I had a really bad rejection about a month ago. I wrote about it a while back here at sosuave. In summary, this is what happened:
I went to see this girl I met on the internet for a second time. She seemed somewhat into me the first time we hung out and had even said I could call her anytime. She lives in a different city, about an hour drive from where I live.
When I got to her place she was hanging out with a guy and was drunk. I was immediately angry about this, but didn't show it. I decided to stay around because the girl's body language towards this guy screamed "friendship" so I decided to wait it out and hope he would eventually leave.
After about an hour of sitting around, watching this girl talk on the phone and to this guy friend (which was super annoying) and on top of this BARELY TALKING TO ME, we all leave to go downstairs to the street below her apartment to have a ciggarette. This girl starts acting all drunk and stupid and knocks over some road block signs in the middle of the street then goes back upstairs with the other guy.
I'm really annoyed at this point and stay downstairs for about 15 minutes by myself. I want to just leave, but decide to at least tell this girl I was leaving.
WELL, I walk back upstairs to her apartment and the door is locked and she wont answer the door.
I call her phone, but she doesn't answer. I knock again, but no answer. WHAT THE HELL???
I get in my car and drive home, in disbelief that somone could treat me like this.
This situation/rejection has been on my mind for over a month now and has been eating away at me.
Over the past few months I have been seeing/having sex with a girl who is VERY attractive and who is REALLY into me. This girl has been a main factor in me not getting really depressed about this other girl treating me like complete s***. It's hard for me to deal with the reality that one girl, who is very hot, can like me SO MUCH, and then another girl can think so little of me and do what she did.
Have you guys ever experienced stuff like this before?
I'm in this sort of "limbo" state of mind--in one way I feel good that I have a hot girl who likes me and who I have great sex with, but in another way I can't seem to get over the fact that another girl would think so little of me and treat me with such disrespect. When I start thinking about the girl who dissed me, I start to wonder why this other beautiful girl likes me. I know its bad, but I cannot help it.
HOW CAN I GET OVER THIS REJECTION AND REGAIN MY FULL CONFIDENCE? Please help...
I went to see this girl I met on the internet for a second time. She seemed somewhat into me the first time we hung out and had even said I could call her anytime. She lives in a different city, about an hour drive from where I live.
When I got to her place she was hanging out with a guy and was drunk. I was immediately angry about this, but didn't show it. I decided to stay around because the girl's body language towards this guy screamed "friendship" so I decided to wait it out and hope he would eventually leave.
After about an hour of sitting around, watching this girl talk on the phone and to this guy friend (which was super annoying) and on top of this BARELY TALKING TO ME, we all leave to go downstairs to the street below her apartment to have a ciggarette. This girl starts acting all drunk and stupid and knocks over some road block signs in the middle of the street then goes back upstairs with the other guy.
I'm really annoyed at this point and stay downstairs for about 15 minutes by myself. I want to just leave, but decide to at least tell this girl I was leaving.
WELL, I walk back upstairs to her apartment and the door is locked and she wont answer the door.
I call her phone, but she doesn't answer. I knock again, but no answer. WHAT THE HELL???
I get in my car and drive home, in disbelief that somone could treat me like this.
This situation/rejection has been on my mind for over a month now and has been eating away at me.
Over the past few months I have been seeing/having sex with a girl who is VERY attractive and who is REALLY into me. This girl has been a main factor in me not getting really depressed about this other girl treating me like complete s***. It's hard for me to deal with the reality that one girl, who is very hot, can like me SO MUCH, and then another girl can think so little of me and do what she did.
Have you guys ever experienced stuff like this before?
I'm in this sort of "limbo" state of mind--in one way I feel good that I have a hot girl who likes me and who I have great sex with, but in another way I can't seem to get over the fact that another girl would think so little of me and treat me with such disrespect. When I start thinking about the girl who dissed me, I start to wonder why this other beautiful girl likes me. I know its bad, but I cannot help it.
HOW CAN I GET OVER THIS REJECTION AND REGAIN MY FULL CONFIDENCE? Please help...
