I begged and lost her forever

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So, trying to resume this, i find this site on google, because i am so **** depressed now

I dated a woman for 10 months, and treat her like ****, only want her for sex etc..

We start a fight about a stupid thing, and ended having a mutual breakup

After this i stop talking to her for about one week, and i got really sick, lost tons of weight, and become crazy, start to beg,and she seeing this wanted to go back with me, but we ended in another fight, and she get really angry, because i insult her.

After this i begged for her to the next 4 months, and she refused, saying that i treat her like **** and i dont have any chance anymore and blocked me on everything

Now i learned about NC, i really want her back, but i think she are gone forever right?
 
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this is what you do... accept you are in no position to even communicate with a woman on a standard level or romantic...by the sounds of it

a toxic scenario does not fix within a week

leave it a few days and send her a text of a "man" only from your phone to hers not using someone elses form
of contact

Say you're sorry for the way things have worked out and if you have mistreated her in anyway do not drivel on about feelings or "shes the one" and do not do this when you have had a drink,

Leave the message with something along the lines of "ill leave ya be" then no replies even if she messages

There lies the problem you wont be able to leave her be, youll get drunk or whatever and blow her phone up..comfirm your not quite the strong "leave you be" male you said

or you could do it my way and shell most likely contact you in 4 weeks time when youve vanished off the face of her earth

Cause your this new man leading a busy life, working out,glowing with charm..... that every mom, nan, woman and child wants to stop and talk to in the street

then when she contacts you get right back on here do not rush to reply to her she may be seeking validation
 

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You live and learn. Move on. It's done.
 

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i have got back with a few exes long term, so i dont always agree with this Move on , Why would you want her bk mentallity

infact i have my beautiful daughter with what was a toxic relationship that i turned bk into a happy 6 year LTR
 

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Hi derby1, she blocked me on everything i dont have any form to talk to her..
 
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So, trying to resume this, i find this site on google, because i am so **** depressed now

I dated a woman for 10 months, and treat her like ****, only want her for sex etc..

We start a fight about a stupid thing, and ended having a mutual breakup

After this i stop talking to her for about one week, and i got really sick, lost tons of weight, and become crazy, start to beg,and she seeing this wanted to go back with me, but we ended in another fight, and she get really angry, because i insult her.

After this i begged for her to the next 4 months, and she refused, saying that i treat her like **** and i dont have any chance anymore and blocked me on everything

Now i learned about NC, i really want her back, but i think she are gone forever right?
You admitted you treated her like sh*t. She told you you treated her like sh*t. People don't like being treated like sh*t. She doesn't want to go back to someone who treated her like sh*t. Move on its over.
 

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move on like the others have said leave her alone then........any move you make will repulse her even more"!! ANY MOVE !!!

walking away from a situation isnt to get the other person back it is because you have self respect and there is nothing more desirable than a man with self respect,

you have none at the moment im afraid even if you think you do, ie the begging etc its a mindset my friend that will take at least 6 months to change
 

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So, trying to resume this, i find this site on google, because i am so **** depressed now

I dated a woman for 10 months, and treat her like ****, only want her for sex etc..

We start a fight about a stupid thing, and ended having a mutual breakup

After this i stop talking to her for about one week, and i got really sick, lost tons of weight, and become crazy, start to beg,and she seeing this wanted to go back with me, but we ended in another fight, and she get really angry, because i insult her.

After this i begged for her to the next 4 months, and she refused, saying that i treat her like **** and i dont have any chance anymore and blocked me on everything

Now i learned about NC, i really want her back, but i think she are gone forever right?
You got what you deserved.
 

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Tip 1: Learn from mistakes
Tip 2 Get more numbers
Tip 3: Start dating
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So, trying to resume this, i find this site on google, because i am so **** depressed now

I dated a woman for 10 months, and treat her like ****, only want her for sex etc..

We start a fight about a stupid thing, and ended having a mutual breakup

After this i stop talking to her for about one week, and i got really sick, lost tons of weight, and become crazy, start to beg,and she seeing this wanted to go back with me, but we ended in another fight, and she get really angry, because i insult her.

After this i begged for her to the next 4 months, and she refused, saying that i treat her like **** and i dont have any chance anymore and blocked me on everything

Now i learned about NC, i really want her back, but i think she are gone forever right?
you can want women for sex only, but why would you insult her? LOL


also begging is for betas. and you have oneitis syndrome. and what not
 

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Go buy some bitcoinz!
 

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I treated a girl like sh*t and then lost her last year. Took me to get over it but I realized I was better off without her.

Your mind is clouded right now. You’ll realize that this is for the best.
 

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I treated a girl like sh*t and then lost her last year. Took me to get over it but I realized I was better off without her.

Your mind is clouded right now. You’ll realize that this is for the best.
Yeah, the idea is, not to treat her like a princess or treat her like dirt....Treat her like a normal person.

Not one of us is perfect and should never be treated as perfect.
 

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Now i learned about NC, i really want her back, but i think she are gone forever right?
Once again, a misunderstanding of NC. NC is not a "trick" to get somebody. It is a strategy to help you FORGET your "ex" while you look for somebody different.

Yes, she is gone forever. The longer it takes you to accept this the worse it will be.

You won't be able to, you'll try every trick in the book, and your life will be miserable until you actually DO forget her.

Welcome to Earth.
 

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I think you are suffering from the withdrawal (pun NOT intended) of access to your source of sexual intimacy. If you had had a harem, you would not have such feelings now.
 
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