We've been dating seven months. Everything's cool.
I notice a bad trend developing : She recounts events in a manner NOT consitent w/ reality. It bothers me.
Specifics:
Situation #1: She's due to come to my apt. late at night. I say: "Do you wanna do anything?" She says,"No. I'm too tired, let's order Chinese and stay in.'
Situation #2: We go out for a nice dinner. First restaurant=two hour wait. We both agree that's too long. Second restaurant=40 minute wait. We agree, wait, have a drink, talk and have a good time.
Last Wednesday night : I'm at her place. Taking her to a nice dinner. We bring up movies. She says she wants to see 50 first dates. She says she's going w/ her friends b/c when she came to my place last time I didn't want to go out! WTF? ( See sit. #1 ).
Tonight (Friday). I landed a new job. We want to go out and celebrate. She says she wants to take me to the 2nd restaurant in sit. #2 and get there early so I don't '***** the whole time'. I did no such thing. That REALLY pissed me off. I called her on it and wouldn't back down. She wouldn't either and now we're broken up. I'm really pissed.
I'm I being an idiot? Is she crazy? I need some unbiased opinion here. The one thing I WON'T do is play patsy to some women who makes **** up in her head.
Thoughts?
I notice a bad trend developing : She recounts events in a manner NOT consitent w/ reality. It bothers me.
Specifics:
Situation #1: She's due to come to my apt. late at night. I say: "Do you wanna do anything?" She says,"No. I'm too tired, let's order Chinese and stay in.'
Situation #2: We go out for a nice dinner. First restaurant=two hour wait. We both agree that's too long. Second restaurant=40 minute wait. We agree, wait, have a drink, talk and have a good time.
Last Wednesday night : I'm at her place. Taking her to a nice dinner. We bring up movies. She says she wants to see 50 first dates. She says she's going w/ her friends b/c when she came to my place last time I didn't want to go out! WTF? ( See sit. #1 ).
Tonight (Friday). I landed a new job. We want to go out and celebrate. She says she wants to take me to the 2nd restaurant in sit. #2 and get there early so I don't '***** the whole time'. I did no such thing. That REALLY pissed me off. I called her on it and wouldn't back down. She wouldn't either and now we're broken up. I'm really pissed.
I'm I being an idiot? Is she crazy? I need some unbiased opinion here. The one thing I WON'T do is play patsy to some women who makes **** up in her head.
Thoughts?