I am such a loser.

negativefcf

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I recently signed up with Yahoo Personal, paid the $20 (unf*ckinbelievable). I am sending out all these invitations. But I have yet to receive ONE reply. It's been two weeks!

I feel like such a loser.
 

Golden Arms

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Pfft, what else would you spend that $20 on ? a lap dance ? Quit crying
 

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Well...you focus on negatively things "I pain....I didn't get responses...I am a loser"...
Do you honetsly think it will bering you somehting good???

You gotta re-focus on a) you profile...does it have one line? Look like all other profiles? Improve it - post it here and I'll give you some feedback. b) you posted pics? Are they good? improve them: take 100-200 pics of yoruself... and choose the best ones.
 

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You've run full speed ahead into an area you know nothing about. You paid $20 and you have no clue how to get results with online dating.

Here's a wake up call for you, how are you gonna handle a woman once you get a response? Do you have any clue of how you're going to get her offline and into the real world?

Work on your real world skills before you even bother with online dating.
 

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It doesn't make any sense. Why wouldn't anyone reply? Even if I am the worse character in the world (which I am not), don't you think I would get at least one reply due to people being nice?
 

Golden Arms

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quit obsessing as to why women aren't replying to your ad and go out try to meet some girls in real life

the internet ain't going nowhere
 

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Originally posted by Golden Arms
quit obsessing as to why women aren't replying to your ad and go out try to meet some girls in real life

the internet ain't going nowhere
I wish I could but there's no asian honeys near my town. Or they're hiding from me. Massachusetts baby.
 

Golden Arms

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Originally posted by negativefcf
I wish I could but there's no asian honeys near my town. Or they're hiding from me. Massachusetts baby.
so ? white, black and hispanic girls have vaginas too :yes:
 

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Only asian for me.
I'm guessing you put your "only asian" specifications in your profile. The internet is limited with how many women are looking for a date. If you want to be this fussy, you're gonna have to get out in the real world and track down asian women yourself. Don't expect them to come to you.

Also, if you're new to this stuff, you're going to be limiting yourself even more. If asian girls are a rarity, you're going to end up blowing your game on many of them and further decrease your chances of landing one.

Quit being so goddam fussy. If you want an asian chick for a LTR, get good at picking up women before you start being selective. Once you attract lots of women, then you can pick and choose which ones you want to date.
 

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Dude, the tone of your posts makes it sound like you're feeling sorry for yourself. Don't feel that way, because it'll only reduce your chances.

Where in Massachusetts are you? Surely there are Asian women in the Boston area. I went to college in Worcester and there were a fair amount there. Of course, at the time, I wasn't into them (like I am now), but I do remember seeing plenty on campuses (there are almost as many colleges in Worcester as there are in Boston).

Of course, if you're way out in the western part of the state (in the Berkshires), you might have some trouble. :(
 

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I am out of college. No friends.. ****z

Originally posted by BigDawg
Dude, the tone of your posts makes it sound like you're feeling sorry for yourself. Don't feel that way, because it'll only reduce your chances.

Where in Massachusetts are you? Surely there are Asian women in the Boston area. I went to college in Worcester and there were a fair amount there. Of course, at the time, I wasn't into them (like I am now), but I do remember seeing plenty on campuses (there are almost as many colleges in Worcester as there are in Boston).

Of course, if you're way out in the western part of the state (in the Berkshires), you might have some trouble. :(
 

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link to your profile on yahoo and let the forum have a look and give you ideas on how to improve it :)


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

ApocalypseCow2

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Originally posted by negativefcf
don't you think I would get at least one reply due to people being nice?
If that is your mindset, you are fvcked.

Do cold pickups. Live off the land. In the online world, girls get hundreds of emails.
 
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