i cant get girls to buy me anything..

[DJ Alejandro]

ok. i admit! i dunno how to get girls buy me stuff. its not that its all that im after, i just wanna experience how it is when a girl does that.

i tried doing C&F but they always respond with,

"HEY! ur the guy. ur supposed to be the one doing that."

HELP!!!

 

[OddTech]

What are you smoking? Are you some sort of gold-digger or something?

Look, the reason why a girl would want to give a gift to a guy is because she thinks highly of him. A gift to a guy is like an "investment." I think of it like a bribe. But the bottom line is that you didn't elicit enough interest from a girl to make her want to invest time (from shopping and thinking what you want) and money into you. The reason why no one is buying you anything is because their interest in you is low or casual. Try working on finding someone who actually has high IL (interest level in you).

Also, it's kinda AFC to ask someone to buy something for you. Are you really that desperate?

 

[Silquee Smoove]

I just read your location and you're filipino! I'm a quarter-filipino so I can't steer you wrong on this one.

These girls may not have the money on them don't sweat it.

 

[Knicknack]

finally someone with higher goals... i love it when b|tches buy me ****. reverse the game on them.

i just got back a trip to vegas where i was partying at a club in the palms hotel called Rain. 2 of the nights i was there i had girls buying me drinks. drinks in vegas clubs are not cheap either. here is how i did it.

HB8 with 4 of her hot friends. they had one of these $1000/night VIP tables rented out for the night and they were just chillin, talkin amongst themselves. i watched the table for a bit and noticed no guys coming around, so of course i approached. i just found the first opening on their table and sat down like i owned it. i introduced myself to all the girls. the HB8 stuck her left hand out when i tried to shake it. i told her to put that down and give me her right hand for a proper handshake. then she said i was supposed to kiss her hand. i told her to cut that BS out and just shake my hand. i busted through her stupid little brat barrier. after talkin with her for awhile i told her (did not ask) to buy me a beer. i told her i wanted a bud light. she said she only drinks miller light so i again told her to get me a bud light. she said if she is buying she gets to pick. end of story. she paid $15 after tip for 2 miller lights.

the 2nd HB8 to buy me a drink i found on the dance floor. we did some dirty grinding for about 20 mins when i told her it's time for her to walk up to the bar with me and buy me a drink if she wants to keep dancing. she emptied her wallet and spent her last $6 on my $8 yager shot. i had to provide $3 for the rest of it and the tip. i was glad she spent her last coin on me though.

there is nothing wrong with women paying for your ****. they do it to guys all night long. they actually respect a man who will tell them what to do and act like a challenge for once.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Why are guys tripping on that "buy me stuff" and "going dutch" sh1t ?


That's some b1tch sh1t to me. I would only allow a girl to buy my way or let her pay hers if she insisted other than that i would never bum anything of a girl ,sh1t even asking a girl to break change makes me feel like a b1tch.

Call me old-fashioned ,but maybe guys should get back to basics .

 

[THA REALNESS]

Originally posted by THA REALNESS
Why are guys tripping on that "buy me stuff" and "going dutch" sh1t ?


That's some b1tch sh1t to me. I would only allow a girl to buy my way or let her pay hers if she insisted other than that i would never bum anything of a girl ,sh1t even asking a girl to break change makes me feel like a b1tch.

Call me old-fashioned ,but maybe guys should get back to basics .

RETRACTION:

Why can't b1tches buy US sh1t?And can't they pay their own sh1t? Aren't we equals ? OOHH I GETT IT BOO-HOO women are fragile and need a big strong man to provide for them and you dating her makes her feel special ,AAWWWW!!!


That some hooker sh1t to me ,why should i pay my hard earned cash on seeing wheter or not a chic will sleep with me? Sh1t it's cheaper to get a hooker ,that might actually be cleaner than most of the girls that DON'T turn tricks,it's probably better sex and it's guarennteed sex. Unlike with dating where a chic judges how much money you just shelled ou....oh i mean how much you too "clicked" and how much "romance was in the air" a hooker will **** your brains out the ninute she steps into your car.

Lets do the skankmathetics ,a movie date will run you about let's say 25 $ ,without guarenteeing any poon. A hooker on the other hand will **** you for 20 or less. That's already 5 dollars you are saving right there not to mention all the valuable time you could now spend doing things you like instead of chasing ....i mean "sweeping young ladies " off their feet.

I say we stop dating period and start taking these b1tches for everything they own it's only fair,cuz you know we are equal ...but they get special treatment

Call me a cro-magnon ,but b1tches ain't sh1t they need to stay in their place...on their back.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

i tried doing that quite a bit. more of the telling her to buy me a drink or something. it doesn't work as much tho. results are about 1 in every 10 or 2 at most.

i tried doing that with the girlz im pretty sure who have high IL like my girl and she's ok with it now.

i guess where im driving at is this. whenever im out with a friend, i try to have them buy me a drink or somethin. this friend tho has decent IL which im still workin on just for fun. but when i tell them to, they just say that im the one who's supposed to do it.

and when i do buy my own, she just sits there and waits for me to buy her something. and if i dont, im not a gentleman! damn! its not like i invited her to eat or somethin. then they get into drama mode which really ruins the casual date. i cant get past that.


Silquee Smoove - yes, i am. its hard to be a DJ here. people are just so conservative. i think that's their 'front'. i guess the 'man ALWAYS buys for girl and never the other way around' mentality is still alive in these Maria Claras . what have you experienced when you're here? maybe you could help me out a bit.

 

[Dilly]

Wow, that post really put me at ease for some reason.

I don't know, but a girl had never bought me a gift before until today. (This is the biggest coincedence, this topic being here)
She went overseas and bought me a really cool and thoughtful gift.
And that post from Oddtech really made me feel good.
Although I don't visit here often...this place still provides great info, and insight and EVERYTHING!

Originally posted by OddTech
What are you smoking? Are you some sort of gold-digger or something?

Look, the reason why a girl would want to give a gift to a guy is because she thinks highly of him. A gift to a guy is like an "investment." I think of it like a bribe. But the bottom line is that you didn't elicit enough interest from a girl to make her want to invest time (from shopping and thinking what you want) and money into you. The reason why no one is buying you anything is because their interest in you is low or casual. Try working on finding someone who actually has high IL (interest level in you).

Also, it's kinda AFC to ask someone to buy something for you. Are you really that desperate?