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Hey guys. This story starts on Friday arvo. I watched Tyler’s new video about having fun in the club. It was an epic hour long epicfest of knowledge and I socked it ALL up. So I decided to go out to the club. I have some wing friends who go out all the time.

I got to the club at 10:30 by myself. I got inside and started to do some approaches. I made a deal with myself that I would do 10 of them and go home. ( I never do any approaches at all. I think I have done one in the past 2 weeks up until this point. ) so I find some girls. I started talking to them for awhile. By the way one of them was dancing; I could tell she was a dancer by the way she was moving.

Sometimes when you go to club they pay people to take photos of the people in the club for promotional work, one of these guys came out to dancer girl and asked if she wanted her picture taken. Dancer girl asked her friend who she was with if she was going to take the picture with her. She said no. So I just jumped in the picture for her. It was funny she did a sexy pose all over me it was great.

After the guy took the picture dancer girl was like. “You Photobomed the picture” I was like. “ yeah I’m going to put it on facebook later.” ( which is true... I WILL put it on facebook.. And any other site I can think of. Defo going on OKC. Lol)

That set fizzled out. ( I’m still a noobie, so I couldn’t get her...YET) so I hit on some more girls at the bar. ( I’m used to going up to girls when they are getting a drink. It works well for me. ) I see a girl who has been given a rose ( sometimes people try sell fake roses to club goers. Not sure if it’s a good business plan or not, Though you see them all the time.) This rose was so massive it could be used as a weapon. I used t as my opener.)

So I opened her, and we started chatting. Then I remembered before I wasn’t introducing myself. (asking for her name) so i offered my hand out and I introduced myself. She offered her name then kissed me on the cheek. Which I don’t think has happened to me before. Anyway, we decided to get a drink. (I was drinking waters the whole night. This has been a big help to my game and my health.)

we get our drinks and I comment on her necklace on how pretty it is, as I lean in to take a look she kissed me! (so was not expecting it) we kiss for a couple of 20 seconds or more then I go pull away ( thinking on a advance level game theory that I don’t want to seem to egger if I kept kissing her. ) she kisses me again for a little while longer. Was ****ing epic!. (Well for me anyway) #

She lets go of me and starts to leave. I have my arm around her waist, I pull her in closer and say “where do you think you’re going?

“she is like “ to my friends”

I’m like. “uh huh no you’re not”” and pull her in.

She goes “ my friends standing right behind you” I don’t turn around I keep looking at her.

Then I say “I probable could take him” (referring that he is going to fight me. I should not have said this.. should have said nothing)

She leans in and kisses me again (with no tongue.. like it mattersI) then leaves.

( I just half turn back to the bar to my water as my brain tires to comprehend what just happened. (It can’t... it’s a club my brain is on steroids. ) Right after I turn to drink some water, 2 of my wing friends come up to me and told me they saw the WHOLE THING. I felt pretty boss at that moment. (since I haven’t knows these guys every long and I wanted to show them I’m not some nobbie ****ing around. )

So I stay with my friends for a bit. They are in a pretty low state since they just got there and one of them has gastro. So he was feeling really flat. Witch I give him really big props for going to the club. If I had gastro I would have stayed home.

In this bar / nightclub / whatever the fook it wants to call its self ( bars kind of merge themselves in-between being a bar during the week and a night club thing at weekends.) has a pool table. I see that the game is ending and ask if the table is opening up

I ask one of the groups playing if they are going to play again. They say they are leaving after this game. I see a group of girls near the pool table and ask them if they are going to play. There are 4 to 5 in the group. They all say no. I try convince them to play by saying it’s an easy game. Then ask if one of them will be my partner. They all say no, accept this cute blond in a leather mini dress. (She pretty much waited for her friends to say no, and then she said yes.) So the great pool match is on!

While we wait for the pool table to open up I introduce myself to the blond and all her friends. Once the table opens up the guy who I am playing us asks. “What are the stakes going to be?” Like a boss I open my wallet and put $20 on the table (I’ve been playing pool since I was like 10, I am TOTALLY sober. It was ON!) He puts the money on the table. His friend picks up the money to escrow and tosses me his Iphone for collateral.

To cut a long story short...WE KICKED HIS ASS!. Blondie was a better pool player then I thought. She got 2 balls in at the right time to set me up to win the game! (LIKE A BOSS!)

After we do our celebratory high 5’s (we was doing it all match because we are so good)

She says “ don’t I get some get some money forwining the game?”

I said “I think we can come to some arrangement.” ( the look on her face after I said this was pretty funny. Now I know she’s not dft and that much into me. I think I was concentrating more on the game because I had money on it. Won’t do that again) she gives me this weird look. I say “come on I’ll buy you a drink” and gab her hand and lead her to the bar. (I got her a drink cos it was only fair. She played the game. Plus it’s not my money)

We get the drink and keep talking for a bit. I see she is wearing a necklace but her hair is in the way. So I moved it back over he shoulders so I could take a better look. I've never tried that before. It worked quite well.

During the pool game, some dude started asking about her n ****, asking if I knew she had a bf because he liked her. He tried gaming her buy going SUPER direct. But it wasn’t working for him.

After a little while I decided to go find my friends (it was getting late and I had to take the train home. There is a train at 2 or one at 4. I so was not waiting till 4) I told her I was going to leave and she was like “ yeah cool I will see you later” and walked off. Before she could walk off I was like. “what no hug?!” and put my arms out. She came back and hug me ( yay!)

After awhile I saw her again and asked her if she had seen my friends (figured I should open her again) she responded well (previous history) and I think 2 guys behind her was trying to game. Lol. Latter on I saw one of them trying to kiss her but she kept insta pulling away. She wasn’t drunk or anything so it wouldn’t have worked on her.

She saw me again and gave me a nod when I was looking at my phone to see the train time. ( was ready to go) I think I should have just amoged the guy with some stupid **** and pulled her away. Though, I don’t want to start any fights now.

After this I took the long walk to the station and waited on the train for 25 misn. I opened a set of cute girls wearing costumes (I ****ing love costumes. Number 1 fetish for me) but they was too tired / over stimulated to do anything with.

Once I made it to my train station walked 30 mins home on a high. I got on the couch to rest my head, I though... “****! WHY DIDN’T I GET BLONDIES NUMBER!?” but it was too late. Plus, I think it would have flaked anyway. Though I do need to start asking for the numbers, In day game I always ask for the number, in night game i always forget to ask when it’s too late.

My brain doesn’t handle clubs very well. It’s still a bit jumpy from last night. I’m sure I will go out again tonight and just go to the same place again. ( it’s free to get into) and just do what I did last night. For the first time, game is actually fun for me.

I also haven’t fapped in 10 days. I decided last week that I will only *** when a girl touches me. Witch was something random I wanted to test out. I haven’t been looking at porn vids. Just some sexy picture of Halloween costumes and some omgel



Considering this is my 3rd night out. IT WAS ****ING EPIC! (For me at least. I know you advance guys will be like.. a makeout?! Man I get 3 chicks to suck my **** while I watch the Sunday halftime show. For me this was really big it also gives hope to the other noobies out there.)

Why it WAS such a good night is because I didn’t put any pursuer on myself. I made the deal to go out, do 10 approaches and come home. I’m pretty sure I did more than that. Witch I am happy about. Everything after that is a wicked bonus.



Things to work on for next time:

Get girls number if set goes well.

Stop letting guys random chodes talk to my girl.

Just continue what I am doing.

Things I did well.

Introducing myself. (need to do this more often though)

I’m not expecting anything at this point because it’s my 3rd time out. I am surprised I did it 100% solo though. This is epic for me,



Anyway there is my story. I hope you liked it. If you have any comments or suggestions I could work on please make them below.
 

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One of my favorite and easiest pickups at a bar is to lean back and chill and wait for a lame to come up to a hot chick, offer to buy her a drink and get rejected then you say something Allen "ooh...first one of the night?" While laughing and the girl usually laughs with u about it....great opportunity to tease her and set urself apart from the lame that just tried and failed....works like a charm almost everytime
 

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Great job Packers, you are making good progress. Keep it up.

Try not to get depressed over Nelson and Jennings. :)
 

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Nice work, reminds me of my first few nights picking up girls at the clubs, though I didn't talk much with them, usually just danced, I got makeout three weeks in a row there, one night from the three I actually got two makeouts. Ah, those were times. Anyway good luck, I'm interested in your progress.
 

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thanks guys. i went out on Saturday night to the same place. it was raining. my night didn't go so well. sets died pretty quickly and i felt really chode.

i tired txt my wings but i never heard back from them witch sucked.. i was going to meet a new wing out, but he decided not to go due to the rain. might do the same next time.. not to many people was out.

but whatever.. i guess i will just have to keep at it and trust the process is good. maybe i might change places and stuff..
 

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Good work dude, and keep at it.

You can never predict what is going to happen on a particular night, but if you have fun while you do it, that's it what counts.

Def keeping laying off the "fapping" and looking at p@rn...it's amazing for me how often when I lay off it how I seem to get laid once I get to around the 5 day mark or so.

In regards to your goals, progression is important but also remember that a number in the club often leads to flaking, and if things go well and she seems into it, always take the chance and take it "to the next level".

For me personally, about 90% of girls I've hooked up with in the club (either one nighters or even leading to a relationship afterwards) have been where I've hooked up with them on the first night I met them.

I can only really think of a couple where it has happened where I've got their number and then hooked up with them later. So, if they are ready to go, never hold back.

From your story, your logistics look poor- if you need to wait for a train and then walk 30 mins home after that, imagine if you do hook up with a girl and want to do her that night, being that so far away will definitely make it difficult.

ALL of my hook ups from clubs have happened when I've lived 5 - 10 minutes walk max from the clubs. It might sound crazy but it is a LOT easier to take a girl home if you tell her you only live 5 minutes walk away.

Anyway, keep at it.
 

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Nice! I've been getting lots of makeouts too, I'm trying to get to that next level and bring her home lol. I would say keeping her interest would be the hard part, especially when she is with her friends and you got to "peel" her off of them. Just keep doing what you're doing now, your mindset will eventually get you where you need to go.
 

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First girl was easy. Why didn't you comment on her dancing and then dance with her yourself. You could have been super cheesy and asked her to "teach you" or some stupid **** like that. It's easy to make out with girls you're dancing with. You should have gone for her, there's no such thing as "I'm too much of a newbie to get her yet". The answer to "can I get that girl" should always be a "YES" in your mind no matter who she is.
 

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runner83 said:
From your story, your logistics look poor- if you need to wait for a train and then walk 30 mins home after that, imagine if you do hook up with a girl and want to do her that night, being that so far away will definitely make it difficult.

ALL of my hook ups from clubs have happened when I've lived 5 - 10 minutes walk max from the clubs. It might sound crazy but it is a LOT easier to take a girl home if you tell her you only live 5 minutes walk away.

Anyway, keep at it.
i'm WAY ahead of you dude.. already been looking at apartment in the city so i can get closer to the bars. my reoning behind that is so i GO OUT MORE. didn't even think that it would help with the end game..

i mean shoot. if can get really good at this and have an apparent 5 mins away from the club. i could pull a girl home , fook her. then bounce back to the club and find another.
 

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Mr. Suave said:
First girl was easy. Why didn't you comment on her dancing and then dance with her yourself. You could have been super cheesy and asked her to "teach you" or some stupid **** like that. It's easy to make out with girls you're dancing with. You should have gone for her, there's no such thing as "I'm too much of a newbie to get her yet". The answer to "can I get that girl" should always be a "YES" in your mind no matter who she is.
this is true, but it was also partly because she was pretty hot. like 7-8, my game aint there yet. as is: she is a dancer. so she already knows she is hot. there for a guy with not too much game wouldn't get with. you know. i could see that buy talking to her.

will defo try that next time.


@ Fly By Night

my logistics are so bad i'm not even THINKING of going for the pool. i pretty much sleep on the couch or share a bed for fook sake. right now, i'm just looking to keep getting out there and keep going. i'm really glad i went out on sat night. while i was walking home i felt really chodie. these girls was walking with me and i didn't even open them. maybe i should have. but it was 2 am and there was no one around.. would have been the creep move.

but hey.. you never know. will have to beef up the approach next time.

i have learnt that momentum is a HUGE thing. after i got that make out i felt super boss like but at the same time i felt like " my brain felt like it was off" like i didn't get stuck in my head at all.

i was questioning whether i was "on" or just having a good night. i don't really know. since this is the first time i have ever felt my brain really " turn off". after i made out with this girl. i just stood there and tired to take it all in.. but couldn't i was like.. wtf? my brain was defo in " off mode" that night"
 

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QUOTE: I don’t always go out on a Friday. But when I do I get a make out! - FR

i see what you did there...

quote:During the pool game, some dude started asking about her n ****, asking if I knew she had a bf because he liked her. He tried gaming her buy going SUPER direct. But it wasn’t working for him.

hmmm, i usually have the same problem,albeit a little different, usually my AFC friends come and ****block me without knowing it...i need to find a non-aggressive way to deal with this
 

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Packers2010 said:
this is true, but it was also partly because she was pretty hot. like 7-8, my game aint there yet. as is: she is a dancer. so she already knows she is hot. there for a guy with not too much game wouldn't get with. you know. i could see that buy talking to her.

will defo try that next time.


@ Fly By Night

my logistics are so bad i'm not even THINKING of going for the pool. i pretty much sleep on the couch or share a bed for fook sake. right now, i'm just looking to keep getting out there and keep going. i'm really glad i went out on sat night. while i was walking home i felt really chodie. these girls was walking with me and i didn't even open them. maybe i should have. but it was 2 am and there was no one around.. would have been the creep move.

but hey.. you never know. will have to beef up the approach next time.

i have learnt that momentum is a HUGE thing. after i got that make out i felt super boss like but at the same time i felt like " my brain felt like it was off" like i didn't get stuck in my head at all.

i was questioning whether i was "on" or just having a good night. i don't really know. since this is the first time i have ever felt my brain really " turn off". after i made out with this girl. i just stood there and tired to take it all in.. but couldn't i was like.. wtf? my brain was defo in " off mode" that night"
"Game" only works with chicks that have some level of interest in you anyway. For all you know the girl might have found you good looking in which case you'd only need to avoid acting weird. Don't ever tell yourself things like "I'm not good enough for her yet", "she looks too good for me" etc... Sure, you might be right, but try it anyway. ALWAYS. What did you get by not making a move, absolutely nothing. What would you get for trying it on? Even if you're saying there's only a 1% chance you could've got anywhere, that still means if you met 100 girls like her at least 1 would want you, and you'd walk away from her?

You never know what's going to happen until you try it. I don't care if the girl is Jessica Alba, you go for it to the best of your abilities anyway.
 

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switch said:
QUOTE: I don’t always go out on a Friday. But when I do I get a make out! - FR

i see what you did there...

quote:During the pool game, some dude started asking about her n ****, asking if I knew she had a bf because he liked her. He tried gaming her buy going SUPER direct. But it wasn’t working for him.

hmmm, i usually have the same problem,albeit a little different, usually my AFC friends come and ****block me without knowing it...i need to find a non-aggressive way to deal with this
yeah.. the dude that wanted her was so foreign dude. from like Brazil or something. though guys are always super confident.

i really think i could have pushed the blond set a little more. or at least got her number.
 
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