I AM DISGUSTED WITH THE ADVICE ON THE MAIN PAGE: "My Personal Resume"

[Marlimus]

My Personal Resume
by G-Man


I met a girl at work about 6 months ago and we had a couple of very nice dates. The first one, I'd say, was the best first date I'd ever been on.

I wasn't initially super-attracted to this particular woman, and she wasn't what anyone would consider to be a "10". But I enjoyed talking to her so much that an attraction grew.

This is the first time I was willing to date a "tweener". A few pounds either way would make her really hot or really not. And I was proud of myself for not being shallow. That being said, I'm no "10" myself.

After our second date, I just got a really weird vibe. I asked her if we were just out on a date, or just out as "friends". She thought we were just friends.

We all know how that word, coming from a woman, feels. Personally, I'd rather get punched in the face than hear that ever again. Needless to say, my self-esteem was wounded.

Anyway, being a good sales rep, I summed up for her, in a light-hearted kind of way, all of the reasons I thought she should give me a try. I told her, "I'm 6'4" tall, good body, nice guy, six-figure income, witty, smart, lots of cash in the bank." She didn't disagree.

But then I realized something. I've got a pretty solid personal resume. I just never said it out loud before. This chick was turning down what was probably the best offer she would ever get!

I felt better immediately.

So guys, if you get turned down by a "tweener" or a "10", forget about it. Remind yourself of your good points, and get back out there.

Not every woman has to like you. Ultimately, you only need one.

Oh God, where to begin? First a guy rattles of a resume to a girl as though she's the CEO of ***** Inc. obviously begging for approval, then he encourages men to do the same, only to conclude that a man 'needs' a woman. :cuss:

 

[Bvbidd]

He refers to himself as a nice guy.

 

[Docs]

I must say something.

Read it again, you missed the entire point of the resume.

 

[Socialreject]

Well the choice of words in the article isn't all that great...

But the essence is just a motivational article. The writer just wants guys to snap back to THEIR world when they are starting to feel the b1tch shield going up... instead of linguering around in her world in a downward spiral.

But yeah, all in all, if a clueless person reads this article, he's definitly going to get some wrong ideas about it. Then again, nothing says he should be reading just that one article ;-)

 

[insidious]

I know what you mean, I have some ambivalent feelings about this.

On the one hand, be proud of yourself, of what you have to offer and of what you have accomplished. Realize that you are no slouch.

On the other hand, there is no reason to justify your self-esteem everytime you get shot down by some bytch.

Your "personal resume" should just be a part of your personality, much like your favorite color. It's not something you conciously pull out of storage when your poor feelings have been slapped around.

 

[far from average]

Who goes out with a guy and lets him buy her dinner and then thinks they're just friends? Who takes their friend out regularly and treats them to everything?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^ALOT of women.

He didn't make his intentions clear that's why I'm against this C and F and neg hits crap.It comes off as freindly and innocent.

I'd rather go for full blown compliments and sexual advances right off the bat.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

^ALOT of women.

He didn't make his intentions clear that's why I'm against this C and F and neg hits crap.It comes off as freindly and innocent.

I'd rather go for full blown compliments and sexual advances right off the bat.

I agree...........c and f and neg hits are best used for conceited bytches who think that their shyt don't stink. For most girls, making them feel sexy as all hell is the key to getting laid. The problem with nice guys is they try to befriend these girls first and then BAM!........... one day they just poor their heart out to them or try to kiss them out of nowhere. It's much better to let them know from the get go what you want.