I can be violent towards women..

[Epimanes]

Anger stems from anxiety. Its a low dose of adrenalin (sometimes a high one). Some can handle it better than others. Anxiety causes 1 of 3 reactions. Fight, flight, or flee. OP your neuropathways have been trained due to conditioning during your upbringing to respond with fight as your coping strategy.

Get some help with anxiety man... I'm serious. I highly reccomend a psychologist if its a concerning issue and not just some counsellor.

When someone has a problem with anxiety and they are riding the edge of "loss of cognitive thinking ability" it doesn't take much to trigger that anxiety response and accidently hurt someone while your temporarily insane. Which when anxiety triggered causes you to do.

When you feel that little shot of adrenalin (some people are actually addicted to this as your anger can give u a quick hit) you need to take a 15mins break from the moment to keep your cognitive thinking ability so you don't let your anxiety take control.

www.anxietybc.ca

Epi

Edit: to the people telling him to just "get a grip" or "control yourself" its not that easy when your in those moments... For some yes.. Others no. Which is why professional help should be considered.

 

[princess_124]

I have a temper. It's not cool, it's not normal, it's not manly
But it's there. I have a really bad temper towards females. My mom abandoned me a bunch as a kid and left me with grandparents for months at a time whenever she had a new lover.
For this reason, I CAN NOT play these games with females.
If I find a female is ****ing with my emotions I know I'm capable of slapping her face off.
I know it's not cool and I ask you guys not to judge me just like I don't judge anyone else here.

I don't want to be like this but I am.
I haven't yet hit a woman but I have done things like slap drinks out of womans hand for perceived disrespect.. A busted a window for perceived disrespect and giys

I know if a woman was to come to my face after a LTR and tell me she cheated I'm capable of punching her like a man.
I thought about just dropping out of dating scene for this but obviously we all like Coochi right?
So what can I do?

Some of the I have read about you guys let females get away with **** like cheating or using you for a fool I just can't.. Its not safe for me it's not safe for her. It's just not safe to play around with me. Am I damaged permanently?

I am extremely sorry you had to go through that when you a kid... Your mom sounds very heartless. Anyways, my mom was a little drunk and abuse towards my mom when I was little. That's why I dislike men from the subcontinent (my family is from there) but I don't dislike all men. Anyways, I do wish you get better. Don't let women step over you but try to control ur anger please because it's not good for u either.

Oh, and thank God, my dad is nice now... But I think u should ask God for help