I am so sick of getting hit on by fat chicks

[soden]

Hey guys,

Seriously, I am really sick of getting hit on by fat chicks...sometimes it feels like an "insult"...I don't know how to describe it and I never (cant remember one situation) get hit on by hot chicks.

I am 26 years old, 176cm and about 94kg BUT I am lifting since I am 16 years old, did BJJ for 4years...I am doing my Bachelor Degrees in Sportscience, got a trainer licence and already worked as a fitness coach. My bodyfat is around 13%, there is no fat wabbling around...


I mean, I cant explain it to myself why I always get hit on by them...Its on the campus, in the gym, at night in the clubs.

I always stay friendly, but it really keeps me thinking what am I doing wrong?!


Maybe some of you experienced similar situations and want to share them with me, or got some help?

 

[El Payaso]

The way you feel about fat women hitting on you is the same way those "hot" girls who never hit on you feel about you hitting on them.

 

[SeymourCake]

I agree. It's a complete insult when a fat chick thinks she can get with you.

 

[Maximus Rex]

These Women Know What You're Going Through

Hey guys,

Seriously, I am really sick of getting hit on by fat chicks...sometimes it feels like an "insult"...I don't know how to describe it and I never (cant remember one situation) get hit on by hot chicks.

Maybe some of you experienced similar situations and want to share them with me, or got some help?

I don't know if anybody on So Suave can related to your experiences, but these woman feel your pain.

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[Bible_Belt]

Ask them to go to the gym for a first date. You know that's never going to happen.

 

[In2theGame]

I have had fat chicks in a bar fvcking follow me around and one time i thought it was a coincidence that i kept bumping into her, so i went to the bar way in the back and stood there, 2 minutes later, she was standing next to me staring at me. I just laughed a bit but i dont find it insulting as i have had many HB8/9's hitting on me so i guess shes going for a hail mary but... Im not mean about it. I chit chat a bit with them and then end up talking to another girl soon after.

Funny story, there was this one time i was at a bar downtown and this chubby girl was getting hit on by these two guys so.. she pulls away from them and then sees them coming to talk to her again. She grabs on to me and says, "Sorry, this is my boyfriend" and the two guys looked at each other laughing saying yea nice joke lol. Although she was more on the heavy side, she did have a very cute face and a very round ass with t*ts popping out but eh... i wasnt trying to do nothing with her.

 

[In2theGame]

Ask them to go to the gym for a first date. You know that's never going to happen.

lol

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Hey guys,

Seriously, I am really sick of getting hit on by fat chicks...sometimes it feels like an "insult"...I don't know how to describe it and I never (cant remember one situation) get hit on by hot chicks.

I am 26 years old, 176cm and about 94kg BUT I am lifting since I am 16 years old, did BJJ for 4years...I am doing my Bachelor Degrees in Sportscience, got a trainer licence and already worked as a fitness coach. My bodyfat is around 13%, there is no fat wabbling around...

Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

 

[Desdinova]

Seriously, I am really sick of getting hit on by fat chicks...sometimes it feels like an "insult"

A woman is a woman regardless of what her physical appearance is. Fat women just need to work harder to get what they want.

If fat women are finding you attractive, then fit women are *also* finding you attractive. However, fit women don't need to work for a man's attention which is why they don't approach you. YOU need to approach them.

 

[El Payaso]

Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

In those rare moments when you aren't peddling relationship materials from your website, you drop some wise knowledge.

 

[Who Dares Win]

All the times I got fat girls trying to pick me and actually believing to have a chance,it was when I was out of shape (either skinny or skinny fat) and my status was low, mostly in my nice guy moment.

I believe it was more because of my status and the following body language and attitude altought I believe my body had a part in it.

I'm talking about 10 yrs ago so maybe things are different now so you may be attractice and fat girls are hitting on you simply because they are more self confident now.

 

[backbeat]

Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

yea man wut u want to do is make a woman feel excited for u bro. get her pvzzy all tinglin n sh@t. thats wut master seducers do to women bro they get them all hot n sh@t tghen u can have em bro.

 

[pyros]

yeah, happened to me many times. But it doesnt matter if they are fat or just plain ugly but thin, it always annoys me.

Today, I went to this salsa club. This HB5 that always comes to say hello to me, always asks me to dance, and always likes whatever **** I post on fb...came AGAIN to dance with me, eventhough I never ask her for a dance, I never like her posts on FB, and I never go to greet her.

Then, this other HB5.5 came to dance with me as well. She always does. Sometimes she tries to take me to a dark corner but I refuse.

Both girls get really close to my mouth when talking to me, what annoys me even more.

Then this HB6.2 (whoaaaaahhhh HB6.2!! yes!!) danced with me, gave me some chit-chat and then told a friend of mine that she liked me, so my friend came to tell me this and suggested that I should dance with her some more which I refused! aRGGGGGGRRRGGGGG...

There was this other HB7.5 who I liked, I think she liked me as well, but she had a bf, and eventhough she laughed at my jokes, caressed my shoulder etc, she mentioned several times "...my boyfriend..." so I did not escalate with her.


Sad but true. LOL.

 

[mangotot]

Tell them to take a hike.

 

[Skyline]

Pyros, serious question.

What makes a 6.2 different from a 6..?

 

[G_Govan]

A woman is a woman regardless of what her physical appearance is. Fat women just need to work harder to get what they want.

If fat women are finding you attractive, then fit women are *also* finding you attractive. However, fit women don't need to work for a man's attention which is why they don't approach you. YOU need to approach them.

This all day.

I used to get angry when women I struggled to give the time of day were engaging me like they had a chance, until I got good at reading IOIs.

More attractive women are going to be much more subtle ...because they can. Some lesser SMV women will also try to drive up their price by mimicking the behavior of more attractive women.

There was a chick who worked at a fast food joint I frequented and I noticed whenever she'd hand me my food she'd never say anything and looked like she was uncomfortable with me. Mind you, I never said anything to her other than "thank you." I wasn't interested in her at all so I never made prolonged eye contact either.

After maybe the 6th or 7th trip out there all of a sudden she hands me my food with a huge smile, like she expected me to ask her out or something. I wasn't attracted to her but she behaved like she was a hot chick worthy of my pursuit.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Des hit it on the head. Who cares if fat chicks dig you? You come off as smug.....I chatted up cute fat chicks before and bedded them because I wanted to. They weren't huge "fat chicks, but they were chubby cute faces and if they hit the gym their bodies had potential. a women once told me fat girls love good looking guys....take it how you want handle like you will

 

[Trump]

Hey guys,

Seriously, I am really sick of getting hit on by fat chicks...sometimes it feels like an "insult"...

Lower the ego bro. Obviously you are not getting hit on by thin hot chicks so it can't be an insult.

I don't know how to describe it and I never (cant remember one situation) get hit on by hot chicks.

I mean, I cant explain it to myself why I always get hit on by them...Its on the campus, in the gym, at night in the clubs.

I always stay friendly, but it really keeps me thinking what am I doing wrong?

You are not telling us if they are approaching you out of nowhere or if you are initiating the conversation.

I don't think they would be approaching you out of nowhere if you are not initiating. And you are likely relaxed when you initiate because you know there is no chance of sex with them. They get turned on.

 

[zorg198]

Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

Your answer is very true and very interesting. i would like to hear more about this... can you elaborate more about this in full content or send me a link so i could read about it?

 

[soden]

Your problem is one a lot of guys have: you're focusing on the WRONG stuff to try and attract women.

You're thinking logically that a woman is going to care about your statistics. Bachelor's Degree? Fitness coach? Bodyfat? Muscles? I guarantee you there is a high school drop out that's overweight somewhere getting boned by a Miss America clone. Why? Because he's learned the art of how to make a woman FEEL a certain way about him.

Should the things you mentioned put you at an advantage? Absolutely! But if you haven't learned how to talk to women in ways that have their panties wanting to drop, or how to walk/position your body/interact with them in flirtatious ways that make them FEEL something, all your "status" stuff is for naught. Stop leaning on your statistics to get you women and focus more on things you can do to turn them on emotionally.

Thanks for all your replies.

Maybe I used the wrong words in my first post. I am talking about fat chicks, not chubby girls. Obese girls =/ overweight girls in medical terms (I hope it means the same in english). I think "insult" wasn't the correct word either, I am not sure.
And I mentioned these facts about me to make clear that I am really the opposit of them, but I unterstand your point. I hope it doesnt' sound I chose my career to get hot women.


Most of the time they are initiating contact out of nowhere OR they are the friend of a HB or part of a group I and my friends are talking to.

I am not complaining about not getting Numbers, Dates, Kisses, Lays from HB7+. If I am iniating contact, I often got atleast a first Date.

I am complaining about getting hit on by the wrong women :nono: