I called my gf and her family all laughed at me

[DasaniWater]

HEy guys , well an hour ago or so, my girl friend called, but i didnt hear it, so then i called back, and her step dad picked up the phone and said "Hello?"

I Said : Hi, may i please speak to "Her name".

He said "Shes busy doing homework, wait hold on.

So she picks up the phone.. I say . "Hey"

She *laughs*, and i hear her say "Dad dont be so mean".

OKAY! im like what the ****! what did he say? she wouldnt tell me. but then i basically hear her entire family talking about me in the background and laughing. then i try to talk to her but she sounds too busy, and she then laughs and hangs up. this pisssssssssed me the **** off.

then she calls back, and im like "what do you want??"

and then i ask her "what did your step dad say that was so mean and had your whole family talking about me and laughing??"


it took a few tries, but she finally told me "He said that when you call that you talk all slow, and you take forever to say anything and you sound stupid".

I'm like , "what the hell?? I take 5 seconds to say anything after they say hello? no i dont"

She says " Well they all say you do, and thats three people, so it must be true"

I get so ****in pissed off. i told her to tell her dad to go fck himself, and i hung up.


WEll......... i was really pissed off, im even pissed off at my Girl friend. do you think i have the right? or you think i am being insecure?? i just feel that its very messed up how they were,. and especialy since she didnt even back me up , and she laughed with them. i got so pissed off i feel like ending my relationship with this cvnt, but now not so much.

Anyways, now im afraid to call there house anymore... what should i do??

 

[KontrollerX]

Eh I don't see it as such a big deal.

Some families are goofy like that.

I'm sure they didn't really mean to deeply insult you or anything and she probably knew this which is why she didn't defend you.

Basically I think his jokes were more about teasing her than hurting you.

 

[Morphiex]

omg it was a little joke.... duuuude you got to lighten up and get your rage hormons under control.... you prolly fuc\ked the rlt with this girl , so all i can say is move on and work to better yourself....

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Stop calling her, let her call you that is how dj's do it. Her dad probably called you a wussie that is the real reason they were laughing!

 

[stan kwero]

i would be mad, i mean he had no right to criticize you. though it doesnt sound like you heard his tone of voice so he may have been joking

 

[mastersF]

Hey dude chill! i've made many calls where in the background i hear the family members poking fun but it ain't anything serious! when my gals call my parents will make fun of them to me as well! like "hey is this the one with the bucktooth? she sounds like her..." etc

 

[Potbelly]

stop making threads in 2 forums

 

[penkitten]

thats nothing, you should hear what my family said about some people that called our house.

 

[dannowillbookem]

smooth.

my family talks shiit about people eachother dates all the time. its initiation for me to call my sister boyfriend a whipped fag and my sister to call my new girl a flat *****. its bonding!

 

[sexy_kuta]

yo one tip... make sure u take this into consideration..

Never react.. to anything.. no matter what..

if she makes fun of u.. act like it doesnt bug you..

but if shes doing something that is bugging you.. tell her that u dont like it.. dont yell at her.. tell her in a clam voice.. girls want a guy who can hold his anger.. not a hot head

if she does something that bugs you.. tell her to stop that u dont like it. in a clam way..

if she does something wrong.. a wrong act that u dont find it too much brothering... let it slide... she will think you are one cool dude.

kinda hard to explain what im trying to say.. basicly just ingore what she does bad and if she REALLY and i mean REALLY step out of line and disrespects u alot.. tell her " <hoe> i really dont like your behaviour you pulled the other night. just make sure you dont do it again"

thats it... and make sure u tell her in a shocking way but in a nice voice tone..

you are a man.. rememeber..

 

[Rocko]

i say chill out, who care what the dad says, they are just trying to have a little fun, if I were him I'd probably do the same thing

 

[Porky]

stop wasting your time with her.

is it that big a deal? maybe not. there are also plenty of girls out there whose parents won't act like complete jackasses to you.

 

[donpepot]

jesus man..be cool.. you should laughing with them... what would u think brad pit will do if he is in your situation...what would alpha would do man?keep your composure man...

 

[Skilla_Staz]

You just screwed yourself over.

Suave |swäv| adjective ( suaver , suavest ) (esp. of a man) charming, confident, and elegant : all the waiters were suave and deferential. See note at urbane .

You were neither charming, nor confident, and the manner in which you handled this situation was far from elegant. If my girl hung up on me, I wouldn't call her back. I've done that in the past. She wants to cut the conversation short, thats her fault. You acted like a child in this case. Sure, the family was joking around about you, that can be a good sign. If you don't like what they're saying, then distance yourself from it. You should not have blown up and started going off on your girl. Simple as that. Be mature about this.

 

[adit]

You should take an anger management course.LoL.

Man,is this something to get mad about?If I were you,I'd just laugh about it and maybe even make a funny comment like 'Well,that means you guys gotta slow down and smell the roses,doesnt it?I'm so advantageous for you and your family.'

A lot of guys get screwed up when they don't get a gf,and some get screwed up when they hear their gf making a joke about them.Just chill man,talk to your girl and don't bring this up again.

 

[Adone]

you are fùcking insecure man. and it's not your only problem. i mean, who gives a shìt about her dad?! plus, he wasn't really insulting you, it was just too heavy of a line.

i'd just say back "your family is pretty goofy, u know?", with a light laugh, but it should come natural, you can't really force it and expect it to work

 

[WilliamC]

You really have super low esteem about himself.. Isn't that a good thing that her dad actually likes you that he makes a joke with his family about you?

And end the relationship up because of this? Actually i think you should end the relationship.

The girl deserves someone better than you.

 

[MrS]

Break up with her.
Or chill out, laugh with it, hit it with a comeback, don't break up.
Hell I didn't even bother reading the post, just the replies.

 

[ProDJ26]

CONGRADULATIONS !! u have just failed wut i lyke to call a sht test!
What should u do?? (Laugh at yourself) seriously do it !! Man take a chill pill..

woo sah ---- woo sah ----- her dad lykes u enough to make a joke about u

U gotta learn to quit giving a sht wut every 1 else thinks learn to go with the flow. & never react to nething -------- NE THING!

 

[MrS]

Urbane = My favourite word actually.