SW15
Master Don Juan
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- May 31, 2020
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She's physically attractive. I can see why you would be initially interested.Always black and white with some posters here. No room for deviation. You tell me bud. And I already expect the “oh she’s average” from the internet Don Juan’s from here.
She's a careerist with an advanced degree. Not good. The never married and no kids thing is a perk, especially to a never married and childless man of a similar age.She's a pharmacist and graduated magna *** laude, no kids, never married.
That would be problematic for a longer term relationship.She doesn't live near me.
It's impressive that you have social circle options.I recently met a woman through a mutual friend.
You could have not agreed to going to that sports bar. After Friday night, the only acceptable get together with her was a one-on-one date. If you honestly didn't have enough time on Friday night to ask her out on a one-on-one date, perhaps you did need to go Mode One like @We_ArE_VeNOM would do.The next day she invited me out to a sports bar to watch a big boxing match. I assumed it would just be her and her friends again. When I arrived, she had a guy with her. I shook everyone's hand and made sure I remained social with everyone. I got the opportunity to ask her girl friend what the situation is between her and that guy and she said it's just her friend. The guy monopolized her attention and I could tell he was being a bit protective when I would initiate conversation with her. It was clear he liked her more than just a friend. It made things awkward so I decided after the fight to just head somewhere else. I'm really at odds about how this played out and I'm not sure what else I could've done. Yes, talking to another woman at the bar would have probably been the best option but when her friend said the guy and her are just friends, I felt it could've killed my chances with her.
You could have left the sports bar earlier in the night.
This prospect is a dead end. Despite her appearance, she has some red flags and she disrespected you by bringing some orbiter out.