Originally posted by wh01987
I don't know why but its getting to me. Everytime after I get back from my gfs well the next day I feel like I dont want to go out with her anymore but then I am happy when im with her. Shes just quiet and her friends say shes like that with everyone. She will tell me anything if I ask but its annoying she doesnt start conversation.. Ahh does anyone else expierance this..
Yes. Me.
Im in the first year of college, and my gf (for 8 months almost) is in grade 11 high school.
Im guessing either shes younger than you, or she hasnt had much experience with guys (ie dating/fooling around)
Me and my gf have had long talks about this. In the end, she admits to feeling "inferior to me". Which is good in a sense (shes excited to be around me and is whipped
), but also bad in a way too (less fun - I always have to make the moves and make the convo).
I got no advice for you, because if I did, I wouldnt be in this situation either. But so far, I've stuck it out and made the best of it. Just try to keep the atmospher light and humorous, be exciting/spontaneus(sp)/and be C&F.
I must warn you though, your probly gonna go through periods of wanting to break up with her several times through the course of the relationship. if you get too sick of it, then move on...for my gf, its lasted our whole relationship...and still going
