I can't talk to someone that I have no respect for

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I know you are not supposed to relate to a girl, but don't you need to at least have respect for her?

The problem that I face with most girls is I have zero respect for them. like
what struggles have you faced in your life other than daddy not buying you the latest G wagon last year?
what have you accomplished in life?
what did you study? (I hate girls that say fashion)
how do you make money? ("I do marketing" or "I do pr" means she is useless)

there is someone on this forum who says girls who have faced difficulty in life are masculine. but I don't like girls who've had it easy.

most girls seem brain dead. like they just go about their lives like an animal, not questioning anything. I don't see any signs of human intelligence.

am I just being judgmental or it's normal that I can't talk to a girl if I don't respect her and I don't respect majority of girls?
 

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This is not a female problem, this is a humanity problem.
 

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This is a good way to get laid with the under 40 crowd....


what struggles have you faced in your life other than daddy not buying you the latest G wagon last year?
Why would you ask that in an approach or on an early stage, pre-sex date? Who cares?

what have you accomplished in life?
Why would you ask that in an approach or on an early stage, pre-sex date? Who cares?

what did you study? (I hate girls that say fashion)
It's worth discussing. Women who go to college tend to select the more useless majors. This problem could be solved by not dating women who have a bachelor's degree. The biggest problem with dating women who don't have bachelor's degree is that they tend to be even more flaky and irresponsible than a woman who has a bachelor's degrees. Women with less than a bachelor's degree get married in life earlier and have kids earlier in life. It wouldn't be unusual to meet a 27 year old woman with a HS Diploma/GED or associate degree working some McJob and she's a single mom.

Have you ever looked around in a Walmart at the female employees and wondered if you'd ever date them? The answer is usually no.

Some higher end retail workers look dateable. You could see a woman in a Macy's or Nordstrom's location and want to date them. Those women usually have less than a bachelor's degree. Same with women working at Hooters or Twin Peaks.

Trade school is good for women. Dental hygienists are fairly dateable and they usually have less than a college education, work standard day shift jobs, and make decent money. There are medical assisting jobs that can be ok. Women don't tend to go into trades like plumbing or auto repair.

how do you make money? ("I do marketing" or "I do pr" means she is useless)
It's best to avoid career talk on any date. The career talk sometimes is closely related to studying. I try to barely touch it. It's just not that interesting and too much work and career talk changes the mood around the date. You want to build a sexual vibe with a woman. Talking about her sexually sterile, white collar office job isn't going to get you laid. The women who like to talk jobs/career the most are women with bachelor's degrees or higher who work white collar.

Marketing is not a useless occupation. First off, marketing covers a wide range of areas within business (4 P's of Marketing -- Product, Price, Promotion, Place). On the surface, it would be unknown what she does within the discipline of Marketing. Additionally, all of us need to apply principles of marketing in order to get laid with women (mostly surrounding the Promotion P). Marketing draws from Psychology strongly, especially Social Psychology.

Public Relations is a subfunction of Marketing. Doing public and media relations is difficult. Not all marketers can do it. The public/media relations people are specialized from ordinary marketers. PR/Media Relations can have a lot of value.
 

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Why would you ask that in an approach or on an early stage, pre-sex date? Who cares?

It's best to avoid career talk on any date.
no I don't ask them these questions. I am just thinking these in my head when I see a girl.
I used to think I need to relate to a girl but on this forum someone said you're not supposed to relate to a girl and that's just something the feminist propaganda implanted in men's heads. ok granted.
but don't I need to at least respect her? How can I talk to a girl if I have zero respect for her? and I have zero respect for most girls because most girls are brain dead. I just don't see any signs of human intelligence. no adversities in life other than that one time when the nail salon was closed and she couldn't get her nails done, "i do pr" means she is on the phone with her friends all day doing nothing. am I just being judgmental? is this just my own insecurities being reflected in others? how can I possibly talk to a girl that I have no respect for?
 

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am I just being judgmental? is this just my own insecurities being reflected in others? how can I possibly talk to a girl that I have no respect for?
Yes, you are being judgmental. I don't know why you wouldn't respect someone working in Marketing. Human Resources is another story. I don't think positively about HR but there is a use for that function to some degree. HR is actually overblown. Many women work in an HR related role.

"i do pr" means she is on the phone with her friends all day doing nothing.
PR is not easy to do well, especially if you have media relations responsibilities. Dealing with members of the media is not an easy endeavor.
 

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I know you are not supposed to relate to a girl, but don't you need to at least have respect for her?

The problem that I face with most girls is I have zero respect for them. like
what struggles have you faced in your life other than daddy not buying you the latest G wagon last year?
what have you accomplished in life?
what did you study? (I hate girls that say fashion)
how do you make money? ("I do marketing" or "I do pr" means she is useless)

there is someone on this forum who says girls who have faced difficulty in life are masculine. but I don't like girls who've had it easy.

most girls seem brain dead. like they just go about their lives like an animal, not questioning anything. I don't see any signs of human intelligence.

am I just being judgmental or it's normal that I can't talk to a girl if I don't respect her and I don't respect majority of girls?
Alien mindset. Cannot relate.
 

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PR is not easy to do well, especially if you have media relations responsibilities. Dealing with members of the media is not an easy endeavor.
i dont like people in pr because they are all fake. both sides, the media and the pr girl dealing with the media. just a bunch of fake people wearing a suit pretending they are all that.
 

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i dont like people in pr because they are all fake. both sides, the media and the pr girl dealing with the media. just a bunch of fake people wearing a suit pretending they are all that.
My secondary job function is PR. It is wise to have some caution. But, we’re not bad people.
 

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