nonchalant
Senior Don Juan
I was dating this girl for going on a year and a half. We had been fighting a lot and we had been breaking up and getting back together like every month. Mentally it has been exhausting for me, and I just felt like I couldn’t deal w it anymore and felt like it was better to end things. I had been feeling her becoming more and more checked out, and I know that she had been losing attraction to me every time we break up and get back together.
The last weekend was the last straw. We fought and she told me she needed to think if she still wanted to be with me. This type of thing keeps happening lately, but sometimes I break up w her it is just a bad cycle. She didn’t text me until a day later, she texted me hi. I responded hi, but she never responded. The third day I decided to break up w her because I couldn’t handle it anymore. I told her I’m sorry I have to break up with you because the arguing is bad for my mental health. Also because i don’t like how I am being treated in the relationship, and I didn’t see the situation changing.
If you have ever been in a similar situation and you feel like your girl is pulling away and is going to dump you - dump your girlfriend first. If you feel like your girl is not treating you the way that you want to be treated, break up with her. That is the power move that will give you the power back in the relationship. I know this is true because I’ve done it in the past and after I dumped this girl, I know she is missing me and wanting me back because she has been blowing up my phone asking me for another chance.
The reason why she wants me back? I’m questioning if she really wants me back or if I just wounded her pride. You have to understand that this girl is a 9-10 and not used to being dumped. Some girls, especially really hot girls, don’t get dumped very often and it just blows their mind. Dump them if you really want to reclaim the power in a relationship, you need to break up first and make them realize they are dealing with a man who has the confidence to walk away when he is not being treated the way he wants to be treated.
The problem I have now: she keeps sending me texts, asking for another chance when I have already made it clear that I would like to make a final break with her and move on with my life. But it is very difficult for me because I still have strong feelings for her, and she is insanely hot and good in bed so I have a hard time letting that go, but I know walking away is the best thing for me. I have already ended the relationship cleanly and with my pride and dignity intact. In fact, I feel like I can be proud of the way that I handled myself in that relationship. If I break down and take her back, I will just be going back to the same situation where I was unhappy.
The last weekend was the last straw. We fought and she told me she needed to think if she still wanted to be with me. This type of thing keeps happening lately, but sometimes I break up w her it is just a bad cycle. She didn’t text me until a day later, she texted me hi. I responded hi, but she never responded. The third day I decided to break up w her because I couldn’t handle it anymore. I told her I’m sorry I have to break up with you because the arguing is bad for my mental health. Also because i don’t like how I am being treated in the relationship, and I didn’t see the situation changing.
If you have ever been in a similar situation and you feel like your girl is pulling away and is going to dump you - dump your girlfriend first. If you feel like your girl is not treating you the way that you want to be treated, break up with her. That is the power move that will give you the power back in the relationship. I know this is true because I’ve done it in the past and after I dumped this girl, I know she is missing me and wanting me back because she has been blowing up my phone asking me for another chance.
The reason why she wants me back? I’m questioning if she really wants me back or if I just wounded her pride. You have to understand that this girl is a 9-10 and not used to being dumped. Some girls, especially really hot girls, don’t get dumped very often and it just blows their mind. Dump them if you really want to reclaim the power in a relationship, you need to break up first and make them realize they are dealing with a man who has the confidence to walk away when he is not being treated the way he wants to be treated.
The problem I have now: she keeps sending me texts, asking for another chance when I have already made it clear that I would like to make a final break with her and move on with my life. But it is very difficult for me because I still have strong feelings for her, and she is insanely hot and good in bed so I have a hard time letting that go, but I know walking away is the best thing for me. I have already ended the relationship cleanly and with my pride and dignity intact. In fact, I feel like I can be proud of the way that I handled myself in that relationship. If I break down and take her back, I will just be going back to the same situation where I was unhappy.
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