I do not get the hype behind college years being the best years of a guy's life

[Benjaymin]

When it comes to attracting girls that is, for a few reasons.

1. Guys who major in things that will actually increase their chances of getting a job (science and engineering) have to study a lot to keep a good GPA, pass their classes, and everything along those lines.

2. Cold approaches and casual hookups are seen as weird, in all of my years in college girls only hooked up with guys in their social circles or high status guys (football players and fratboys).

3. Just as cliquish as high school, if you aren't in her social circle, your chances of getting laid are lower.

4. Most people have to work, take out loans, and do other things to help get through college.

5. If you don't go to a big division 1 type school with a large football program, how does the American Pie kind of lifestyle even apply to you?

I have noticed in all of my years at a top 10 party school that the guys who got laid on the regular and hooked up with the higher level talent were either athletes (usually football and basketball players, we had a great basketball program) or fraternity guys in big name frats.

Having been out in the real world now and having a decent career and cashflow, I find that getting laid by girls that are legit attractive is a lot easier than it was back in college.

Not to mention most girls are at their peaks while most guys have not even reached theirs.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

When it comes to attracting girls that is, for a few reasons.

1. Guys who major in things that will actually increase their chances of getting a job (science and engineering) have to study a lot to keep a good GPA, pass their classes, and everything along those lines.

2. Cold approaches and casual hookups are seen as weird, in all of my years in college girls only hooked up with guys in their social circles or high status guys (football players and fratboys).

3. Just as cliquish as high school, if you aren't in her social circle, your chances of getting laid are lower.

4. Most people have to work, take out loans, and do other things to help get through college.

5. If you don't go to a big division 1 type school with a large football program, how does the American Pie kind of lifestyle even apply to you?

I have noticed in all of my years at a top 10 party school that the guys who got laid on the regular and hooked up with the higher level talent were either athletes (usually football and basketball players, we had a great basketball program) or fraternity guys in big name frats.

Having been out in the real world now and having a decent career and cashflow, I find that getting laid by girls that are legit attractive is a lot easier than it was back in college.

Not to mention most girls are at their peaks while most guys have not even reached theirs.

I feel tempted to agree with number 2, well at least the most desirable girls were the ones that hooked up with those type of guys

 

[namthebabe]

disagree. it probably depends on the uni, since the culture of unis are different.

I think a relationship and good grades are achievable.

 

[XY.]

My friend u are wrong. I dont play football or basketball. I wrestle and I have no problem getting laid whatsoever.

 

[zinc4]

cold approaching isnt easy in college because the girls have so many high stus guys in their social circles they are after....it's more magnified in college imo...however, college bars and clubs are great...

 

[Benjaymin]

cold approaching isnt easy in college because the girls have so many high stus guys in their social circles they are after....it's more magnified in college imo...however, college bars and clubs are great...

great for what?

just getting wasted and drunk?

No I want to go out and have some social interactions, also get laid.

 

[Skyline]

Stop complaining.

Theres a difference between an AFC and a man. AFC's quit because they cant take the heat and either dont want to improve or think they cant. If somethings hard, its impossible.

Men accept that there is heat/competition yet still compete because they believe that they deserve the best. They go after what they want regardless of any obstacle. Some obstacles are hard, but NOT impossible.

If you want to go out and get laid, wasted, whatever then make it happen. It wont happen overnight but patience is another thing men have. Ever since ive been here ive been working toward my goal. Its hard and a long process BUT im becoming the man i want to be. I feel as if you just want sympathy because you cant do what you want for whatever reason. Those things you listed are all excuses.

Set your ego aside, ever since i did ive been a whole new me and even have better time management. Which is why im posting often as of lately because i found gaps in my day- which will be filled eventually. If you want it be prepared to get it. Life aint easy and it sure isnt going to wait up for you or anyone else. Men take action!

 

[Benjaymin]

Age: 17

you have not even finished college

GTFO

 

[MM92]

I would rather read something written by a 17 year old Frayzer than anything written by a blatant loser virgin like yourself. Get off your high horse, I bet most 17 year olds are getting laid more than you.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Stop complaining.

Theres a difference between an AFC and a man. AFC's quit because they cant take the heat and either dont want to improve or think they cant. If somethings hard, its impossible.

Men accept that there is heat/competition yet still compete because they believe that they deserve the best. They go after what they want regardless of any obstacle. Some obstacles are hard, but NOT impossible.

If you want to go out and get laid, wasted, whatever then make it happen. It wont happen overnight but patience is another thing men have. Ever since ive been here ive been working toward my goal. Its hard and a long process BUT im becoming the man i want to be. I feel as if you just want sympathy because you cant do what you want for whatever reason. Those things you listed are all excuses.

Set your ego aside, ever since i did ive been a whole new me and even have better time management. Which is why im posting often as of lately because i found gaps in my day- which will be filled eventually. If you want it be prepared to get it. Life aint easy and it sure isnt going to wait up for you or anyone else. Men take action!

you make it sound like, just like almost everyone else, I never understood, that taking responsibility is a masculine trait, don't see the logic as to why it is associated with masculinity, I feel it should be an adult trait instead

 

[DonGorgon]

lol well its the top 5% of guys that have 95% of the fun in college for most other guys its just okay..lol

 

[HyperAnalyze]

lol well its the top 5% of guys that have 95% of the fun in college for most other guys its just okay..lol

lol totally agree with this.

Man dude, if you want that lifestyle of constant drinking, booze, trying to bang girls you need to submerge yourself into that kind of lifestyle.

Otherwise just keep hitting the books, work on yourself and cold approach girls around the campus.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

lol well its the top 5% of guys that have 95% of the fun in college for most other guys its just okay..lol

lol totally agree with this.

Man dude, if you want that lifestyle of constant drinking, booze, trying to bang girls you need to submerge yourself into that kind of lifestyle.

Otherwise just keep hitting the books, work on yourself and cold approach girls around the campus.

 

[Mr Wright]

I think they are if you play it right, it's like anything in life, you have to take your chances. Getting laid is easy if you put yourself in the right areas, I'm part of the rugby team here in the UK and I swear even the guys who arent even that good at rugby but just get to carry the name and hang out with the guys who are better get laid. Social status is key, we run around wearing what we want, shagging what we want and drinking as much as we want, which is why everyone knows who we are.

If you sit in your room all day, go out at night and expect to pull you're going to do worse because I think it's a step harder than going out on an average town club night simply because of the social factors. If you're a big name, people know you, simple as.

 

[Benjaymin]

I would rather read something written by a 17 year old Frayzer than anything written by a blatant loser virgin like yourself. Get off your high horse, I bet most 17 year olds are getting laid more than you.

You don't know **** about me. I graduated college and do much better now and most 17 year olds aren't even old enough to be going to bars, they have NO RIGHT to give a grown man advice.

 

[Skyline]

You don't know **** about me. I graduated college and do much better now and most 17 year olds aren't even old enough to be going to bars, they have NO RIGHT to give a grown man advice.

Much bettter now*

Meaning im "ahead" from where you were. I show my age a a sign that if a 17 year old can do it, why cant you? I may not be as experienced as some of the known posters here but i do have experience nonetheless. And from what i can see, women dont change that much.

I dont post many FR's but a while ago i did one about me seeing a band play at a bar. First time going and i ended up closing on an hb8 who was 20. You're right im not old enough to go, but when i am, they better hang on. Another thing, a real man listens to everyones advice. I would understand your perspective if i were AFC, but i am far from that.

Whether you listen to the advice presented or not, dont come back here posting about some girl or complain about something in life. That my friend, is true ignorance.

Jagerpilot,

As for responsibility, you've seen someone before who just didnt have their stuff together right? They're disorganized, unprepared, late, and never taking accountability. That is not masculine. Men take action and accept those outcomes good or bad. They're the complete opposite of those traits i listed.

The reason why you see it in adults is because they cant have their life a mess. They learn real quick that mommy and daddy wont be providing for them in the real world as much as they did when they were younger. They learn to take care of themselves.

 

[skinnyguy]

If you're beta, you're fvcked whether you're in college or the real world. I think that adult dating (college doesn't count cause college kids aren't adults) is interesting because women a little more open to meeting men they don't now, since their friends aren't around them 24/7.

 

[Voice]

1. Join clubs/fraternities. Not only will you meet a bunch of new girls/people, you will have stuff to do outside your academics. Extracurriculars also look good if you are trying to apply to grad school or for getting jobs. My D1 school had a ridiculous amount of clubs. Girls join to meet guys. Guys join to meet girls. What more can you want? You don't need to join a fraternity, it's expensive, but I did and enjoyed it.

2. Get a job on campus. Get a job that specifically deals with a bunch of other students. I worked for intramurals as a student director and met a bunch of people that way.

3. Build a social circle as early as possible. The people you make friends with in your freshman dorm will influence you the rest of your college career. So be the man. Be friendly to everyone. Talk to girls. Organize people to go out. Be a leader.

College is filled with horny girls in their prime. If I could get laid anyone can.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Much bettter now*

Meaning im "ahead" from where you were. I show my age a a sign that if a 17 year old can do it, why cant you? I may not be as experienced as some of the known posters here but i do have experience nonetheless. And from what i can see, women dont change that much.

I dont post many FR's but a while ago i did one about me seeing a band play at a bar. First time going and i ended up closing on an hb8 who was 20. You're right im not old enough to go, but when i am, they better hang on. Another thing, a real man listens to everyones advice. I would understand your perspective if i were AFC, but i am far from that.

Whether you listen to the advice presented or not, dont come back here posting about some girl or complain about something in life. That my friend, is true ignorance.

Jagerpilot,

As for responsibility, you've seen someone before who just didnt have their stuff together right? They're disorganized, unprepared, late, and never taking accountability. That is not masculine. Men take action and accept those outcomes good or bad. They're the complete opposite of those traits i listed.

The reason why you see it in adults is because they cant have their life a mess. They learn real quick that mommy and daddy wont be providing for them in the real world as much as they did when they were younger. They learn to take care of themselves.

You make it sound like accountability, responsibility is a masculine thing, therefore, women have the luxury of not taking responsibility, accountability, and that being independent is a masculine thing, I never understood that, does it say in the Bible or what?

 

[JoshSway]

How it works is, in general, the "cooler" you are, the earlier you hit your prime.

When it comes to attracting girls that is, for a few reasons.

1. Guys who major in things that will actually increase their chances of getting a job (science and engineering) have to study a lot to keep a good GPA, pass their classes, and everything along those lines.

2. Cold approaches and casual hookups are seen as weird, in all of my years in college girls only hooked up with guys in their social circles or high status guys (football players and fratboys).

3. Just as cliquish as high school, if you aren't in her social circle, your chances of getting laid are lower.

4. Most people have to work, take out loans, and do other things to help get through college.

5. If you don't go to a big division 1 type school with a large football program, how does the American Pie kind of lifestyle even apply to you?

I have noticed in all of my years at a top 10 party school that the guys who got laid on the regular and hooked up with the higher level talent were either athletes (usually football and basketball players, we had a great basketball program) or fraternity guys in big name frats.

Having been out in the real world now and having a decent career and cashflow, I find that getting laid by girls that are legit attractive is a lot easier than it was back in college.

Not to mention most girls are at their peaks while most guys have not even reached theirs.