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Interlude 3
I'm a creep nowadays. Just looking for eyecontact with random hotties. Two girls decided to freak me out, by smiling at me after that. I completely ignored the voice in my head that said "That's a good sign" and listened to my guts and started running. Need to break that habbit. I've been sick for a while, almost recovered. Tomorrow I'll have to go to approach. Will leave for school 30 minutes early, so I have some time when I'm on my way. Bring headphones, listen to pump-up music and just go for it.
I hope I'm still this motivated tomorrow...
 

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Entry 4 - My first try at doing cold approaches
So... That was a great succes... Naht.
It was cold, rainy weather, couldn't find much ladies, and the ones I saw were all on bikes. One girl smiled at me, while passing me, and I didn't stop her. Have to do something about freezing when a girl smiles.

Approached 1 hot girl, with the weak question if she knew where the nearest supermarket was. Well, I guess asking for directions is a start...

Good things:
- Performed a lot, and have a gig this afternoon
- Doing a photoshoot next week, for a friend who is a photographer.
- Working on moving out, going to visit two possible rooms next week.

Bad shizzle:
- Still not the guts to walk up to a girl
- Didn't reach my goals (I can blame it on finals, but that's not the only reason)
- Haven't hung out with friends in a long while
 

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Entry 5 - Clubgame? Baddddd.
Started drinking vodka and goldstrike at a friends place. Was fun, but one guy drank way too much.

In the club, I noticed there were little quality girls. Some girls were hot, but there were way more guys. All the folks were... how do you call that, "douchebags and sluts"? Jersey Shore guys in their younger years.
Anyway; it took me about 2,5 hour to warm up. I really need to learn to grab every girl that comes closer than 30cm to me. I can't score if I don't even try.
Danced with one girl, pretty hot. But then she walked away, got gangbanged by 6 guys (not literally, but they all took turns trying to seduce here) en when she got back she walked right by me.

FRUSTRATION!

- I'm gonna work on my clubgame by going out with a mixed group. Then I can get in the vibe by dancing with the ladies in the group. Plus, girls notice when other girls look at you.
- I need to get my game up in three weeks... Time for some challenges.
I'll get monday and tuesday to just approach 10 girls. Just say hi. That's all.
 

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Entry 6 - Tournament
I've been lazy lately. Didn't work on my goals, didn't do my challenges and skipped working out to be able to work for school.

Still managed to score a really hot girl.

I was volunteering at a sport tournament. 2 days, a lot of different teams played against eachother and competed in their sport, and in minigames aswell. There were 6 girlteams and 3 boyteams, all aged between 14 and 16.

I stood at some waterobstaclecourse all day, making girls wet (with supersoakers and a garden hose). In the evening, I refereed some games. Joined another volunteer who befriended the supervisors of a girlteam and drank with them. They were pretty nice, one girl in particular, who showed a lot of interest.
Then there was this party. We all went there, and since I was one of the older guys, one of the only guys (damn; there were 15 dudes in there and about 50 chicks) and I was just a volunteer, I didn't care for **** and went full retard (in a positive way). Just danced on my own, with everybody, on everybody, didn't dance too close with that girl 'cause nobody was, but hey, it was something.
The other volunteer fell for a girl from that team, so he didn't want to join me when I wanted to go out and check if there were any teams that hadn't come yet. Luckily another guy came by, who asked if I would join him.

Came across a group of 8 girls, asked why they were there. They said they just came back from the party. Then this one girl came by and said "Who are these chicks [referring to us]". Introduced myself (2 times, still managed to forget her name), and talked a bit. Then I remembered they had really cute cameo stripes on their faces during the day, and asked if I could have those too. We made a deal; she would paint my fase, but I would do exactly the same to her. After that, we went to the party, with pain, but when she saw the crowd she immediately disappeared. I had fun with the other girl, but after twenty minutes I wanted revenge. So I searched for her, found her on a couch, stood behind her, and got her to talk to me. I noticed she was very bossy (also earlier on) and I didn't do anything she asked me. I guess that worked. Massaged her for fun, made her climb over the couch and took her to privacy just to massage me, then her team arrived. So we went for a walk. Earlier I noticed the volunteer's girl liked him too, but they were just surrounded by others all the time. Sent them both to the same location, they both went, and had a fun evening. So I said to my lady; let's find them. We walked, searched, couldn't find them, took a few pictures, and while the pictures were loading I pulled her in and made out.

Had fun with her for the rest of the night, till I went to the bathroom and came back to find out she disappeared. Her team was worried, her coach (also her dad) said she had to come back and go sleep, so she just went. Still bugs me.

Next day I didn't see her much, took a picture together, 3 kisses (stood on her toes; woops) and then she left.

I'm visiting her town this friday, arranging a meet up, cause I still want a proper ending, not this crap.


Another party this wednesday. Fun, fun fun.
 

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Must feel good to know that you managed to come out of a bad part of your life with your own work and are now on the right track. Keep it up bro!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Saw her again yesterday. Walked for a while, short make-out, said goodbye and went to meet other friends.

Went out with them, just had a good time. No pressure, no need to find a girl. Feels good. I think I'll make out with a girl the day before I leave for a 3-day party-weekend, just to make sure I won't act needy.

Need to work on confidence, talking and opening though.
Will work out again this evening.
 

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Tournament
That's what it officially was, a tournament. 120 teams all over the country competing to become the best one.
Not. 120 x 12 people coming to have fun, that's more like it.
It was more like a festival, really. People camping on the grass, different places with different music, and a lot of beer.

Arrived there quite late (had a performance first). Friend helped me carry my stuff, and bought me a beer. Then had some goldstrike, got pretty pumped up. I went in and partied for a while, still a bit on my own. I started moving with that friend, Simion. Then I got eye contact with a hot girl, smiled, and started dancing with her. Asked for her name (and last name, a bit lame, but if she doesn't respond to that she's way too drunk in my opinion), and then made out for a while. Decided to move on after a while.

Second girl was with her friends. Talked, made her laugh (don't remember exactly how). Probably they were just sitting there, while there was music. I don't like that, so I talked to them. When we got closer, her friends wanted to go. I moved on, and ran in to them again. "Thought you were leaving?" "Yeah, no, blah, bullcrap". Went to another bar, saw her again. Took her from the group, put her arms around me and made out. Bam.

Party ended, music went out, we all had to go outside. Saw a really cute girl. She was not responding well, really hard to get, but I decided to go for a good talk and ignore all the guys around her, trying to get her attention. We then walked a while and met the rest of her team. They were annoying, so I gave her my number, let her text me and said "I'm leaving" and just left. She wanted a kiss first, and went into a full make-out. Score.

Slept that night in a tent with 2 girls which were not really pretty, but hey, I had to sleep somewhere. Cuddled with the hottest one, she had nice boobs, but everytime she tried to make out with me I moved away.

I might have been a little picky this night, but hey, still managed to find three girls that kinda matched my standards.


Second day we sported for a while, and then decided to just quit and start drinking. There was a short colourparty, and I had a nice click with this girl. However, when I was out for beer one of my teammates started flirting with her. Too bad. Had a boyfriend though, or at least pretended to have one for my friend. Grinded with some girls (place was stacked, so It was kinda natural).
Then another teammate and I started to use on the worst pickupline ever: "Hey girl, do you play Candy Crush?". Tried it on fatties first, then on milfs (that weren't milfs when they came closer). In the end we chatted up some hot chicks, while acting ridiculous (I didn't care at all at the moment). It was nice to see there's nothing really wrong with approaches. Talked to much girls, opened 2 real cuties, turned around and the next second another teammate took her over (he managed to make out with her too, good for him).

Found another guy that didn't give a ****, and in the night we just started sandwiching chicks and having fun with everybody. It was nice, but it seemed like all the hot girls were gone. This one girl, Rebecca, chatted me up (I knew her from the night before), talked a while with me, gave me a kiss on the lips and then said she was going to find her type. WTF.

Spent all night looking for girls, dancing and talking and other stuff. Was fun, but I felt really bad I didn't find myself a nice girl.


Conclusion & tips to myself: practice approaching on fatties, and then work your way up. Search more physical contact in dancing areas; it's that easy.
Visit more festivals.

Now I'm tired.
 
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