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TheGambino

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Hi fellas,

I am back, better then ever but still not where I want to be. Ive built myself up, my business, me as a person, got a good social circle and been getting better dates and better women in my life in general. Since I did the self improvement, gym finally getting in a good shape, more experience, so much more relaxed.
Also understand that the posts I make are always about women that don't have super high interest that's why you make a post anyway in the first place, or lost interest for whatever reason. The women that I had good relationships with or I ghost myself will never be written about.

I also only approach HB8+ that's why my success rate is lower because I only got for very attractive ones since I just skip everything below even if they look like easy lays for me. I want the best of the best.

That again, I have to admit that my frame is not 100% on point. I still need to work on that, my inner game is good. I feel good about myself, I feel confident, I have no issues whatsoever, I am a human that lives his best life.

Now a two girls I was dating both moved on, one lost interest, one I found her a little too fat and told her to stop because I wasnt sure enough etc.

I give a quick example of what happened today with another woman I was gaming.

Approached a woman 1 month ago, flirted, talked, got her Instagram and asked her out. She said shes in a relationship but it's not working super well. I told her to get in touch if she changes her mind and she did. She says lets go out baby, me and my boyfriend broke up.

So we scheduled for saturday, (normally I dont do saturdays on a first date but I had no plans at all so I went along). She flakes with an excuse but offers to reschedule for sunday. Ofcourse I declined because otherwise I look like I dont have nothing to do, too availble and we schedule for today.

Then she sends a chat this morning that she wants to see me so bad then 2 hours later she sends a voice chat.

*I am so sorry, you must think im a idiot for saying this but Im going on a short trip with my girls tommorow and have a lot to do today so we cant go out.

me: no problem, have a good trip

Her: We can do an hour earlier though, I want to see you and then i will be on time for some preperations for my trip also.

Me: (I was thinking, best was to do the takeaway here because she already flaked once but I decided to go along with it because 18.00 was working great for me also) I know the best was to say if your busy lets reschedule for some other time

her response: Sorry cant do 18.00 also, im just too busy I have to go to tanning studio, prepare etc.

*fvcking tanning studio serious?

I replied

Ok

*If she ever contacts me ill say ''hey good to here from u, sounds cool to meet up, come to my place at 8'', thats all she gets now. Yes is escalation and f*cking, no is next.

Anyway, I feel that I am not holding women for longer then months that are HB8s+, I can get them to follow me on social media, like a profile pic or two but some dont want to date and string me along.

I need to work on more report building true phone and I am going to continue working out hard to keep in best shape to attract best women in general.

Also Im going to work more on frame frame frame.

Lets do this.
 

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@TheGambino You are a source of validation to this chic. She is more interested in being validated than actually going out with you. Waste of time.

Also what's your SMV?
 

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hit the gym more.
make more money.
There's nothing else anyone here can say to you, tbh
 

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;)Paypal me 10 grand and I'll teach you the ways of raising yourself to a much higher SMV... But no refunds!
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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;)Paypal me 10 grand and I'll teach you the ways of raising yourself to a much higher SMV... But no refunds!
All of that can be learned on here for free.
 

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I like that you are only trying to date 8s and up. That's good. I think you are missing some signs here though with this new one. What I see in her behavior is she's a female "player". I've dealt with a few of those and once I figure out (pretty quickly) that they are female "players", I move on and don't contact them again. Why? Because you will never win this game. You are already in a weak position by what she did the first time. She's clearly playing you. She's already going behind her boyfriends back. You and her make plans. Something better comes up and she texts you and lies to you and you reschedule only to have her change plans again. Dude. Female player. Find an 8 that isn't a player.
 

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Why exactly makes you think you deserve the best of the best? Do you wanna brag when you have that woman to your friends? Cause that screams of desperation for validation.

Are you the best of the best type of guy? Have you tried to date a cute 6-7s that will make you the king of your castle while you become the best version of yourself? Instead of going after those entitled women who think they deserve the best of the best too and only string men along with their pass traumas?

Are you letting life pass having your ego in the way of "I'm going for the best of the best"? Just some food for thoughts
Hi sir, no I dont want to brag to my friends. It only gives bad eyes, people that don't have what you have become jealous, even friends. I dont like that, I want an easy going life.

I am the best type of guy. I try to be top tier, top-G. So trying to get a shredded body and money and groomed and nice. I have tried 6-7s and I think you are right but I like to fvck the best looking women because it simply makes me more h0rney, more energy for cex, more excitement, more greatness. I don't want mediocres so Im doing my best to surpass that. Im seeing that im going up the ladder but I am definetley not there. Like I said I get the numbers, Instagrams, get them to follow me back, so they respect my confidence but still don't get them all to dates or in bed. Yes the 6s and 7s are going with me, most of them. But a 8 for me could be a 10 for you or a 3 for you. I am just trying to get a 8/9 to commit but its hard.

Its not my ego. I have a business, everything taken care of so I feel like I deserve the best so I have to work harder myself to get a higher SMV.
 

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@TheGambino You are a source of validation to this chic. She is more interested in being validated than actually going out with you. Waste of time.

Also what's your SMV?
I go to the gym, I look good, not shredded. I want lower bodyfat, I see as I get more lean, I get more IoIs, more women giving chosing signals and looking my way. Also you are right, that girl I wrote about keeps me as an option, otherwise she wouldnt break dates.

My SMV is a 7.5 imo. I am good looking, not tall but I make up for it with money and social skills. Still I need to work on my frame.
 

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hit the gym more.
make more money.
There's nothing else anyone here can say to you, tbh
This is 100% on point. It just how it works. I encourage everyone to go to the gym and take that very very seriousley. It helped me a lot.
 

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Well said, then keep doing what you're doing, experience teaches best, just takes one result to increase confidence, then its exponentially easy.
Thanks a lot, I hope your living the best life and get most of what you want.
 
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