i challenge everyone to do approaches..cold or lukewarm..wtf

[Rainman4707]

Walking around town again (Daygame)

Walking down street :-

Rainman : Alright, I need I quick female perspective

HB7 : Ermmm NO (laughing as she was walking past)

Next one

I spoke to this one at a greater distance. I'm starting to find that if you engage them at quite a distance they feel more of a need to acknowledge you.

Rainman : Alright, I need a female perspective on something.

HB7.5 : (She looked as though she didn't really want to stop, but she did) What?

Rainman: It's about jealously, blah blah.

HB7.5 : I have to go (she didn't really stop, lingered for a second)

Next one

Walking towards her crossing paths

Rainman : Alright, I need a female perspective on something.

HB7 looked surprised. She looked at me as she walked past me smiling then called back laughing (whilst she had, had time to think about what just happened I presume) No I don't think so laddy =)

Next day:-

Crossing paths with a HB7

Rainman : Same opener as usual

HB7 walked past me ignoring me.

Next

Crossing paths with HB7

Rainman uses same opener

HB7 seems like she is surprised as they as normally happens.

HB7: What on?

Rainman: just gave some`patter about how my friends HB7 is jealous of his ex & how my ex used to get jealous when we were out in a group if I talked to girls. I asked her whats up with this jealously?

HB7 Gave her opinion then said she must get back to work.

 

[_sideways_]

I usually comment on their necklace...I did it with the bank teller...and she started asking me about my job and such...I could have talked to her more I think...but she had like a tiny double chin...means she never works out...ugh....next....

Now it's 2 days later and I'm bored...lol

 

[foreverAFC]

Walking around town again (Daygame)

Walking down street :-

Rainman : Alright, I need I quick female perspective

HB7 : Ermmm NO (laughing as she was walking past)

Next one

I spoke to this one at a greater distance. I'm starting to find that if you engage them at quite a distance they feel more of a need to acknowledge you.

Rainman : Alright, I need a female perspective on something.

HB7.5 : (She looked as though she didn't really want to stop, but she did) What?

Rainman: It's about jealously, blah blah.

HB7.5 : I have to go (she didn't really stop, lingered for a second)

Next one

Walking towards her crossing paths

Rainman : Alright, I need a female perspective on something.

HB7 looked surprised. She looked at me as she walked past me smiling then called back laughing (whilst she had, had time to think about what just happened I presume) No I don't think so laddy =)

Next day:-

Crossing paths with a HB7

Rainman : Same opener as usual

HB7 walked past me ignoring me.

Next

Crossing paths with HB7

Rainman uses same opener

HB7 seems like she is surprised as they as normally happens.

HB7: What on?

Rainman: just gave some`patter about how my friends HB7 is jealous of his ex & how my ex used to get jealous when we were out in a group if I talked to girls. I asked her whats up with this jealously?

HB7 Gave her opinion then said she must get back to work.

those approaches are lame, in my opinion you are better off just saying "hey you're cute, can i call you or text you sometime "

 

[_sideways_]

Yea but a lame approach can turn into something not lame. Whereas not approaching....well u know

 

[Frogster]

I'm thinking approaching someone at random with the whole "I need a female perspective" is NOT the approach to use.

What's you're success rate?

 

[Rainman4707]

Cold Approches - in mall.

Walking about for half an hour. By the Time I looked at a girl & decided I wanted to approach, opportunity had gone..this may sound familiar to slightly experienced don juans. Began to feel frustrated (im such a weirdo walking around the mall doing this stuff) then I thought "am not going to meet a decent bird sat at home drinking coffee.

Thought to myself im not leaving until I approach two birds.
Spotted a decent blonde..didn't even think about it..bang straight in.

Rainman : Alright ladies, I need a quick female perspective on something.

Ladies : What? (they seemed interested)

Whilst telling them about my friends bird who had jealously issues, I made sure I was using eye contact with both of them, then made sure to include their friend who came out of shop. They seemed really in to it, but looked a little young haha so thanked them & made a quick exit.

Spotted a couple of Holiday workers.

Rainman : same opener

One of them was 5.8. My target was HB7. They were both open & friendly. We discussed the opener for a couple of mins. I was about to move on with conversation & for a second or two thought how to proceed. They said nice talking to me & every thing "goodbye"
(i'll get better with more practice)

I was in the zone now. It's easier once the first approach is done.

On way out of mall. Spotted H7.5

Rainman : Alright.

She looked at me & kept walking.

It's feel it wont be long until I am getting better at this =)

 

[Rainman4707]

Walking around mall -:

engaged a HB7.5...

Rainman : Hi, I need a quick female perspective on something?

HB7.5 said she was running late for work : s

Tried engaging another fit bird, but she just kept walking haha =)

 

[amazingswayze]

cold approach in proper context!

these approaches seem corny. not saying i can do much better but i think most of us who cold approach encounter the same problems. we fail to engage the girls into a very fun conversation. sometimes it works out but for the most part we are destined to fail. i've done many random approaches and failed and i think its because girls can tell if you're just trying to pick them up.

i noticed it's much easier to meet girls in the proper context. when it makes sense. i "cold approached" on campus yesterday and met 3 girls.it turned into a group chat. i didn't even have to ask for their numbers.

so, cold approach when it makes sense. when she sends you IOI's. let me tell you guys a story:

THE ONLY TIME COLD APPROACH EVER WORKED FOR ME:

i walked into red lobster with my mom. the second i walk in this random HB7 says hi to me. i didn't know her so i was like hey, whatever. i sit down at my table with mom. she goes to the bathroom. so, while i'm sitting at the table by myself the same HB walks past and calls me cute. THIS WAS A GREEN LIGHT. this is when YOU KNOW YOU WILL GET THE NUMBER. this is an ideal situation. it's rejection proof. so i walked up to her, and got her number after a minute or two. It turned into me going over her house, i made out for the first time in a very long time, and i felt a girl up for the very first time. it fell through after that though so, to me, dating strangers isn't ideal.

sick experience though.

all i'm saying is;

IT HAS TO MAKE SENSE

if you want good results.