I am planning to go to South America - Can you give me advice?

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In big cities like Buenos Aires you should go out around dark. Try nicer areas such as around Recoleta. Do you see all the hot chics digging in trash? Yes, hot as hell women come to this area to dig through TRASH. You can pick these women up. They do see you as a rich American/European, even if that's not close to being true.

However, guess what? If you cannot speak spanish, you have almost NO CHANCE!

The only women you can pickup are hookers or the ones off dating sites that speak english. Occasionally,you can find a gold digger on the side streets near the Galerías Pacífico just before the streets start clearing out @ night. She will probably screw you if you buy dinner. She may or may not expect a small tip in the morning. Sometimes they also work as female touts for the rip-off stripper bars. There is also a number of swinger events in that area. Some will admit single men. The smaller towns outside Buenos Aires alos have similar events. They are not well advertised and some will be couples only.

Now, let's say you head to Costa Rica. You think, hmmmmm, San Jose, I bet that'd be a good place. Guess what? They see tons of Euro/Americano tourists. You're not really a big deal, most of the people available to you (foriegners and desperate locals that come there to meet rich men) still don't speak English. The ones who do speak English will almost certainly only be after your wallet if they are into you. They will likely be working hooker bars or strip bars which are often *****houses as well. They don't need to do much to get your money, because another sucker tourist waits around each corner just waiting to kiss thier butts and hand out money like an ATM.
Venturing out onto your own in San Jose is an experience to not be forgotten. Hookers, robbers, and transvestites abound! Better check the package on any "women" you talk to on the street! You can pickup women here. You can pickup lots of women. They are not going to come to you. They are not hanging out in the gringo gulch. You have to go to them. You have to know Spanish. You have to knwo where they are. You have to have done a lot of research. You probably should have a companion with you. You will be risking your life. It is worth it if you do it right.

Botton line is that you need a lot of time to find the "sweet spots". You better get researching right away on that Spanish! You also need to talk to expats who really know the lay of the land in specific areas. Be leary of anyone who claims to be an expert on every ****ing city in two or more continents. I am not an expert on every city in the world. I do know that you either need some very specific info or leave the heavily touristed areas, preferably both! You may also want to hit some dating sites to find one or two english speaking ladies who can bring you into a social circle.
 

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yo isnt colombia one of the most dangerous places in the world? lol?
 

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I didn't realise its that hard. it probably not worth it. But i'd still like to go even if I don't get any girls. I think I better start cracking on the Spanish and Salsa and other dances. Why do you say cold approaches are difficult in South America?

Well I hope I can get more advice from you people.

PadawanPUA
 

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Originally posted by Kalel21
I'd advise PadawanPUA to stay away altogether. its not worth travelling half way accross the globe just to see latinas. Try Thai land or philipines or any of the asian countrys.if you still want to go then meet people who live there and use them to meet their sisters who probably has friends and they have friends too. also learn spanish and some salsa. but don;t think just because you a foreigner they will ine up for u. its just not like that at all.

you need to network in order to get a latina or have excellent dj skills because cold approaches are impossible and aren't easy. your actually better off using cold approaches in america or england then there.
Kal, you are a bigoted moron. while it is true thta you don't need to travel great distances to date latinas, the trip could be very worthwhile, depending on how resourceful Paddy is. And what makes you think that Thai has hott girls and latinas aren't? Subjectivity sucks, man.:down:
 

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Do not drink the tap water. The fruit punches taste really good, but they use tap water to make them. Do not even brush your teeth with the tap water. You will get sick.

Don't take pictures of government buildings, don't wear a Che Guevara t-shirt, unless you know for sure you're in the right neighborhood. When asking for the price of a product, ask a fellow customer to get the price for you. If the store owner hears a foreign accent, he will raise the price immediately.

And as for women, learn to dance. Trust me.

I've studied spanish and been to several latin american countries
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Kal, you are a bigoted moron. while it is true thta you don't need to travel great distances to date latinas, the trip could be very worthwhile, depending on how resourceful Paddy is. And what makes you think that Thai has hott girls and latinas aren't? Subjectivity sucks, man.:down:
wavejams007 im not bigoted, go back and re-read the post. i never said that latinas weren't good looking and i never said one is better than the other. few months ago i had the honour of sleeping with a brazilian chick and they are damn fine.

alot of men make the sad mistake of making flights to south america thinking they are going shag all these birds and the ladies are going to flock a them but it aint true. women from down there really don't need foreign men and just because your a gringo doesn't mean its going to be any easier. women are women at the end of the day and you need to have serious game down there. in fact my mate told me you need more game down there than here. if however you find the right chick on the first day then all the more power to do. but please please don't think that you can just walk up or use a cold approach and that it will easy to talk to them.

you need to do 4 basic things. learn spanish, learn to dance, network and make friends so they can introduce you to their friends and they in turn introduce you to their friends. and learn dj, david deangelo and mystery material. if you can game chicks here you have a better chance. I recommend you go for 2 months rather than 3 weeks. its not enough time and each city means you have to make friends and network from there.

keep sarging fellow dj's
 

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The "don't drink the water" advice is no joke. Other ways to accidentally ingest tap water are ice in drinks or from a freshly-washed salad.

H Pylori probably won't kill you, but it is not curable. Once you get infected, you carry the bacteria forever.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=9812169&dopt=Abstract
Helicobacter pylori is the most common chronic bacterial infection in humans. In less developed nations, e.g., most South American countries, the prevalence of H pylori infection ranges from 70% to 90% of the population.
 

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I'm not worryied about all the health and safety. I have already read about that. I just want to know about them hot hot hot latinas and if I need to work more on my pick up skills.
 

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HMmmm

South America has SOOOO much to offer. Great waterfalls, great mountains, and hot women of all flavors. It's definitly worth going. You can definitely get hotter chicks interested down there than in the US. I have never really hung out in the UK, so I won't comment on that. However, it is considerably different.

Central America offers some great things like hot springs, exotic jungles & animals, beaches, etc.

Given a choice, I'd just stay in South America. That's where the fanatastic cities are located. That's where the most dramatic mountains and waterfalls are located.

You should really start trying to make contact with some women right now. Find some that speak English. You've got to get on that Spanish like a mad man, though. You need to get in a class right away. You need to go download Pimsleur I & II. You'll also need some accelerated training once you get flown in, so bdget a few hundred dollars for that. You should train at least an hour a day for 3 months to get the bare minimum basic Spanish skills down, so you can at least try to talk to someone.

There are still places in Central and South America where women would be very easy. I'm not an expert on this, so I am not going to pretend to be. When I visit these areas there are several experts I get advice on from other forums. Please search these people out. I really want you to have a great time. It really will be one of the best experiences of your entire life. It is worth the effort. Just realize you do have to work very hard on Spanish and you do need to do alot of research before leaving home. Ok I'll shut up now.
 

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Originally posted by Kalel21
wavejams007 im not bigoted, go back and re-read the post. i never said that latinas weren't good looking and i never said one is better than the other. few months ago i had the honour of sleeping with a brazilian chick and they are damn fine.

alot of men make the sad mistake of making flights to south america thinking they are going shag all these birds and the ladies are going to flock a them but it aint true. women from down there really don't need foreign men and just because your a gringo doesn't mean its going to be any easier. women are women at the end of the day and you need to have serious game down there. in fact my mate told me you need more game down there than here. if however you find the right chick on the first day then all the more power to do. but please please don't think that you can just walk up or use a cold approach and that it will easy to talk to them.

you need to do 4 basic things. learn spanish, learn to dance, network and make friends so they can introduce you to their friends and they in turn introduce you to their friends. and learn dj, david deangelo and mystery material. if you can game chicks here you have a better chance. I recommend you go for 2 months rather than 3 weeks. its not enough time and each city means you have to make friends and network from there.

keep sarging fellow dj's

Thank you for not turning this into a flame war, although icould have unwittedly started it with the moron part. Sorry about that. Now that you explained your view, it makes sense. Thing is, Gringos(americans) can be very sacreligious in foreign countries, and butchering our languages is not cool, despite how funny it can be. This is not to say that we should hate those evil monkey gringos, I am an American Citizen myself, but investing in at least learning the language of another culture would be appreciated. Good points, Kel.
 

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yes, but U need to know spanish and understand the culture, and that is something that can't be really explained here.
 

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I hope you have the information you need about s.america. i think its obvious that just because you are a foreigner doesn't mean they will fall fo you. you can't just approach them. you need to network to get the good ones. the not so good ones are the ones that are too easy. all the best and feel free to pm me for more advice.
 

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Man, you gotta pull a Che Guevara. Buy a piece of **** motorcycle and drive around South America in it. Crash it a couple times.
 

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LOL thats funny
 

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LIke most people already said, you need to learn how to dance. Dont go around wearing lots of jewelry and with lots of cash. dress nicely to go to clubs. Also there´s no risk of a kidnap if you go to colombia, unless your family is filthy rich and someone recognizes you there and plans your kidnap, which is kinda impossible. the most important thing DON¨T GO ON APRIL, it will be winter in south america. right now its december and in bolivia its hot as hell, imagine colombia, brasil etc. You´ll love brasil its, people there are so friendly (brasilians are so ****y and confident you´ll have to have your game together if you want to stand out)and girls are fvcking hot and fun. Its gonna be difficult to communicate if you dont know portuguese, if you know some spanish that will help since those two languages share similar words.

BTW anyone know of some LATIN seduction forums?
 
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Originally posted by PadawanPUA
ok back to the subject at hand. I have searched the archives inside out and found abit of useful information, but I'd like to learn more about latinas, particularly those from these 5 countries and would appreciate it. I know that latinas particularly favor men with blonde hair and blue eyes but I have relatively dark skin (abit like Denzil Washington but much better looking :) ) so I wanted to know if they are tolerence of foreign black people at all and how bad is the racism down there?I realise that all women are the same but does being a foreigner give you an advantage in meeting more Latinas? And are latinas really all that different from our western women?

Well that will be all for know my fellow DJ's thanks in anticipation of your replies.

Note:If I don't reply fast its because my time zone is different so I will post as soon as I can. Thanks and God Bless.
its not about colour its more about class in south amrica however it may put you at a slight disadvantage simply becuase you are black. I hate to break it to you but its true. :(
 

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Words from the horses mouth...

I'd stay away from Columbia. I had a few columbian roommates in college and knew quite a few columbian girls, all of them told me to stay away from columbia and wouldn't like invite me down.

Why?

Well, even though they were wealthy enough to visit the US and go to college on ALL cash (most foreign exchange students come from serious dough, esp. Latin American countries because the exchange rate is so UNFAVORABLE for them, that they must be truly wealthy to afford life in the US for the years they are here), they told me straight up more kidnappings happen in Columbia than anywhere in the world.

On top of that, they LOVE to kidnap Americans because on Average, we're more wealthy than most Latin American people, per capita, hence, ransom.

The other Columbian girl I knew as a Foreign Exchange student, had her Uncle and Cousin kidnap, BOTH were killed and never recovered.

My buddy is only returning to Ecuador to get married, then returning to the US. In Columbia his family owned a series of shoe shops (about 100+) and would often go through the malls taking pictures of how we did business in shoe stores.

I'd LOVE to go down there, but all it takes is ONE bad trip to fvck your life up. Not to mention, Columbia is politically UNSTABLE, always warring with many political factions, drug lords, and rebels. Even when I was in college, the gas/petro lines were being blown up because the gorilla rebels didn't like the President of the country.

As mentioned by other guys, SEEK out safe venues, and don't be so glib as to sacrifice LIFE for Pvssy. There's safer venues, though they may require more game. I'm with you, I love LATIN women, and some spots might be ok, but go with MANY guy friends, learn some SPANISH so you're not CLUELESS.

Did we not see the Aruban girl get kidnapped?

I personally lost a friend in Bolivia who was volunteering in the Peace Corps. It became an international incident and the state reps. were involved. He's been missing for 4+ years, so it's safe to say he's dead, been killed, or kidnapped.



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