I an not invited to Mothers day supper WTF

[bish0p]

I have no clue why you would complain about her right to be with her mom.

This is probably not about the desire to be around the family. It's being told that you can't do something when it was never an issue before.

I can definitely see where the OP is coming from.

Also, as someone mentioned before, the fact that the girlfriend hasn't seen him in a week and is not in a rush to see him says something as well.

OP, I don't know...kind of a tough situation to call...could be so many things. In the end, fvck it....what can you do. Hopefully, if need be, you're able to walk away from the relationship if necessary. If you can't, you might want to start working on being able to.

 

[WorkingDJ]

Wow can't believe how many guys think there is something wrong. Way too many of you are paranoid as shiit and have no faith in girls. Its the mom's one fvcking day of the year just for her other than her b-day. Maybe she just wants a relaxing night at home with her family or doesn't want to deal with having too many people attend since its now at her house instead of a restaurant. Theres a million reasons this could have happened and most of them probably have nothing to do with your GF.

By all means be on the look out for bad signs in the future, but i dont think this is one of them. I'd let your girl know your upset you guys couldnt hangout but dont make a big deal about it, since it really isn't.

Truth.

I never understand the "if she's not with me, she's having sex with another guy." Come on now.

 

[Thatfeel21]

I agree. Some of the advice here is written out of pure paranoia. Its just one dinner! Her mom was part of the equation, so you can't necessarily blame this situation on your gf. The only thing you can do, is keep your eyes open man.

 

[SgtSplacker]

It seems like a very clear negative trend. On one hand she is showing how important it is to maintain connections with family. On the other hand your connection with her seems relatively unimportant since she has not seen you in two weeks and does not seem to be concerned with changing that. Interest levels are low my friend.

This is a perfect opportunity to increase her interest by playing hot/cold with her. Start going out and enjoying yourself dude. When the weekend comes ask her if she wants to do anything first, if she says she can't then let her know you are going out with your friends. When she asks about your night tell her how awesome it was, even if it sucked just focus on the good stuff. After a week or two of this I would start to mention other girls that maybe your friends were talking to or whatever. Always ask her out first so she can't say you are ignoring her, you cannot allow this to become about anything but her not wanting to spend time with you. Don't giver her any reason to get mad at you or this will backfire. Don't say you talked to girls, but talk about your friends talking to girls so she knows girls are around.

The last thing you want a woman thinking is that she already has you and is not in any danger of loosing you.

This will get her thinking that she is only missing out by not spending more time with you. And will demonstrate to her how desirable you still are even after 2 years. Even if you are the one not talking to girls she will understand that it's just a matter of time before you come across a girl better than she is.