I ask a girl for her number, she says she's got a boyfriend....

[Just Another Guy....]

She's been giving me HUGE IOI's, she initiated kino, she finds me on campus all the time, she'll run to catch up with me and stuff, it's almost stalkerish..


anyway, I asked her for her number today and she says... "Oh.... well, I have a boyfriend."



I just kinda ignored it and we kept talking about other stuff, and she still had kino and all that stuff going..... I'm gonna 'next' her, but for future reference what the heck do you say to that? I read a thing a minute ago about it being a (s)hit test, but I'm not exactly sure what to say or do....

 

[Obsidian]

yeah, those are pretty good, but if a girl says that to me I just don't bother with her

 

[Alkali]

"Would you like another one?" (Sly, with a smile)

"Dump the zero and get with the hero!" (****y)

"Where's the ring?" (Innocently inquisitive)

"Then why'd you grope my ass?" (Innocently oblivious)

"Oh my god, so do I! Lets dump them and hook up!" (Excited)

Wow. A lot of responses came to my mind when you described the situation.

I'd say those things but I wouldn't take her number.

(Just kidding, I so would if she was hot.)

 

[Stuntmann]

It's not as much as sh1t test in your case.


Because, you've been hanging out with her for a while, labeling yourself as a safe cool dude. (better than an AFC, yet still not a guy she'd fvck) A friend.


You don't need as much as to know what to say to this, as much as know that you must escalate much faster. Go for fclose the first time. Otherwise you're screwing it all up, labeling yourself as a friend and stuff, and then wanting something more.


If she says she don't have number, there is what already been said, then you can just tell her she's loosing you, then other stuff. In all cases you gotta be clear that if she don't give number, she's not intersted, so she will loose whatever attention you giving her, and it be her fault. You are ready to walk away if she don't give you number.


Be aware that women give numbers left and right, it's common, attention getter. Then they don't pick up. Evil slvts. So don't go for number, go for fclose, if it ain't working get her e-mail and then number. Don't take no for an answer, even if you already have her e-mail and she won't give number. They love that.

 

[shop until I die!]

that sucks man! i guess you just got to cut her loose! "NEXT!" LOL


Anyways, when I was in college a similar thing happened to me, but I kept thinking that maybe she'd breakup with her boyfriend and we could hookup, but alas, I became "the friend."

So word to the wise, cut her loose.

 

[(JJ)]

try "its okay. im not really the jealous type. i'll still take you out " or somethin along those lines. consider the fact she spent so much time flirtin with you without ever bringing up the whole boyfriend thing.

 

[Just Another Guy....]

I like the ****y/flirtatious things.... I'll remember those. It's seems like a win win using those, if she says yeah, or gives you the number or whatever, cool. If she doesn't your going to next her anyway, so that just seals the next.


Oh, and she's probably an 8 or so, I think she's pretty attractive. I don't really know anything about the relationship she is in, all I know is he doesn't go to the same school she does, so..... it's kinda a LDR. Maybe something will open up.... idk.


If not, I got a few other girls numbers yesterday..

 

[shop until I die!]

I like the ****y/flirtatious things.... I'll remember those. It's seems like a win win using those, if she says yeah, or gives you the number or whatever, cool. If she doesn't your going to next her anyway, so that just seals the next.


Oh, and she's probably an 8 or so, I think she's pretty attractive. I don't really know anything about the relationship she is in, all I know is he doesn't go to the same school she does, so..... it's kinda a LDR. Maybe something will open up.... idk.


If not, I got a few other girls numbers yesterday.. [/QUOTE=Just Another Guy...]


Bingo. Now seal the deal with those chicks and move on.

 

[Just Another Guy....]

The more the merrier....

 

[COD]

YOU: I AINT ASKING TO DATE YOU..........i said whats your number sister.

You: ITS OK IT WILL BE OUR LIL SECRET........WHAT HE DOES NOT ALLOW YOU TO HAVE ANY FRIENDS

NOW FOR SOME REAL ADVICE FOR YOU TO TRY...........

SAYING THINGS LIKE CAN I GET YOUR NUMBER...........automatically TRIGGER her defense shield and put you into YOUR USER NAME.......J A G.

WHO GIVES A RATTS BUTT IF ITS A TEST.................want to know HoW to fly under her radar and TOTALLY AVOID triggering her auto-response.


REPHRASE YOUR WORDING.............ok well umm how do I do that..........glad you asked..........ready..........

DO U HAVE YOURT CELL PHONE WITH YOU..........let me see it

take out yours...........say the words........"LETS TRADE........HERES MY NUMBER OR GIMME YOURS" call it right there...........tell her to add you...................THEN............SAY I GOTTA RUN.

LOTS OF VARIATIONS HERE............the key is to not ask but inform her to give you her number by going around the old DO U HAVE A PHONE NUMBER.

DO NOT DEVIATE FROM THE "DO U HAVE A CELL PHONE" line too much. Asking to get her number sounds like U are projecting love interest and are needy. Women everywhere on the planet vomit the "I gotta boyfriend" automatically if they think you are trying to pick them up.

IF U DONT HAVE A CELL.........GET ONE THEY ARE CHEAP, what if she does not have one........then poke fun of her...........what if you forgot your cell.............THEN U NEED TO BE A MAN WITH A PLAN...........NEXT TIME.

M