys, I hope you help me out here. Heres the deal..
I boke up with my gf a week ago because she pissed me off, but she cried blah blah blah i gave her another chance. The next day or so she goes to california, leavnig her myspace the way she changed it (Single, main display different, me out of top 5... Etc..)
My gf is in california for like 4 days, we dont talk because her parents dont allow her to use the phone at all, but i still think she could have snuck somewhere to at least call me once, or answer my text messages i sent her : I called her 5 times, sent her about 3 texts, never answered once..
Ok so today i look on myspace and I HAVE TO SEE FOR MYSELF, that shes back. She changes her display pic to a picture of her and her friend, but not of us ? WTF? her profile is still the same. she writes a picture comment on one of my new pics and said "cute pic". BUT.... didnt evne call me at all to tell me she was back.. ****ing B1TCH!!
Anyways, The normal DJ would be like, ehh, well i called her ill just wait it out until she aclls me, but im like no fck that sht we been goin out for a year im gonna call her house to see whats up. No one picks up, i guess their family is out...
Anyways, HERES MY QUESTION.... MY gf is very fckin insecure and would btch at me or dump me if i ever hugged a girl.. I look on my gfs FRIENDS profile, to find like 24 pictures of her and her friend, and about 4 pictures of my gf hugging up on guys and sht.... she huggin up one this guy really close and took a pic smiling like they were a damn couple, another one who i know about the guy looks like a damn transvestite (hes a big pretty boy) and they were sitting at a table normally, and another one with my gf and 2 of her friends and the transvestite, this time the dude had his arm wrapped around hers.. i was like.. umm wtf? (THIS guy actually likes my gf a lot, and he knows that shes mine, he even asked her out but my gf said no and sht, and he has a problem about us dating cus im her ex and he thinks she neesd to move on cus its boring to go out with exe again.. mother fkcer should stay out of our business... ANYWAYS.. these pictures, of course, without my GF even knowing cus gone in cali, was posted by her FRIEND on her profile (not on my gfs but her friends, i was just browsing to see if my gf left her friends comments about being back and i found the pictures).. im pretty sure my gf would be afraid if i saw them.. but thats cus she would get really pissed off if she saw that. but to me i dont care.
Normally my gf wouldnt allow this, so should i not allow this either? I mean, in the past i would have tripped like hell, but after breaking up with my gf in the past and being with other people , it doesnt even bother me at all anymore "Maybe cus i dont love her like i use to?" So to me it doesnt matter, just like whatever... u know... but ... should i say somethnig about it when MY GF would? or what?
I boke up with my gf a week ago because she pissed me off, but she cried blah blah blah i gave her another chance. The next day or so she goes to california, leavnig her myspace the way she changed it (Single, main display different, me out of top 5... Etc..)
My gf is in california for like 4 days, we dont talk because her parents dont allow her to use the phone at all, but i still think she could have snuck somewhere to at least call me once, or answer my text messages i sent her : I called her 5 times, sent her about 3 texts, never answered once..
Ok so today i look on myspace and I HAVE TO SEE FOR MYSELF, that shes back. She changes her display pic to a picture of her and her friend, but not of us ? WTF? her profile is still the same. she writes a picture comment on one of my new pics and said "cute pic". BUT.... didnt evne call me at all to tell me she was back.. ****ing B1TCH!!
Anyways, The normal DJ would be like, ehh, well i called her ill just wait it out until she aclls me, but im like no fck that sht we been goin out for a year im gonna call her house to see whats up. No one picks up, i guess their family is out...
Anyways, HERES MY QUESTION.... MY gf is very fckin insecure and would btch at me or dump me if i ever hugged a girl.. I look on my gfs FRIENDS profile, to find like 24 pictures of her and her friend, and about 4 pictures of my gf hugging up on guys and sht.... she huggin up one this guy really close and took a pic smiling like they were a damn couple, another one who i know about the guy looks like a damn transvestite (hes a big pretty boy) and they were sitting at a table normally, and another one with my gf and 2 of her friends and the transvestite, this time the dude had his arm wrapped around hers.. i was like.. umm wtf? (THIS guy actually likes my gf a lot, and he knows that shes mine, he even asked her out but my gf said no and sht, and he has a problem about us dating cus im her ex and he thinks she neesd to move on cus its boring to go out with exe again.. mother fkcer should stay out of our business... ANYWAYS.. these pictures, of course, without my GF even knowing cus gone in cali, was posted by her FRIEND on her profile (not on my gfs but her friends, i was just browsing to see if my gf left her friends comments about being back and i found the pictures).. im pretty sure my gf would be afraid if i saw them.. but thats cus she would get really pissed off if she saw that. but to me i dont care.
Normally my gf wouldnt allow this, so should i not allow this either? I mean, in the past i would have tripped like hell, but after breaking up with my gf in the past and being with other people , it doesnt even bother me at all anymore "Maybe cus i dont love her like i use to?" So to me it doesnt matter, just like whatever... u know... but ... should i say somethnig about it when MY GF would? or what?
