I am in my early 30s yet apparently look 45. Chances with younger women?

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How do you know that 45 yo woman wasn't ball-busting? Get a skin care regiment and go after girls who like older men.
Maybe the 45 year old was just using a neg? Some women do that too. Or just ball-busting, like you say. Or maybe she was delusional. It's like the old joke when someone goes to their high school reunion and says "Why are all these old people here?".

I agree on the skin care regimen also. What could it hurt? And it might give the OP a little confidence. Do something to improve yourself.
Early 30s is prime of life, as long as you have put some work into yourself, you should be able to date women of all ages.
 

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For privacy reasons, I won't post a photo of myself on main. If this forum has a DM feature, I am willing to DM you a photo.
DM me ill see if i can determine the issue
 

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Sorry. I mentally checked out the moment op said he would rather pay to f0ck someone´s grandmother than a young, hot, fertile poozy.

You guys have fun with this one. Best of luck.
 

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I wouldn't read too much into it if this is the only woman who has said this. Imo there's insecurity involved on her part, aside from being an escort, she's placing restrictions on who she phucks that aren't safety-related (i.e., "no black guys" that some escorts will do as a policy). There's no reason to do that unless she feels uneasy about her job, so this could be a manifestation of her unease.
Back when I was 26, a different escort was surprised when I told her I was 26. She said she would have guessed older (but she never said how much older).
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Back when I was 26, a different escort was surprised when I told her I was 26. She said she would have guessed older (but she never said how much older).
If you've always looked older, maybe try the Daddy angle.
 

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OP just DM'd me a couple pics. Doesn't look 45 but more like late 30s. You just look vaguely unhealthy in that area around your eyes and cheeks which in my own experience are the first to go if I my exercise/sleep/diet aren't on point. Might just be genetics though it's not really obvious what can be done. I'd probably consider a skincare routine or maybe even talk with an esthetician.

Are you a vegan?
 
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Broooo. You better start using my secret weapon, the CoQ10! I don't wanna hear you whine and b1tch over the price of it either you fud. Kick your 3 pack a day filthy habit, Wild Turkey 101 binges and Bud Light 12 oz. hammer curls. Put in real work. Bust the chops of these young fems you hit on too. Don't be afraid to push the envelope, they gotta get that rude awakening jolt too so they can grow up. It's a dog-eat-dog world like I said on here before. If they can't handle your man chatter, then pivot to their besties and their mothers. Trust me, you don't have to pay $300 to bang their mothers, that ish was always free for me ROFL...
 

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If you've always looked older, maybe try the Daddy angle.
The funny thing is, during my 3rd year of high school, I got mistaken for a freshman all the time. When I was 20, I got mistaken for 17.

Then as I got further into my 20s, I aged like a ton of bricks.
 

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OP just DM'd me a couple pics. Doesn't look 45 but more like late 30s. You just look vaguely unhealthy in that area around your eyes and cheeks which in my own experience are the first to go if I my exercise/sleep/diet aren't on point. Might just be genetics though it's not really obvious what can be done. I'd probably consider a skincare routine or maybe even talk with an esthetician.

Are you a vegan?
Prepare to be shocked: I apply an anti-aging cream every night.

Imagine what I'd look like without the cream.
 

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Broooo. You better start using my secret weapon, the CoQ10! I don't wanna hear you whine and b1tch over the price of it either you fud. Kick your 3 pack a day filthy habit, Wild Turkey 101 binges and Bud Light 12 oz. hammer curls. Put in real work. Bust the chops of these young fems you hit on too. Don't be afraid to push the envelope, they gotta get that rude awakening jolt too so they can grow up. It's a dog-eat-dog world like I said on here before. If they can't handle your man chatter, then pivot to their besties and their mothers. Trust me, you don't have to pay $300 to bang their mothers, that ish was always free for me ROFL...
CoQ10, eh? I just Googled it. Worth looking into.

I'd love to bang some MILFs for free.

The last woman I got free sex with was in her early 40s.
 

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OP just DM'd me a couple pics. Doesn't look 45 but more like late 30s. You just look vaguely unhealthy in that area around your eyes and cheeks which in my own experience are the first to go if I my exercise/sleep/diet aren't on point. Might just be genetics though it's not really obvious what can be done. I'd probably consider a skincare routine or maybe even talk with an esthetician.

Are you a vegan?
Oh yeah, and I forgot to answer your question of whether I'm a vegan.

No I'm not. I'm guessing you suspected I was a vegan because of how thin I am.
 

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Do you sleep 8 hrs a night?
 

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Multiple reasons.

In my experience, older escorts are better at the job than younger ones. When you're having sex with a woman who is only with you because you're paying her (as opposed to genuinely desiring you), you want the best experience possible.

I've had a condom slip off with an escort. I've also had a condom break with an escort. Those 2 instances scared me. The last thing I want is to get an escort pregnant. I don't want to get any woman pregnant for that matter. But an escort is someone you really don't want to impregnate. Yes, I'm aware 45 can still technically get pregnant. It's a lot less likely, however. Also, escorts are famous for lying about age. It's quite possible she's older than 45 (thus even less likely to get pregnant).

When it comes to unpaid women, I'm open to older or younger. The reasons outlined above are why I prefer older when it comes to escorts.
why is pregnancy your major concern and not like HIV?
 

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