I’ve only skimmed through, but what works for me is indicating nothing more than “I might consider getting together with you if you prove worthy”.
How do you convey that? Through your eyes, your tone of voice, your body language and your self-amusing humor.
Where can you learn to do that? Right here on SoSuave. If men here spent more time mining the gold and less time complaining about the dirt that holds the gold in suspension, they would not need to wonder about the mechanics of social interaction. I have a distinct advantage over you young-uns in that as you get older, instinct kicks in big-time and you learn to trust it.
You no longer try. Instead, you “be”. You become the frame, you become the planet with gravitational force which irresistibly pulls in quality women who couldn’t resist your charms if they tried.
Instead of deliberating whether or not to let a girl know that you like her, you already know that she is attracted to you and your only job is to vet her for suitability in your kingdom. You have a “knowing” similar to how a big cat has instinctive knowledge how to hunt and how to manage his pride (meaning his group of underlings).
The wisest of young men are the ones who value the barely decipherable ramblings of the elders. While these seem out of touch and simplistic to the masses, the few who value the elders’ words and work to look deep are the ones who escape a life of being puzzled and hopeless and start to develop an aura that cannot be resisted.
I turned things around because I worked my hands to the bone trying to figure out what the elders here were getting at. They spoke in riddles. I instinctively knew they were trying to teach the unreachable, but I got enough in order to prime the pump of success and build momentum from there.
Live a life of vetting women, men. Be the chooser. I can’t tell you how in a nutshell, but I can tell you that the knowledge of how to become this man is within these pages. There are plenty of hints in my own ramblings.
When you develop the instinct of how to project that you are the chooser, when you become that irresistible force by shear projection, you too will become a doddering elder voice here on SoSuave, telling the young men that the methods of success are right here under their nose.
In conclusion, to spell it out regarding the subject of this thread, project only indecisiveness to women. Project that they’d better impress you if they want a shot at your attention and approval. This is communicated COVERTLY, which is the language that women speak.
If all men did this, women would quickly learn that they need to clean up their act and lose the entitled attitudes that have been drilled into them all their lives. YOU can make a difference, and in so doing, reap rewards.
