I Blew It Again.

[ScottMustaine]

FOR ****ING SAKE.

I got into a ****ing bus, standed right there, and notice a girl near me who was cute locking her eyes onto me, then changing her head. So I get some balls and tell myself I'll talk to her at the bus stop outside. So she goes outside, and moves really fast into some alley and WHAT DID I DO?!


WUSS OUT.

BRAVO ****ING *****. YOU JUST BLEW YOUR ****ING CHANCE, ONCE AGAIN,M NOW YOU CAN CRY ON THIS ****ING FORUM BECAUSE YOU ARE A BIG ***** NOT TO DO ANYTHING IN YOUR STUPID ****ING LIFE.

YOU APPROACHED ONCE, GOT INTO RELATION****, GOT BURNED AND NOW YOU THINK ALL GIRLS ARE *****ES, BOOOHO.

**** YOU SCOTT.



NOW I'M GONNA ****ING GO TOMMOROW AND ****ING FIND HER. **** YOU SCOTT.

 

[Bible_Belt]

What were you supposed to do? Chase her into the alley and tackle her? She may have realized you wanted to talk to her, panicked just like you did, and then ran away. You can't beat yourself up for failing to approach women who are not approachable. She probably has a boyfriend and felt guilty for what she was thinking about you. It's a compliment and not some grand failure on your part.

 

[Married Buried]

It never hurts to make small talk. Small talk is better than nothing. you never know what could happen. One time I just said "hey" to some chic and ended up banging her that night.

 

[ScottMustaine]

What were you supposed to do? Chase her into the alley and tackle her? She may have realized you wanted to talk to her, panicked just like you did, and then ran away. You can't beat yourself up for failing to approach women who are not approachable. She probably has a boyfriend and felt guilty for what she was thinking about you. It's a compliment and not some grand failure on your part.

The worst thing is. I lose her trace in the alley. Get back to the bus station, and she goes into the store, buys water,and goes back. She walks really fast.

And I wussed out on SECOND CHANCE. GOD DAMN IT I CAN'T REMEMBER WHEN I WAS SO FURIOUS ABOUT MYSELF.


I even got a new haircut the same day. This **** is crazy.

I get the will, I ****block myself, then I self destruct inside. And do NOTHING.

I can't believe I'm so scarred. I wanted to talk with her in bus, but there were like 300 people in it so it would be ****ing weird.

My only hope is to get that girl by going at the same time at the same place. That's when I act as a ***** INSTEAD OF BEING A MAN.

 

[Married Buried]

Stop freaking out. It's just one chic.

Don't let it happen again.

 

[Igetit!]

The worst thing is. I lose her trace in the alley. Get back to the bus station, and she goes into the store, buys water,and goes back. She walks really fast.

And I wussed out on SECOND CHANCE. GOD DAMN IT I CAN'T REMEMBER WHEN I WAS SO FURIOUS ABOUT MYSELF.


I even got a new haircut the same day. This **** is crazy.

I get the will, I ****block myself, then I self destruct inside. And do NOTHING.

I can't believe I'm so scarred. I wanted to talk with her in bus, but there were like 300 people in it so it would be ****ing weird.

My only hope is to get that girl by going at the same time at the same place. That's when I act as a ***** INSTEAD OF BEING A MAN.

WOOOOW.

Dude.....heh.....you SO don't get it,you SO don't understand.

You're so busy beating yourself up and putting yourself down,both Bible Belt's and Malice's comments flew right over your head.

They BOTH gave you insight to the mindset you need to have,but you're too caught up in a defeatist attitude for their advice to do you any good.


Dude I'm sorry,but with all that sh1t going on inside you,that chick was wise beyond her years in getting THE HELL away from you,she did HERSELF a favor.

This thread seems more like a rant/pity party than you seeking help and using this as something to learn from so you won't have to repeat it again in the future,so I'll tell you what....


Go ahead and beat yourself up some more. Put yourself down,do self-talk about how dumb you were not to "CHASE A GIRL DOWN AN ALLEY" to approach her. Go ahead and get it all out.


Then once you calm down,and are in a LISTENING/RECEPTIVE mood,maybe someone will come here and explain to you what happened cause right now,you just don't get it.


There's a WHOLE LOT MORE here than you just failing to approach this girl,but you're too pre-occupied with self-loathing to see it.

 

[foreverAFC]

this guy is sounds like he is only a few prescription pills away from shooting up a womens aerobics class

 

[Fatal Jay]

this guy is sounds like he is only a few prescription pills away from shooting up a womens aerobics class

I agree

 

[Demonpenz]

Haha let.it.out then have sex with a Pringles can. Its a game...have fun.

 

[ScottMustaine]

this guy is sounds like he is only a few prescription pills away from shooting up a womens aerobics class

Wanna come over ? I bet I'll score more headshots.

 

[BigSmooth]

Dude. With that attitude...your conversation with that girl wouldn't have lasted more than 30 seconds without her feeling creeped the fuq out.

You need to take it easy. Yeah you missed your opportunity...so what? Just make sure it doesn't happen again. No need to go ape $hit and jerk off everywhere.

 

[The_Crack]

lol what the phuck?

 

[DragonBlood]

Scott dont worry about it you have balls of steel.

Your too attached to the outcome, maybe the vibe wasnt right. There was one time I was waiting at a bus with a chick who had a cast on her leg (and I noticed checking me out) so I cracked a joke about her partying too hard last night and got the number. Other times I thought about catching girls on/off the bus but it just doesnt feel right, you know?