I Am BROKEN..Please HELP ME

[Die Hard]

never mind...

 

[The Message Boy]

Warrior,

I'm going through the DJ Bible again, KillaPethog's shorter version. In Chapter Four of "What Attracts Females" it says:

"Things that women look for by Mystery Method

Looks and height. Women are attracted to taller and better-looking men. However, you don’t necessarily have to have these attributes to succeed with women. There are playaz out there who aren’t very tall or attractive but they can still hang. Looks and height are important but they are not deal breakers."


Okay, but with THIS girl it was. Warrior, as I start this new journal, can you or someone please explain to me, do looks really matter or not? In other words, if I'm really just a 5 at average and 6 at best in looks, relatively short (5'9 or 5'10) is that a deal breaker?

It was with this girl.

 

[Warrior74]

Warrior, yes I am where do I start.

Do I post pics or what? Send you some of the notes I will send to women, what?

1.Start a self improvement journal on here. Create a new thread for it.

2. Do a self assessment. Honestly I really don't care about posting a pic, you know you look. You can if you want to. Post it in your journal. You can't change your face anyway. If you have acne, you already know you should be getting that under control. If your teeth are stained and yellow you already know what you should do about it. If you have a crappy or stupid hair cut you know what to do. The only pics that are gonna do you any good is if you post pics of what you wear when you go out to meet women so you can get feedback on your fashion sense, or what kind of pics you post on your online dating sites and you want feedback on them.

3. Start working out if you don't already. If your not in a gym, find a gymless workout program online that you can do until you join one. Exercise makes you feel better about yourself.

4. Start pinpointing the weak point in your interactions (by posting the truth in your journal). Listen to the advice people are giving you.

5. Make a list of all of your positive qualities. You have to know what is good about you before you can sell it. Like you said..you don't believe in your product..so now is the time to go back to the basics and rediscover what is so good about you. What do you bring to the table? No matter how small. You have to find the positives and focus on those while fixing your negatives. Post your list in your journal.

6. Learn to cut off negative thoughts...when you get one. Push it aside, replace it with something positive about you from your list. That way you don't get stuck on the negative. We all have negative points and positive points but if you only see one and not the others then you're not gonna be in balance.

7. What are you goals in life? How are you doing on those? Post about it in your journal.

8. List your interest and hobbies. What have you done on them? Or are women your interests and hobbies. You already know that's not the way forward. Put that in your journal.

It's time to build a whole life.

So start that journal...make that list, go do fifty push ups. Right now. Get it done. move! If I don't see it, I'm writing you off as a troll or someone who just wants to whine about their problems and not take action. It's easy to whine and complain, its hard to actually do something and change. Let's see what you're made of.

 

[The Message Boy]

In that Chapter Four where it lists all of the things that attract women, I have ALL OF THOSE, except I do not have really good looks and I'm not tall.

Everything else on that list, I already have.

 

[TheAsianLover]

1. You need to toughen up. I've had a girl tell me I had a small d*ck. Did I give a sh*t? Nope, I just f*cked the b*tch.

2. You're not short. 5'10? Sheesh... I'm 5'7 and I've f*cked a lot of women.

3. You talked to her for 6 months. Way too long. I get the phone number under 3-4 emails. I call her up and invite her to my place. I don't deal with that dating bullsh*t.

 

[Slickster]

Wow!! Get a grip!

You fell in love with a girl you met online and when you met face to face it didn't work.

No big surprise there.

Don't be too harsh on yourself.

Wise up and don't let your emotions rule you like that.

Why should you give a fvck what some random chick thinks about you and your car?

In the grand scheme she means absolutely nothing to you or your life.

You've been around here long enough to know better.

There are plenty of women out there that think you are attractive and great.

Quit wasting your time with this negative BS. Go find them.

It really is THAT simple.


P.S. Next time a chick gets mean and starts insulting you give her a friendly poke in the belly and say "Whatever muffin top." and leave.

 

[Solomon]

Hold up a month ago I saw a thread of you talking about spinning 4 or 5 plates how do you go from that to a hooker?

I really wanna see a picture of you holding a sign saying "I am message boy" seriosuly.....

 

[synergy1]

Hold up a month ago I saw a thread of you talking about spinning 4 or 5 plates how do you go from that to a hooker?

I really wanna see a picture of you holding a sign saying "I am message boy" seriosuly.....

I can't believe people take this guy seriously. First he posts about how to make money in a failing real estate market, than he talks about killing women, now he's going EMO over one chick over the internet. This guy is a loony, troll or not.

 

[Solomon]

fail

I can't believe people take this guy seriously. First he posts about how to make money in a failing real estate market, than he talks about killing women, now he's going EMO over one chick over the internet. This guy is a loony, troll or not.

Synergy I'm gald I'm not the only one
This guy had a thread a couple weeks ago bragging about fuccing other guys women then not to long ago about spinning plates, how do you go from that to being "broken" in a hotle room with "hookers"?

uuggh These frauds in the community make me sick. the sad part is there is some guy out there who really needs help this guy just wants attention

 

[Desert Fox]

400 women??

Dude are you serious? 400? Recheck that. Might be closer to ONE.

Sounds like you have oneitis since you care so damn much about this girl's reaction.

I've had oneitis before, maybe twice, it sucked. But once I focused on 2 or more girls it did not affect me 1/100th as much as if I was just focused on one girl.

Even recently I was just focused on 2 girls and got rejected by one, but it didn't phase me as bad as I thought. I was hurt yea, for a few hours, then I got tired, slept, woke up, put sh1t in perspective like a man and found other girls I was interested in after mentally erasing that first girl and nexting her. I also noted she had her chance and she'd have to start at the back of the line to earn my respect and attention if she were to pursue anything.

So yeah man, I doubt you had 400 girls. Messaging people on facebook doesn't count as an approach unless you strike up convos with them. Anyone can mass spam 400 girls.

Look dude, this sounds like an issue that goes much much deeper than women. You should focus on yourself more. You say you could count on yourself, but look at how this little girl's rude comments have shaken you to the core. You are panicking on here man, it is sad and painful to watch. You should make yourself a fvcking cement pillar threaded with titanium alloy covered with bullet proof kevlar and a nuke radiation fallout shield. That's who you have to be on the INSIDE. Then when some girls shouts dumb things at you, it will bounce off. You must be your own pillar of strength in this world. Your parents can help, your friends (you mentioned you have none) can help, but when the sh1t hits the FAN it is up to YOU.

Step it up. Right now you're living a pitiful life, feeling sorry for yourself. We can all do great thigns if only we just TRIED.

Stop holding yourself back. Go all out. When you think something is "good enough" and you're about to stop, SLAP YOURSELF and I mean PHYSICALLY SLAP YOURSELF and keep going for 10 more minutes. Working out and you're tired? Add 10 more minutes, you're stopping early because you've conditioned yourself to be a PVSSY your whole life, backing down at the first sign of resistance. Tired of studying? SHUT THE FVCK UP AND HIT THE BOOKS FOR 10 MORE MINUTES.

I know this works because I am the same way. My parents used to tell me I was lazy and without them, I would fail. They were right. It was like I was walking up the stairs, but leaning backwards the whole way up. The only thing keeping me from falling was my parents helping me with advice and support (this was waay back in grade school btw). Anyways, I realized that if I didn't want to fall to my death (figuratively) I'd have to lean forward in EVERYTHING I did. In ALL aspects of my life. To be honest, there are some aspects in my life where I lean back or am static, but I've changed a lot and continue to change.

You need to dig deep man. Every person has trying times, some big some small, but to that person, there is no doubt that their difficulty is a mountain despite seeming like a molehill to others. This is your time to prove everyone wrong and dig deep. No one can do this for you, pick yourself up and become better. Doesn't matter better at what, just become better than the person you are this moment. Our goal in life should simply be to be better than the men we were yesterday. Then nothing can stop you. GOOD LUCK! :rockon:

 

[amoka]

I smell troll.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I've been smelling troll for months now.

 

[Solomon]

Message Boy is not a troll, I repeat Message boy is not a troll


check the IP's

peace

 

[Veridin]

1.
Snap out of it...you didn't lose an Arm in a Motorcycle accident.

2.
If you feel sorry for yourself, go do to the nearest hospital, go over to the HOSPICE section...and sit and talk with those people who are dying of cancer.

3.
Perhaps, you need some medication. Anyone who gets this upset over an internet date...might be unstable.

4.
Its a tough world out there...better get used to it.

5.
Better get some self-esteem going for yourself...or this world will eat you up alive.

6.
Make some real life friends....not just cyber buddies

7.
Go to School...get an education

8.
You've been brainwashed....better get started on the above.

Exactly, Todd. And who would get that upset over a girl from online anyway? And who would post about this while he is in a hotel room with a prostitute in the bathroom ... come on, I am surprised he doesn't claim to be posting from the ledge outside the window on the tenth floor, with the crew from the fire department blowing up the mattress beneath him.

I mean, this was NOT just any old chick. What she said mattered. And now I feel:

> That I drive a chick car and now everytime I drive it I'm getting laughed at inside other people's heads.

> That ALL of my INSECURITIES WERE TRUE, I will NEVER succeed with women. And in thise case, it's because of **** I can't control, being UGLY or too short.

So, it's like, how DO I MOVE ON? How does approaching another girl HELP if she will have the same thoughts?

I mean, I must have (over the last three months) I must have messenged over 300 girls online and approached over 50 in person. That's 350 girls.

Riiight.

 

[Tazman]

Message Boy is not a troll, I repeat Message boy is not a troll


check the IP's

peace

Doesn't mean he isn't a troll. I'm actually starting to believe he is, but I'll give it to him, he's done a decent job of it.

 

[Warrior74]

Doesn't mean he isn't a troll. I'm actually starting to believe he is, but I'll give it to him, he's done a decent job of it.

We'll know for sure. If he follows any of the advice given then he's worth spending time on. If not, you can ignore him. That's what I'll be doing anyway. I just gave him the same advice I would give anyone...I noticed he hasn't been back and if he comes back whining and complaining he's not worth wasting another word on. That's my last word on him until I see results. Done. No more time to give.

 

[romangod]

I smell troll.

He's either a troll or one whacked out dude who's totally confused about everything and anything.

He's been a pompous, condescending dork to others here while defending how great women are on other threads. Then he comes whining for help when everything he thought he believed about women and himself was wrong.

He needs more help than anyone here can give him.


Cheers!

 

[sodbuster]

I'm speachless. A know it all in the other threads,suddenly knows nothing. Maybe you'll listen to us old farts who've lived life next time.

 

[Zunder]

Okay guys, I know that I have been *****ing about this site but I need a Warrior, a JoPhil, a Rollo, a any ****ing body to help me.

I am BROKEN.

A girl that I have been talking to for 6 months, I met her online, we finally met up tonight and she goes into how I look nothing like my picture online and that she never wants to talk to me again. We were close and grew close. She said my car (2005 Dodge Neon, brand new, chrome), looks like a girl car and that I'm too short.

I know there's a number of things that are wrong here, including the fact that it took me 6 months to finally meet up with her but I've been busy.

I am BROKEN. She was a totally different person. Mind you, this girl is the ONLY girl I have met off online that said I didn't look like my picture. It threw me out of left field.

Everythign I THOUGHT I knew about women, the love, the honest, the pure-ness, I no longer see that anymore. She was bitter, cold, and just hated me. But literally 15 minutes prior, we were in love.

I know this sounds stupid and it sounds whiny, but I am HURT. I am BROKEN. I drove around for 2 hours just driving. I am right now literally sitting on my laptop in a hotel room with a hooker. I kid you not, I'm typing this up while she's in the bathroom.

I ....gush guys, I've preach so much around here but everything I thought I knew I don't know anymore.

I told you guys before that my BIGGEST problem with women is that I meet them and it takes ALONG time to close them. Very rarely do I get "rejections."

This rejection just hurt me. And, gosh, I just don't know. I just don't know I mean, what do I do? What do I say?
I mean just, idk, this girl was a TOTALLY different person. I had my mouth open wide it was....I don't know.

I just literally can't, I don't know.

You are a troll. If you are not a troll then you are an idiot. If you are not an idiot, then you are a douchebag. You been talking a whole lot of "know it all" cr@p on here, and now you come out with this pvssy stuff.
I offered you help once, you continued to act like a smartalec.
Two words: P!ss off.

 

[Warrior74]

there you have it. Trolled hard.