drak_ool said:
I think that's where the problem lies with most guys: getting their head around the fact that she's gone forever, that no matter what you do it's never gonna work again. Sh.it, even knowing everything I know, still took me almost 6 months to get to that stage with my ex. Even though I went NC, the thought of one day getting back with her was still fvcking with me. I do feel so much better now that I've got that out of my head.
Time will heal all wounds, NC is about keeping that discipline and letting time do its work. You can't heal a wound if you keep scratching it.
i am lucky if you will int he sense that i have never had a woman since i have been i supposed a DJ or what not, leave me. at least one that i gave anything resembling a **** about.
but at the same time, i screen women better than most men do so i don't get in relationships with flaky ignorant stupid low quality women
I mean, you marry someone and 15 years later they just flip on you there isn't **** you can do about that. you just got got. but 99% of the **** i read on this form can be solved by slowing the fvck down and waiting until you absoutly know what you are dealing with. that usually takes a few months. and yes in those months i'm going to continue doing what i was doing before i met you.
lol i know at least 5 or 6 girls i messed around with that told me i would die an old and lonly man beucase i would never commit to anyone were sick when they found out i got married/engaged. **** today is our one year anny take that *****es lol
some women will say.. no, ALL women, and most men will say that's heartless, no what is heartless is dating a guy for 6 months then going to work bragging about the guy who just put it in your ass the previous night in front of your ex who did nothing to you at all but worship the ground you walked on.. beucase that **** happened to me when i was 18. and everyone thought i just needed to move on and get over it. no noe gives a **** about you. they really don't. you have to give a **** about yourself and protect yourself. and you think i'm being selfish and heartless by not committing lol guess what, i don't give a **** what you think, beucase i'm not doing it for you. and if you can't understand that i don't just jump feet first into a relationship with a girl who likes me there is the door beucase you have just disqualified yourself anyway
most men date a woman and have no clue how she would act in certain situations. what i want to go out by myself is she going to pitich a ***** about it? im not going to stay curled up wtih you every Saturday night watching movies. how do youa ct if on eo fmy ex's starts calling me with no ill intentions, aer you going to get jealous and slit my throat? how does she treat other men/orbiters? she can only hid them from you so long they are like gremlins they will come up sooner or later. is she on the marriage fast track? youw on't know in 3 dates.
most men i have 0 compassion for beucase most bring it on themselves by throwing themselves blindly into the fire becuase a woman has tits and nice legs and kisses you every once in a while. **** i don't even feel sorry for my self going through what i went through before i came here i was asked for it with all the women who did me like that i didn't screen any of them and the red flags were there. I mean the guy who gets married and 10 years later his wife just turns ape****, i feel for that guy. the guy who meets this nice girl through a friend and 2 weeks later they are in a relationship, lol u got took.
most men, the first time she puts it on you or spends the night or holds your hand on some sappy ass romantic walk type **** you get butterflyes in yoru stomach and you want to lock her up
